Things Women Like More Than Most Men Think! Things Women Like More Than They Are Willing To Admit!!

[White-American89]

1. Mansplainning

Women loved to be mansplained to because women find men who are superior to them intellectually, by wealth or by status attractive. Thats why you see so many women sleeping with their bosses or more successful colleagues.

Mansplaining
When a man tries to explain something to a woman and she feels stupid for not figuring out herself, she accuses him of "mansplaining".
"oh my god, that's really patronizing the way you just mansplained"
"stop mansplaining economics to me"

2. Manspreading

Women love it when a guy manspreads because it is a show of masculine dominance which is a real turn on for them even if they pretend otherwise.

3. Unsolicited dick picks

Women love unsolicited dick picks, this has been a big winner for me in the past.

4. To be objectified

Women love to be objectified even If they pretend they don't. Women get a huge ego boast from it and if men don't objectify a woman especially when she's trying it leaves her felling very low.

5. Demands for food

Women love it when their man demands she rustle him up something delicious in the kitchen as it means he appreciates her culinary skills. A woman who can cook well is marriage material.

6. Cat calling

Even the most feminist woman wants to be catcalled as it giver her a thrill and an ego boast.

7. Spanking/ Slap on the butt

Doesn't matter if it's as punishment, sexual foreplay or just for a job well done most women love it, want and expect their men to do it.

8. Being told to smile or that they'd be prettier if the smiled more

Women are vain creatures hungry for attention. Being told that she'd be prettier if she smiled more shows that you've been paying attention to her.

WARNING!!!!

Warning to men, some of this may get you in trouble if you are not a high quality man or if the woman in question does not find you attractive.

[Anonymous]

1. Only true if you do it right.
2. Only true if not as spread as in the pic.
3. U wish, but no.
4. It has its place.
5. Nope. Although I’d be happy to cook for him every once in a while within the first two months or so of the relationship.
6. Pretty annoying, especially since men only do it to appear more “alpha” to their buddies.
7. True, as long as it’s not meant to hurt.
8. Never gave it a thought, although I’ve been told once or twice.

[Britantic]

Mansplainning and manspreading are silly made up things. Most of this is pretty spot on espicially the slap on the behind. Although only of the man is attractive.

[EpicDweeb]

I'd say you're correct in some ways but you're wording is very poor. The terms you've used are generally the negative forms of things that can be positive. In other words...

1. Women don't like being condescended to. They don't like "mansplaining" because it's generally a condescending form of explanation that treats the woman like an idiot. What a woman appreciates is when a man can articulate and clearly communicate things because like most human beings she values communication.

2. Women generally just assume guys man-spread to get comfortable so I don't think they generally care. However, they WILL care if your man-spreading intrudes on other people's privacy or personal space OR if it's done in a way that says "hey look at my dick."

3. No... women don't like dick-pics. Literally no one likes dick pics. Not even the gayest man or the most heterosexual woman alive enjoys an unsolicited dick pic. Sure, flirting is well and good and if y'all are sexting then so be it but let's be real, no one WANTS a random dick popping up on their screen if they aren't expecting it.

4. Women do NOT like being treated merely as an object of sexual desires. Women like being seen as attractive, competent, and powerful. They might like knowing that their appearance has power over men but they want to feel in control in that regard.

5. No one, man, woman, or child likes having people make demands of them (unless they're kinky like that). I think both women and men like providing in certain ways for people they care about. Many women may enjoy taking care of their man by making him food and many men enjoy taking care of their girl feeling like a protector and provider. But neither wants their partner going around making demands of them. Requests are one thing... demands are another.

6. I somewhat agree with you but not in the way you said it. I don't think women enjoy being catcalled so much as they enjoy the personal affirmation that they're as attractive as they were trying to be. They don't have to look arrogant asking a friend if they look attractive or risk coming off as flirty for that reason, rather they can have anonymous guys cat call them to confirm what they want to hear. That being said, it's not the cat calling itself that they enjoy and in most cases the cat calling is creepy and can be VERY creepy if the woman is alone and/or it's at night.

7. I mean sure if it's specifically HER man and it's not at a time or place where it would paint her in a poor light. (Even then it's not universal).

8. I've never seen a woman respond poorly to being told she looks beautiful when she smiles or that she should smile more often. I can see where they could communicate "you look ugly when you aren't smiling," or "you have resting bitch face." But, generally speaking, if you're a decent human being and you say that, it's gonna communicate that you think they're beautiful and you appreciate when they smile. So... I don't know where that one comes from.

I am in agreement with you regarding the warning though. I think quite often a women is willing to give more leeway and accept less appropriate advances from guys she find attractive as opposed to guys she doesn't like. So all in all... I disagree with your wording though I don't know if I've simply clarified what you meant to say or if I actually just completely disagree with you.

[janna_jcb]

For the guys who want a girl’s confirmation first before they try this stuff:
1. It’s true that intelligence is attractive, but mansplaining indicates that he doesn’t value my intelligence which is definitely an unattractive trait.
2. I don’t mind man spreading, you just want to be comfortable. Just don’t do it in a situation where your legs are touching the strangers next to you on the vehicle or wherever your sitting, because that would be rude.
3. Unsolicited dick picks are not attractive. It makes you look like you’re either a creep or desperate. Always ask if she wants it first.
4. There is a difference between objectification and admiration. Objectification is not attractive because it makes a girl feel like all you want is sex. Admiration is flattering, she will still feel like a person. I know this is a fine line but trust me, girls can feel in what way a guy is looking at them. Personally I don’t mind if you look at my body as long as you also look at my face when I’m talking etc.
5. I don’t know about this as I don’t know how to cook very well yet. But if I had a boyfriend who would come home after a long day of work and I’m not as tired as him, it’d be totally okay for him to ask me to make him dinner. But don’t demand it as if she’s your maid. Unless that’s some sort of role play you’re both into. You do you.
6. Cat calling is creepy. Especially at night. I was catcalled at night when I was walking home, I was still pretty young, and I was so scared, I called my mom and she told me to just keep talking to her and keep walking. A better alternative for catcalling is just going up to a girl and complimenting her in a polite way. This way you have a chance of seeing her again sometime if she wants that, and she’ll feel flattered and will probably think that you’re charming.

[janna_jcb]

7. Spanking and slapping on the butt. Please be careful about this. Girls have very different opinions on this. I personally don’t mind if my close friends playfully slap my ass, I do it to them as well. It’s sort of a running joke. If a guy I don’t know very well does it, it’s weird. And in relationships I think it is completely fine.
8. Don’t say “you’ll be prettier if...” it feels degrading and won’t actually make us do that thing. The smiling thing is just sort of strange. Girls have emotions, we’re not always happy so if we don’t smile that day, you telling us to smile is only going to make us smile less. Oh, just a tip: if a girl smiles and you like her, compliment her smile. That’s one of the sweetest compliments you could give someone.
On that warning thing: I don’t about all women, but all the girls I know, including me, will still appreciate a compliment from a guy who we don’t think is attractive. The key in complimenting is to be polite, smile, and don’t overdo it, so only one compliment at a time.
Hope this helps!

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

@janna_jcb great contributions!

[janna_jcb]

@SomeGuyCalledTom thanks!

[Anonymous]

1. There’s a difference between explaining and mansplaining. It’s only mansplaining if she has said, or it would be reasonable to assume that she already knows. For example, some guys will respond to finding out that I’m legally blind by trying to explain to me what legally blind means. Other guys, who call themselves feminists but are pretty new to the whole idea of feminism, will try to explain to me, the founder of a feminist organization at my school, and a published author on the subject, who has publicly argued with professionals on the subject and won, what feminism is.

2. No one is actually mad about manspreading. Most of the time it’s not a problem. If the train is crowded, and some guy things that his balls are more entitled to their own seat than another person, then it’s obnoxious. Not evil. Just obnoxious.

3. Most women respond to unsolicited dick pics by either deleting them and blocking the guy, or laughing and showing their friends.

4. I don’t think you know what objectify means. There’s a difference between complimenting someone and objectifying then. To objectify someone is to deny their humanity. You can point out that someone is attractive while still respecting them as a person and listening to what they have to say.

[DWD94]

Mansplaining is basically just code for "You did me a massive disservice by voicing a point of view different from my own, thus hurting my ego in the process of pointing out the possibility I might be wrong about something"

[the-mad-german]

- I dont care if girls like "manspreading" or not. Its just me wanna sit comfortable anything else is irrelevant to me.
- I dont care if girls like "mansplaining" if my dumb employee doesn't get it... i need to teach it to them. thats part of my duty as their boss. not more nor less.
- I never send dick pics... lol ... and since i live no girl had ever ask for some... so whatever...
- If i watch or stare (if u say so) on a women or part of her i see this as a compliment to their beauty. If a women gets bothered by that she can tell me then i will stop it. If she doesn't do that and is bothered its not my problem.
- well when it comes to cooking skills... i had really bad experiences with that so im ok with eating outside :D to my own security
- cat calling is like gambling... chances are 50/50 ... even if its the same person.
- objectifying (did i spelled that right?) ehm well tbh i got not much to say about that. I claim for myself i dont do that. And i dont really care if women like it or not.
- a smiling women even if she's pissed or sad causes more problems than a smile is worth it. Im a big fan of honesty and mostly i mind somethings wrong even if she smiles... and i can't stand this...

[Anonymous]

Though there are some women who get a kick from all this dominant, submissive stuff, someone asking me to smile more has always put a bug up my ass, I don't care what sex they are. Men who take up extra space are oblivious and selfish, when it's obvious someone is talking down to me, there is nothing more insulting. A man can be confident without being dominant. There is an appreciable difference. My personal man appreciating my figure or cooking skills is as wonderful as me appreciating his physique and mastery in the kitchen. A man with a nice ass lures me into looking and swatting too. These qualities are reversible. If they only go one way, that's when they're irritating. I womansplain too, but I always preface it with, do you know about this? I don't waste my time, I don't insult anyone's intelligence and there's no backlash!

[GraveDoll]

Never slept with a boss. Im way to serious. Im also a hard ass. Most men can tell off back dont even try with this chick,. Never had a boss who wasn't old enough to be my damn father. No thanks

I love being lust at that not a secret. i dress this way for a reason. I bust my ass in the gym. I like to show off. Again not a big deal nor secret.

way too logic for this simple basic shit.

sorry. I dont find dicks attractive to be honest and im not gay. I dont find vaginas attractive either and i own one.

But whatever make you feel... I have no idea how your trying to feel to be frank and it non of my biz in the end.

[Exterminatore]

I think you’re right on with a lot of this.

I think however like the meme with the fat dork and thin stud a work only women who are attracted to a man like it when that man or several men do these things.

Otherwise I think they do not like these things generally speaking. They only want to see dominant behavior, and all you mentioned here from men they are attracted to. Otherwise to them you’re a piece of garbage who takes up too much room on public transportation (manspreading) talk too much and are a know it all (mansplaining), a sexist pig (demanding food), a perv (cat calling and dick pics and objectifying). So it all comes down to whether or not their attracted to you.

[MackToday]

All true but remember that women want things that aren't necessarily good for them or good for us if we're complying with them. A lot of women might want me sending them pictures of my damned private parts but a lot of women are disguising pigs too. I am not slapping them on the ass , sending the dick picks, cat calling them like an ape in rut or otherwise acting out like a monkey. You want that, then get into a relationship with a man, marry him, keep his home, raise his children and do what nature demands of all of us to survive.

[lernulo]

When someone says things women like, I expect, things women like...
I will give you a list:
1. To be respected, and it's a great one, when they are used to be objectified
2. To make her laugh, not by commanding it, but showing the positive things life have, like the last joke of Jim Carrey.
3. A compliment of something which defines her, not catcalling its easy and burd, but recognition of her good points.
4. Interesting activities, you want mansplaining? Take her to Disney World and it's very unlikely she resists (excepting she disgusts you) what I mean is, to be attractive explaining or commanding you must do it on what she likes and with respect.

About alpha males... I just laugh that concept. May be I have lived too much as to give it credit.

[Just_a_human]

This must be a troll post. There's no way that stuff is true...

[Just_a_human]

Who down voted me... 🤣

[Nadim171]

He is a troll...

[SuzyB]

I just want to know if the woman you speak to are:
1) fictional in a porn show or
2) voices in your head?

[White-American89]

I'm handsome so it's cool

[OlderAndWiser]

"Some of this may get you in trouble if you are not a high quality man or if the woman in question does not find you attractive." Thanks for the warning! :) :) :)

[someginger]

Wow ok the first couple of things are just dumb but if you said to any women I know smile and cook me food you would get a slap across your facd

[White-American89]

Maybe you would lol

[someginger]

Hmm no I just know a lot of strong women! I mean would you talk to your mum like that go in the kitchen and start smiling?

[White-American89]

But again that's you.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

A lot of this is circumstantial. The superior man knows how to read a situation and respond to the context/ frame of an interaction. If your only tool is a hammer, every situation looks like a nail. But yeah a lot of this is true within the right context. Feminists understand women less than misogynists I swear xD

[Anonymous]

awesome take and yes theses points are true. and women know they like them but feminist B. S ideology has trained them to be outraged whenever any of them happen. they want a man to be totally respectful and to keep his distance but at the same time give them compliments and a slap on the butt. one thing they don't realize is that they cannot have it both ways. and yes now a lot of women, butt hurt feminists even, are miserable because they're not getting any attention and are being treated as non-sexual beings. always glad to see their mistakes come back to haunt them.

[Lman3000]

I swear, posts like these are full of shit, Oh If I look Thor or fucking 007 then yeah I can say whatever I feel like to a woman and she'll fucking fall for that shit, but if I'm "average" or "ugly" than no I'm a creep or a felon or just brushed off, Fuck you, men who believe this is the way dating works and if your not on their level your worthless, I hope someone dumps a bucket of acid in your face and you lose your damn handsome looks and you feel like a pile of shit like you tell others

[Kas19]

All I got from this is "Hi, I like attention and I need therapy."

[SentientBrick]

I agree with you on this one. Also thanks for the chuckle 😝

[Kas19]

@SentientBrick Pleasure's all mine ;)

[SuzyB]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[_my_fukking_anarchy]

I do find those guys HOT and I like it 75% of the time (if they're not ugly of course lol). I find 'sexist' men the hottest tbh and I only get turned one by them. I'm sure a feminist is going to have a heart attack reading this.

[Gopnik]

I'm surprised that there's so much positive responses but i wouldn't even try anyways.

[GreatnessBack]

Sometimes, sexism is sexy.

[Robertcw]

Studies show women prefer benevolent sexism to egalitarianism.

[thegirlfromthething]

Stop inviting me to your stuff. It’s not interesting.

[the_imperfectionist]

Its like you want to be cussed out. I found this mytake mostly untrue and funny.

[White-American89]

Most women would never admit they actually like these things.