Let me just start off saying that I'm not a violent, ill-tempered person, and I never go around raising hell and this MyTake is not my intention to do so. It's simply my take of SOME (not all) of the guys on here.
During my time on this site, I've managed to find myself in a spite with nothing but guys. Never a girl. And it's never been my fault. It seems as though guys come out of the woodwork ready to attack. They target me because of my age and gender.
Some girls can attest to this. It has probably happened to you or maybe you've witnessed it.
I know they go after me because of my age and gender because they always find a way to bring it up no matter how irrelevant and unrelated to the subject at hand. Then once I debunk their "it's because of your age and gender" theory, they go after my grammar. Like lol dude can you be anymore obnoxious? Like come on, if you can't stick to the relative shit, then why are you even in my face? Oh I know because you're just mad. Bottled up hatred or nah?
Honestly, I feel as though these guys have a bruised ego. And it may just be my fault! Here's how:
1. Because I don't agree with them or their viewpoints.
These guys are either used to having a female feed into their "big headness" and not disagree with the bs they stay true to. And because I don't, they feel hurt and offended. What also adds fuel to the fire is that they can't stand being wrong.
2. Not being sexist or hating on my own gender.
"How dare she disagree! She must be punished! Burn the witch!", says the 40+ guy who thinks all females are retarded. Hey man, of course you know that's just not true, and I'm sorry you're that fucked up to the point where you truly believe that. But DO NOT expect me to agree with that line of thinking.
3. Bringing the facts to the table.
Elaborating more, I absolutely love proving these guys wrong, especially with facts! That's how I get to them the most. They feel as though they've just been stripped of every medal and piece of clothing they have. Sorry, not sorry. Can't argue with the facts. When I state the facts and figures and not just a popular opinion (like how often they do, smh), that's another cue for them to attack me personally. I'm prepared for the "hopefully you change your ways before you're an adult who doesn't matter" and the "I hope when you get older, you realize how foolish you are" and even the "dumb ______, so stupid. Grow up." Okay, not one time did I call you out of your name, so far I've managed to keep calm and stay relevant. So who really needs to grow up hmmmmm?
4. Just by me being an 18 year old.
I'm not supposed to have an opinion. That or either I don't know enough about anything in life to have one....that's according to them. When I do, it makes their brains melt.
5. Just by me being a girl.
Here we go again, not supposed to have an opinion or disagree. Especially if I disagree with a dude. Oh vey! All hell done broke loose! This female has just disagreed with a man....must be a witch...that or a feminist lesbo. (LOL! Wow, gotta love this guy's logic right?)
Okay, in conclusion, I'm not a lesbian nor am I a feminist. I have my own thoughts. I live life just as well as any other person. I have thoughts and opinions and experiences. I'm also not closed minded and too full of myself to accept proven facts. I'm not always right, I'm not always wrong and neither is anyone else. And I know not only guys have this train of thought, but in MY opinion, they are the main ones who're too stuck in their ways and just feel like their never and can never be wrong. Not all guys, just some.