Ok, so I have grown up a great deal, and one thing has remained the same, I don’t ever want to be a father, Yes I know all girls will eventually want a child, that is an inescapable fact, no I have no intent on getting a vasectomy, and last I checked my penis is so big even the largest condoms did not fit, thus I don’t bother with condoms.
Here are my reasons:
1. They are money drainers.
No I’m not joking, you know that $100 You were intending to use to buy that one item you had been desperately wanting that costs $100, well with a kid, that item, that $100, kiss those goodbye because you kid wanted a new toy and was willing to throw a tantrum until you got him that toy, those school fees, college fees, those times whenever money was involved, most of it was chewed up on your child, I for one am not going to spend money on a child when I could spend it on myself or my partner.
2. 20-25 years elapse before they move out.
If you are 25, then you will be 50 by the time your kid has moved out, thats like 25 years of pain, suffering, complaining, nagging, negativity, etc, why spend 25 years dealing with that when you can spend those 25 years making you and/or your partner happy.
3. Teaching right from wrong, good from bad, etc.
I personally am a horrid teacher, for an example, I could teach you how to play a video game, but one minute I’m teaching you the basics, then the next minute, I’m already shooting so much advanced information its like going from 0-100 in 0.1 seconds, not to mention, knowing me I would probably set the wrong thoughts in, Traits would be right as I live by good traits so traits would not be wrongly taught but ideologies would send the wrong message to a developing brain, overall I’m a terrible teacher.
In my country using a belt as a form of discipline is illegal, however I was raised with my father using a leather belt as a means of conveying discipline(back then it wasn't illegal, now it is), so I would use the same medium, a leather belt, around the ass, to convey to my child when he has done something really wrong it’s not right, Call it abuse, I don’t care, My dad used it, and as much as I hated it myself, at least it was effective.
5. Rebellious teenagers
We all go through that “I’ll do whatever the fuck I want” time in our teen lives, and that for me is not a phase I wanna have to experience from first or third person.
I got enough responsibilities as it is, and I don’t need like 100 more.
7. Law requires they have to go to school
When I went to school, I got bullied a lot, and I will not let any child of mine go through the same, horrific, traumatising experience, Because it’s one thing to bully, it’s another to be bullied, this I can draw straight from my own experience.
Overall I don’t ever want to have kids, and while I won't run if i end up with one, I’m not interested in raising one either.