Why do some guys fuck and run?

[Anonymous]

I don't get it. If you don't love someone, don't get their hope up just to get into their pants. If you just want to bang, then tell her your intention to see if she's cool with it. No one assumes you just want to be friends with benefits unless you said so. I hate guys who makes girls think they love them, just to have sex with her one time and disappear forever. Why choose to break someone's heart? Just why? Why can't some guys have more morals?

[DodgersGM]

Well, they know/think that their chances of getting what they want are probably better if they lie to you.

It's sad and deplorable, but that's what it is.

[kheserthorpe]

Are you talking about guys who lie?

Or are you saying you assume that anyone trying to sleep with you wants more than FWB? That's a bad bad assumption.

[Asker]

I'm talking about lying.

[kheserthorpe]

Because they're pieces of shit.

Tbh I don't see it happening much where I live. Lots of girls have casual sex and actually talking about love or relationships makes them have sex slower not faster. I guess it happens more in communities where casual sex is rare and some guys lie to get it.

[Asker]

I live in the US so I don't think casual aex is that rare :/ I could be dead wrong but yeah. But there's a lot of girls (sluts) out there willing to have casual sex, why trick someone who have feelings for them? To be honest, I asked this question because I know this guy for 5 years already, and I thought he was a very good and helpful friend. He started going out with my best friend a few months ago. After he took her virginity, he left and can't never be found again :/ That's not cool.

[kheserthorpe]

That's just kind of weird behaviour. Like he could go to a club and get laid tonight. Why go through all of what he did?

How long were they dating before they had sex?

[Asker]

Yeah that's exactly what I'm wondering. Why putting a lot of effort into her in a fairly long amount of time if his intention is to have sex with her once? They had been dating for around 5 months before they had sex.

[harakiri]

well if they didn't lie, then you wouldn't let them into your pants. so they're using the tactic that works. it's all about getting off.

[DaCrownlessKing]

Because rejection sucks (even from people u don't love) and people will do anything to avoid having to deal with it, including lying

[Anonymous]

Some, many, guys will do that. Stop wondering why and start figuring out how to spot them.

[Anonymous]

Because the desirable guys have more options, and having more options means you can afford to just "fuck" the lesser options.

[Asker]

Nope. That's not how it supposed to work if you have more morals and respect for yourself as well as others.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, that's how it works.