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I'll take your word for it because im a beta male
Beta orbiter alert
Insecure male alert.
lol sure kid, you'll learn the truth the hard way.
Nope, he was right at calling you insecure.
no he won't. he'll probably live a happier life than any lame dude subscribing to alpha beta mindset.
@Lonewolf_1296 I really like how people with zero real life experience parrot female talking points thinking they are on the inside track.
I have plenty of success, not that I have anything to prove to you.
On the other hand, the kid at 19 hasn't been in the game long enough to have an opinion. He hasn't likely been married for years or have several cohabiting relationships, so he should probably keep his opinions to himself until he at least has some experience with which to draw from. :D
In fact, in reading his answers to many questions, it doesn't seem like he has much experience even in dating or casual sex.
You are single. What "success" in relationships have you had?
@Anno_Domini I'm single right now, I've had numerous relationships ranging from 7 years to 2 years in duration. Overall I've been in relationships for longer than I've been single in the time that I've been over 15.
@Anno_Domini What about yourself? What qualifies your opinion?
One two year+ relationship, and we're getting married. No baggage.
She has no baggage, either.
@Anno_Domini Okay, to you I'd say that if you can keep it together past 5 years of marriage, then you have some real world experience and insight into female psychology.
Best of luck to ya.
We're traditional Catholic, so we're in it for life.
@Anno_Domini It may or may not work out that way, and it's only partially up to you.
However, best of luck to you. I hope you both find lasting happiness.
Thanks, and sorry if I came across rude in my comment.
She's very devout, so I trust her.
@Anno_Domini No worries, it was a fair question.
you can bitch all you like and write a whole page but your ego got butt fucked with out vaseline and that is that.
and holly shit, you are 30? you look old as fuck.
@Lonewolf_1296 Says the guy with no profile pic.
dude, look, the only men who subscribe to this bs are narcissists
@Eric644 incorrect.
ok look at it this way. People who believe in the alpha/beta crap believe in a world of winners vs losers, that certain people are SUPERIOR to others, believe that leadership is natural not something that is earned, lack empathy for other people. Key symptoms of NPD; belief in superiority over others, need to dominate others, lack of empathy for others, feelings of grandiosity; don't you see the similarities, any self proclaimed alpha is nothing but a pathetic narcissist
@Eric644 this is what you misunderstand. Many people who observe how women flock to narcissistic men don't themselves want to be narcissists in order to get men. That's just a small subset of the men who have opened their eyes to reality.
In order to get women
Do i believe that there are leaders yes, but i don't think people are born to be leaders. Anyone can gain the confidence to be one. the problem is some people never do, but anyone can become confident they just need to become comfortable with themselves and once that happens you start gaining self esteem and that starts to show. I use to be the shy introvert but now i'm completely the opposite. I have a degree, a good job as a businessman, and there are women that find me attractive; does that make me better than other people, no, i do not find myself any more superior than other people. once we start viewing ourselves as superior than we go into narcissism territory
@Eric644 now you're trying to conflate narcissism with keadership
Leadership.
no, i'm not. im telling you that a real leader is not a narcissist period. a real leader doesn't brag about how superior he is to other people, a real leader is actually humble, a real leader assumes leadership because he has a genuine need to help other people not because he wants to dominate others, a real leader is well liked and respected by his peers, a real leader has no problem teaching other people the ropes instead of fighting to keep dominance. A self proclaimed alpha is a narcissist because he views that being a leader is something someone is born with, feels that a leader needs to dominate and bully his way up, he feels that a leader is entitled to push other people around, and he feels that he can manipulate others because he lacks empathy. a self proclaimed alpha is not a true leader
@Eric644 that's not what men who point out that women live by Alpha Fux/Beta Bux are saying though. Lol the observation is that women go for macho douchebags, not leaders, to have sex with in their yourh then settle for the beta chumps they rejected now that they realize they can't get the Alpha douchebags to commit.
Lol leadership
is it true that the narcissistic losers get a lot of girls maybe, but those women are probably either narcissistic themselves or fooling themselves into getting hurt. If you are confident though you can get women and many of them would prefer a confident nice guy over a self proclaimed alpha loser any day. the nice guy just needs to gain some confidence and yes, he needs to grow some balls and understand when a girl is using him and he is being a doormat. When one gains confidence, they learn to put their foot down when such behavior is happening to them and that actually will come across as strong and masculine
@Eric644 men don't have to reject their nature to become more appealing to women who prefer the company of douchebags, that's just ridiculous.
true, but when you are the confident nice guy, you will enjoy the company of high quality ladies who have had it with the douchebags and really wants a good guy
@Eric644 why would I want the company of a woman who fell for douchebags?
because most women have, just like you may have fallen for the female equivalent in the past. I am talking about the nice girls that get suckered into those relationships with the douchebags not the shallow girls. If you are tired of the douchebag getting the girl, you need to compete against them and 1 up them in charm and confidence, because unlike them you are a genuine good guy and your charm won't be just a temporary facade, those girls will be happy then. I understand that you may be upset at the girls, but be more upset with the fact that they got suckered into the relationship with the asshole, you will give them something more than any of the douchebags have, even if it is just a casual relationship, it will still mean more to them than one that they had with a douche.
@Eric644 hey bro, just because I call it like I see it doesn't mean I need your advice.
well, sorry you feel that way :( . wish you the best of luck
Pretty good article man
Keep coping OP. You're a beta and you know it.
K brah
narcissistic loser
It is simplification for the simple-minded.
thats just what betas think.
Well done my friend
Only beta males think alphas don't exist.
neither exist, if you believe in this whole concept then you have NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder)
Great take!
#betamale detected
Jk to be honest I agree with you.
Such a BETA take.
narcissist