Fuckboy vs Player

[ameliajp]

Who is a Player

A strategic and selective guy with multiple girls attracted to him at one time. Doesn't go for just anyone but slays the ones he does go after. He will flatter with charm and smiles, he's respectful and takes you out, shows you off, is open and honest and you never see it coming. He has the next girl wooed and lined up even though you're the only girl he talks to.

Signs to look out for: His friends refer to him as "The Legend"

Who is a Fuckboy

Will fuck anything. Will ask for nudes, sends dick pics, shares your pics or intimate details and will never be clear about anything. Eventually and quickly, he will ghost you and disappear.

Signs to look out for: You can smell them a mile away. If you can't spot a fuckboy, lord have mercy on your soul.

Both often confused for:

Douchebag: Attractive man who plays mind games but doesn't get chicks.

Signs to look out for: Tells you to "smile"

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So what about a charming, confident, self-assured and attractive, guy who shows you off and is honest with you but 100% loyal? A goddamn unicorn.

[Scrambledagain]

Men should only be loyal at the end of his 20's when he has played. That's why players are legends, they are that handful minority that accomplished something that's pretty hard for many men and still has the choice to settle with someone who he actually wants because he has the power to attract this girl. Unlike the average joes who settle for the women for settle sakes and have had a mediocre sex life. All men must become players in my opinion. Then good men would know the art of seduction and get women.

[Tdieseler]

i was wondering what that horn was trying to poke out of my forehead... i guess i know now.
You are totally wrong about players... at least the real ones. but you are definitely right about "fuck boys"...
and your definition for douchebag... totally wrong too darling. i preferred your last paragraph.
Good write up though

[kitty71]

Could your close friend be a fuckboy? Or a fuck boy are only guys you are starting to meet? What about friends you know for years could they be fuckboys as well?

[Elaurious]

Yes.

[rjroy3]

Honestly, the difference between a FuckBoy (such a stupid name) and Player is that a Player lies to get what he wants. A Fuckboy is honest about what he wants. He's not pretending like she's the one and only girl he's talking to or that he wants marriage or anything else. at least what a Fuckboy does is somewhat respectable. Because the girls know what they're getting into and decide it's worth it to them. With a Player the guy just blindsides them, by manipulating emotions and lying. That's fucked up.

[Anon-ymous1]

So... okay, first, the term "fuckboy" is erroneous and stupid and no one should use it, and "Using" Someone For Sex and "Players" DO NOT EXIST, People ↗

[brennanhuff]

kind of one in the same. girls hearts get broke by both. The fuckboys are just so thirsty, girls can see it a mile away, whereas, players are more smooth, seem nicer so it's more deceiving even if the players aren't trying to lie about anything.

[Benedek38]

"charming, confident, self-assured and attractive"
I suspect you must have SOMETHING to back up those expectations, don't you?

[Kiran04]

So what about a charming, confident, self-assured and attractive, PERSON OF ANY GENDER who shows you off and is honest with you but 100% loyal?

That's a unicorn too. You're asking for someone you couldn't be yourself. No one can.

[Wammu]

To be blunt: You girls deserve players.

Like I would LITERALLY smile if I heard some chick crying about some guy breaking her heart.

[Riggers]

This take is cancer. Opinions of take writer are also cancer.

[SirRexington]

Interesting. A fuck boy is just a standardless player. I can see that.

I don't get the hate this take is getting. What the hell guys?

[ChetAtkins]

If I had enough game, I would be one or the other. But I don't, so I'm just a regular Joe.

[abdallahdaif]

Its so stupid for girls to go for rhese guys but they keep doing it missing all the good guys who could have turn thier lifes into amazing dream

[SpearsAndStones]

I'm confident, self-assured and reasonably attractive. I think the charm is where I fail to be a unicorn.

[CasaNorba]

so in other words a FUCKBOY is not fuckboy just as long as he has STRATEGY

[maaaaax]

Skin-and-bones hairy guy vs muscly hairless guy, it seems like.

[MattsHerez]

Not being muscular has nothing to do with anything bro.

[Coolgirl235]

Yep you are right both are still honestly hoes tho.

[WhoDatGuy]

Men will stop being these things when they stop working.

[GoldCobra]

Hahaha I love this take! Thank you for sharing this.

[Anonymous]

I’m confused are you doing a comparison like these are two good types

[esotericstory]

Now do one about thots.

[Gopnik]

fell into the trap of one, don't make the same mistakes i did 😫

[vald9inches]

what would happen if we mixed both types?

[keepswimming_96]

Ultimate fuckery lol

[Rave199]

Well why not put Fuckgirl vs whorish slut

[Rave199]

Or fuck n chuck/pump and dump vs cumdumpster vs dont stick your dick in crazy