I'm sure you've all seen the tremendous amount of gals coming here borderline complaining about how boys don't like nice gals. Right, boys hate nice gals. We just want a jerk to make us feel terrible about ourselves, to string us along and toy with our hearts. There is no more desirable gal than a jerk who treats us like crap and we just hate nice gals. If you're not picking up on the sarcasm, then there's something wrong there.
Here's some reality for you nice gals...
A gal is not entitled to a wonderful man simply for being nice. Nice gals need to recognize that and step up their game when it comes to dating potential. I'm tired of hearing nice gals say "Boys don't want nice gals. Boys use nice gals" Simply just being a nice gal is not going to make a boy fall head over heels for you and want to give you her all. If you're nice and boring, that niceness loses it's worth. If you're nice, but you lack charm and intelligence, that niceness decreases in value. If you're nice but your physical appearance looks a hot mess, it's going to be difficult for a boy to even be attracted to you in a romantic or sexual way. Face it. It’s true. So dig deep and be honest with yourself: what’s the real reason you can’t seem to get a boy because I can assure you it’s not solely based on you being a nice person.
After coming to GAG and seeing how "nice gals" (who get really mean and whiny when things don't go their way) express themselves, I'm starting to believe they work so hard to be nice because deep down they are very aware that they're lacking in other areas of self. So they try to compensate that by being nice and when their "nice gal crutch" fails them, they want to get upset and run to GAG, complaining about how boys don't want nice gals.
Your thoughts? Are "nice gals" really just using that played out line to excuse the true reason as to why they struggle with men? What is your opinion on this topic?
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