Guys are you scared of tickling your girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So to the guys who are really big, are you scared of tickling your girlfriend? My boyfriend is? He's significantly larger than me and knows I was in an abusive relationship so he's afraid of hurting me. The outer day he did start tickling me. And once I said stop in a joking way, he stopped and started apologizing. He kept asking if I was okay and wondered if he put too much weight on top of me.
I'm really glad that he's this caring (if dated guys who didn't care much). But guys do you ever feel uncomfortable when tickling your girlfriend

[Fireguy17]

If you like being tickled talk to him about it.
Come up with a safe word, something not commonly used, aardvark, that way he will know when it is time to stop whatever he is doing.
My girlfriend loves to be tickled on her feet, especially during sex.
She says it makes her orgasms more intense.
But she always says stop because it tickles, so I used to stop and she would ask me why did you stop, and I would reply because you said stop.
Now with a safe word that no longer happens.
When she is tickling me every time I tell her to stop she just laughs and tickles me more.

[looking_for_purpose]

Well yes and no yea because it show our playful side no because we respect what you say suprisingly for example he stopped after you said stop because he was tickling you

[Asker]

He said the idea of holding me down make him uncomfortable

[looking_for_purpose]

He's think to far into the relationship and is being reluctant it will lead to that he is trying not to go to far it doesn't matter the guys weight it's our brains that say when to stop we know if we are hurting you by the look on your face and if you say ow he just doesn't want to hurt you or go to far

[Asker]

Yeah he was kind of startling me, and is a lot bigger than me so he's often afraid f putting too much weight on me. But I was covering my face with my hands so I don't think he knew I he was hurting me or not

[looking_for_purpose]

Then that's probably why he stopped because he didn't know if he was hurting you

[Asker]

Yeah, that makes a lot of sense

[Belladonna_Bombshell]

Assuming everything else is good, you should hang onto that guy. Not many are that sensitive to their gf's past and needs, and the fact that he's that worried about triggering you is actually really sweet. If you *want* to be held down, you can always sit down and set up a scene with him, with safewords/signals etc. so he can feel at ease knowing you're ok and enjoying yourself. But seriously, what a sweetheart, you're a lucky woman (and you deserve to be, after what you've been through... enjoy it honey).

[existing_not_living]

Well it's a different case with you since you were in an abusive relationship before but I think most guys might enjoy tickling their gf's.

[Asker]

He said he doesn't like the idea of holding me down, and not letting me leave

[Summeroflove]

Just say you were playing along and you like it and you will let him know if it goes too far