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The Problem With "Nice" Guys! (Page 2)
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Yea those aren't nice guys. Those are desperados who eventually turn mgtow
part of mgtow thinking is valid part is whacked out warped way of thinking sad but true
you're confusing mgtow with incels.
I agree. There are many "nice guys" out there, who aren't very nice at all, but perceive themselves that way.
What advice would you give to make sure I don't fall into that same trap? Should I just assume I'm an awful person? How do I accurately classify myself?
No. You’re a nice guy. Those guys aren’t nice guys so can’t be classified that way.
@AuroraRoseat Thank you! But how can I tell that I'm not one of them?
You’re welcome! If you don’t act like they do. I doubt you blame what you don’t like on women or if one declines your request for a date, start to call her names.
@AuroraRoseat Great! Thanks again!
... People really do that?
Nice guys are just weak and insecure, boring. Not because they are nice it's because they are weak. Women want confident strong men and even looks isn't enough if you are weak, insecure. They just have to be a man and don't put women on pedestal.
When you said put women on a pedestal it reminded me of a psycho I used to know a decade ago (see the comment above on another user I made a reply to about what the pyscho was like) which was why I commented on here
i usually treat women like shit and i haven't had any problems so far. but you sound really hurt. if nice guys ask you out and you reject, then what's the reason for ranting about them
Insecure women usually go after the jerks so that would probably why you don't have problems with girls.
Nah, I'm annoyed. Reason for 'ranting' is so dudes can get a clue of what women like and the real reason why no or few women are interested in them.
"Insecure women usually go after the jerks" this is so true. I know that because I used to be one of those insecure women.
Once I started to actually grow up and become comfortable with having some self respect , I stopped putting up with that shit. .
Guys who are jerks are usually just as insecure. Like attracts like.
When i was young
I had no sense
I bought a flute for 50 cents
The only tune that i could play
Was fuck the bad guy and GDA ( Gold digger Assholes)
Du du du du du du du
Love the musical number did you come up with that yourself? It was a nice comment to read thank you. Lmao
A fake nice guy shouldn't even be a nice guy to begin with. I consider myself to be one but more of just an honest and genuine person
I'm more into passive aggressive guys.. If they're too nice I loose interest! I need to see some flaws.. i don't like perfection!!
You need to see some flaws to correct them or do you really enjoy some flaws in your men?
I don't need to correct anyone.. I should embrace them. I enjoy seeing peoples raw personalities.. Not fake and acting traits
You are a rare species among female human. Latest trends of feminism demands perfection.
Screw them.. They aren't perfect themselves, how could they demand it
Exactly. We need to learn to live with flaws. Embrace them. Love them. After all we do not fall for the perfection, we fall for the flaws.
Yes I learnt that bit late now 😔 maybe I would of chosen a better life partner
Ohh!! So you learnt this after marriage. I wish I had learnt this while my relationship lasted.
Can I ask you a question?
Sure ☺
Since when did Arabs started having goddess?
Lolol.. Well there is a goddess named ishtar, she's from Iraq ☺ it's mythology I think but I believe in her
Well well well. I thought you are so admirable that you proclaimed yourself a goddess. 😚
Oh shit man.. I wish i didn't put it now, all my other user names were taken.. I feel so embarrassed
Oh god!! No. No. Don't be. I really liked it.
Oh! Thanks... Im a bit of a naughty goddess (just in my thoughts lol)
If human wasn't naughty, we would have been extinct for a long time now. Hahaha. 😁
Hahaha nicely said 👍 otherwise I should of become a nun 😬
Lol. Seriously?
Moreover I think we should stop spamming this thread and move to personal inboxes. What do you think?
Well Mr.. That's up to you!
Well goddess, my xper level didn't allow me to dm you. You should try it.
I did.. It didn't allow me either lol how weird! It's a sign we're not meant to pm
Follow me and it'll work
I find girls who deserve to be treated like shit tend to find a man who will oblige them, and I feel no desire at all to interfere with nature taking its course. And the same goes for men. They find each other eventually.
She doesn't owe it to me to go out with me, but she does owe respect to me. Plus, you're using extreme examples and ignoring the bigger picture, which is very typical behavior for girls your age.
Tbh people owe other people nothing. We do things because its in our nature or kindness. A girl isn't going to respect you if it isn't earned. Most of those examples are everyday things guys like that tend to do. They aren't extreme sadly. What would you say the bigger picture would be though?
That they believe to get respect, you give it first, which is fair, but for some reason, people like you just like to take it, give disrespect in return, and play the victim when they stop respecting you as a result.
there is a reason why all "nice guys" are virgins lmfao
Well I lost mine at 16 so go figure.
Real nice guys are clueless about who really wants them
Not always but yeah that's true
All men are but the nice ones put themselves in the friendzone almost immediately
Yeah. I can relate to that 😅
🤣🤣🤣
Yeah 🤦🏻♂️😂😂😂
Are you one of these nice guys full of suitors but clueless?
Maybe maybe not.😂 I don't know about the latter but you can surely say I'm a nice guy.
Bad boys are super attractive. Girls have always been easy for bad boys; therefore, women have little value to bad boys. Nice guys are unattractive guys. They are nice because that is the only way they might get a girl.
The question really is what the side (men or women ) really want.
It makes me laugh when they say they're into bad boys and then cry about getting hurt. Get a nice boy that will treat you right, it will pay off!
Imagine if women actually liked men enough to just want to be around them. The world would be so lovely.
Bad day I guess. I'm not a nice guy actually. I'm brutally honest and serious. if you met a guy like that just dump him and don't care about a grown man temper tantrums
Never let these type of people get in you head.
For what it's worth, "brutally honest" is sometimes also a bit of a red flag, a lot of people use "I'm just being honest" as an excuse for being unkind. Genuine honesty is a plus, but it's gotta be tempered with kindness and knowing when to not be blunt and honest too.
@cipher42 I approve this message lol :)
My straight friends tell me lot of the nice guys is all they got and are easy to walk all over.
I guess you can maintain a balance of niceness and self respect.
Dont these people feel bad when they make others feel worse? How do they do this? Im told I need to treat women mean to keep them keen, but my body literally does not allow me to. Am I just a pussy?
The problem is men putting women on pedestals
Um I'm gonna say 50 50 on this one but I'm not a girl so u probably have more experience with this
Ok so where's my nice guy now who can actually be serious about me? 😭😭😭😭