Ok, so here is a PSA for Incels.
Instead of whining about your 'unfair' lot in life, here's something you can do about it.
Women need to feel protected. It is basic biology. We are extremely vulnerable - especially during pregnancy - so we are biologically wired to gravitate towards men with a capacity to protect us and our children from greater threats.
Why do women often like 'bad boys'? Because they know bad boys can fuck up other men. At a primal level, this feels like protection.
If you are not blessed with good looks or strong musculature, that's ok. While I suggest you work on that to the best of your ability, you need to look to other ways of providing her protection.
If you are financially well off, this will help. So if you can't protect her physically, at least you have the financial means to protect her in other ways. You can buy a house in a secure neighborhood, and so on.
If you are unable to earn a large amount of money, then hone your ingenuity or creativity. Artists, creatives and so on - even ones who are not classically good looking or rich - are often attractive to women. This is because we know a man who is strong in his purpose and who can think creatively can protect us through his novel thinking.
A great example of a man who has classical Incel features, yet who is definitely not an Incel due to his chosen path in life, is Andrew Henderson of Nomad Capitalist. I bet this guy struggled to get chicks when he was younger. Now he would have his pick of women. Not because he is physically superior (he's definitely not), but because he has used his ingenuity to build a very clever business model for himself. He can protect a woman well, despite not being naturally genetically blessed. As a result, he becomes attractive to women.
Incels, please. Stop your misogyny and woman-hating. There are ways to get what you want and need, regardless of what you may or may not have been blessed with in life.
You can become loved and respected by women. But only if you lay off the vitriol and start applying yourself to something worthwhile.
Wish you success.
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It really isn't that hard if you're determined. If young guys just did what their grandfathers did, minus some archaic beliefs about race and sexual orientation, they wouldn't have a problem landing a woman. I mean, what were our grandmothers looking for in a man? Essentially the same thing young women today look for. Provision, protection, and persistence. Our grandfathers didn't sit around pissing in their beer because they weren't good looking enough or didn't have a big cock or that women wouldn't just throw themselves at them for no good reason. They took the initiative, worked hard, and made sure they were tough enough to defend a woman should the occasion arise. They would go after a girl usually when they were very young and somehow they managed to hang on to them for 50 years. That is no accident. In those days men knew they had to do the pursuing and that they had to have something to offer. And they knew that burden awaited them and they accepted it. All our grandmothers were looking for was a man to take care of them. That's it. The same thing young women today look for.
I have a 21 year old daughter. She's currently living with a young man and they're talking marriage. He's blue collar but earns pretty good money, and she's in school studying for a career and working part time. So far I like what I see from him. He's a good kid and works hard. But I've already told him that if he doesn't take care of her, then I'm gonna take care of him. I told him that it'll be at least another 25 years before I won't be able to break his neck. He understands I think. She gets mad at me for intimidating him, but if I'm handing over the job of protecting her to him, I want to make sure it's done right. And my father-in-law did the same thing to me. For god's sakes he showed me his gun collection when I went to his house the first time I met him when going to see my late wife. Maybe he was just assing around, maybe he wasn't. But I got the message.
I'm rambling now but the point is, if you want a girl, you gotta go out and get her, and you gotta have things to offer or you're gonna be jerking off to porn and whining on the internet your whole life.
BRAVO! THIS IS WISDOM. Thank you. Guys, please read this and follow his man's advice. He is 100% correct and knows what he is talking about. Women need the exact thing they've always needed - minus the archaic beliefs.
Do you ever wonder why women in the past were so sweet, and made cookies and washed her husband's clothes, and didn't argue and had a delicious hot meal for him every night? Because he was paying her bills! He was guarding the perimeter of their home, literally and metaphorically. He was taking care of her. So it was natural for her to take care of him!
Love your story about the guns! A good lesson, and you obviously took it seriously. Wish you and your family all the best :)