Where Did All The Nice Guys Go? (Page 6)

[luv2h8]

I find it funny as hell the women are so butthurt by the truth they try and pass it off as the guys fault.

Everything the poster had to say is backed up by Objective evidence in first year psychology. Trying to pass off responsibility by saying "you here just as shallow" or calling them "Bitter" is not based in any provable fact and goes to show that these women still refuse to accept responsibility for they're actions and the psychological effect it has on nice guys.

[Gavin_JTC]

"Oh yeah--men who hi-five about this article are high five-ing misogynistic, bitter, woman hating HATE SPEECH" <-- If that's true then all I have to say is: HURAY FOR MISOGYNISTIC, BITTER WOMAN HATING HATE SPEECH!!! Wooohooo!!!! I'm a misogynist and you now what girly, YOU made me that way! Woohooo!!!!!!

[sport300zx]

I've been that guy numerous times and this article is pretty accurate in all aspects, I have become more of an a**hole but only to shield myself from anguish. If you want a nice guy or can't find one then blame yourself, because you probably have already met that guy and are just too blind or stupid to see it. I will however continue to treat women with respect, open doors, buys them dinner, and offer them support even if it gets me nowhere, however, my heart no longer resides on my sleeve

[shadowscapes]

Translation:

"bwaaaah. I'm nice so women have an obligation to have sex with me, and when they don't it's because they want a**holes"

[mmgood313]

Wow. That's totally me and I occasionally want to shoot myself in the head because I shot myself in the foot. :/

[worksexlove]

SPOT ON! Kudos, to whoever wrote this.

I'm totally for open expression, but for above commenters, it's not always necessary to equalize extremes....I think the bimbo conception is far more ramprant, and therefore, goes without saying.

[Robotic]

This article was basically just copied and pasted from this: link

[demetrios1976]

No... I think this guy is spot on... after being "used" for attention I got tired of it and changed how I behaved. Much of it is psychology and regardless of how you women may argue it... you simply try to dismiss this man's posit because, deep down, you know it's true. Guys and girls love what they can't have and are always seeking validation. Nice guys give it up too easily by being available and accomodating whereas a**holes do not so it draws you to them as a challenge. Behavioral psychology

[Lidepi]

I live in Los Angeles, and I originally wrote this less then a year ago. I realize it appeared on craigslist, and I have the original email responses of people nominating the post for "best of".

[haywire]

This pretty much sums it up. I think the balance is where guys have to reach maturity and develop confidence, but girls have to stop using people (intentionally or not).

[Dives]

I saw this on Reddit like last year... Originally it was posted on craigslist...

https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/483318927.html

Plagiarism is so not cool. :(

[wildd]

Hahaha! ohhh shit I love this! But just so everyone knws... I have never, so far, acted like an "ass bitch" to any of the nice guys I DO knw! So this is a great heads up!

Good-Job person Lidepi :D

[Lidepi]

Thanks for all the support guys, clearly I was not at my best when I wrote it. Maybe some females will take notice and things will change, although it seems highly unlikely.

[Undercoverlover]

This letter is one of my favorites as I share it with many of my female friends. Being 32 and friends with a very large group of VERY attractive younger women, I hear about this scenario all the time.

Today it's true many women and men alike are shallow. Seems some people look at a significant other as a fashion accesory or confidence builder versus a soulmate. I noticed though, the ones who hate this letter ARE the shallow ones! "You want the truth? Well YOU can't HANDLE the truth!" J.N

[MisterMan]

I was the nice guy growing up, always seen as the brother-like figure, never boyfriend material. Luckily I found a Lady who appreciates this Nice Guy.

Good Article.

[luv2h8]

6 hours later I actually just thought of something else. Picture a guy and a girl meeting at a party. and them sitting down and talking, after a couple hours the guy realizes that the girl will just friendzone him, the women in the ommentn section would get real pissed off if that guy gets up to go to the washroom and does not return to the girl, instead finds another girl who would be more romantically interested in the guy. the vary girls in this comment section would find that insulting,

[luv2h8]

3. I am successful and I do not need some dumb **** riding on my coattails. with how things are going in my life I would never need to buy the cow.

few weeks ago I seen some girl walking down the street trying to get away from her ass hole boyfriend, crying her eyes out. And the only thing that came to mind is "you made your own bed" thinking about how many nice guys she passed up to get to that ass hole makes me sick to my stomach and therefore impossible to have any sympathy for her.

[luv2h8]

I am married to the queen of my world and she has been with me through all my faults. I have never once in my life turned down a girl based on their looks or any such non sense. Having said that, heaven forbid should anything happen between me and my wife I would NEVER date again for a few simple reason. 1. the girls in this comment section are generally the opinion shared by the female population. 2. I seen how girls treat nice guys and it pisses me off.

[AndyWes]

This article needed a little clarification between the "whiny 'but I'm a nice guy' people" and the guys that women call "nice, sweet guys." Just, to improve the article slightly.

[Gavin_JTC]

Guys, the next time a woman calls upon your niceness, just remember the responses of some women in this thread, and what their true feelings about nice guys are: They don't care about your problems and feelings. They only care if you can help them with their problems and feelings. Fuck'em!!!