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A good personality really does make a person more attractive on the inside and the outside.
I have a good personality. Read my additional details
I did read it! You just don't seem to think that really helps, and it certainly does :D
Then why no luck. I am in my early twenties
You seem sort of down in the dumps. Do you usually have this type of demeanor about you? If so, perhaps that is the reason why. Or maybe y
* or maybe you are just trying to hard. Some good things happen when we aren't looking or expecting them!
No thank you.
You are embarrased to?
I think a nice and caring personality, confidence, nice clothes, style and the way he carries himself around a girl is more than enough to make us fall in love with a physically ugly guy. I have been in that position before.
Don't rely on attacents in life and you will be at peace. Just enjoy what you have.
attacents?
Attachments
Your not unattractive if you were a little older I'd go out with you :)
Thanks but to YOU I am not ugly but more women think I am ugly then women that don't think I am ugly
Are you going after 9 and 10's? Just change your standards bro if that's the case
I go after all kinds of women regardless how they look like
Have you tried not being ugly?
You should take your own advice.
@HikerDude
I'm not single nor bitching about struggling to get a partner. Try again, muffin. <3
Oh, you're bitching.
@HikerDude
Sorry, I couldn't hear you over all the butthurt emitting from your person.
A person who's 25+ and still uses the term "butthurt" is in no psychological condition to be rendering advice to anyone.
@HikerDude
You must be a special needs kid, if you honestly believed that comment was advice.
Would you like some ointment, boy?
This is an advice site, so giving advice is what you're *supposed* to be doing here. All you're doing is trolling guys' posts because you have some kind of unresolved anger against men. I'm sorry if you got date-raped or whatever, but spewing your bile out onto the internet is a really poor way to deal with your issues.
@HikerDude
Boy do I love baseless assumptions!
If all you see is "anger against men", you're the one with issues. I slam people indiscriminately, so long as what they say is stupid - they all get equal treatment.
Most of my experiences with men are lovely, actually. Don't know where you're getting your info from, love.
Also, this is an OPINION website. Too bad you're too much of a wuss to handle negative ones. :3
Improve personality and self-esteem and a big one is confidence, woman really love it when men are confident in a non cocky way. Also working on your physical appearance, just simple as different clothes can change your attractiveness.
Man, you look like Arnold Schwarzenegger ! ! So get muscles and you're ready to rock ;)
I am not good looking too but I don't give a shit , Good luck man! !
You are not ugly though
Get with physically ugly girls.
Ta-da.
Most of them don't even want physically ugly guys
You haven't done most of them.
I can guarantee you, you have not done "most" of them. Maybe not even a lot.
You're only one man.
"most of them don't even want physically ugly guys"
you'd be surprised, bro
They could write attractive on their foreheads. At least they are technically physically attractive.
U r not ugly u look soft and ur styld make u look soft try to change how u look ask some style expert how to look like more alpha male
Physically ugly like being overweight or not having a kind of "handsome face"?
The second one
Well, have a look at your facial structure like rounded or something else and then decide if facial hair will look good on you or not and which style will look better, the same goes to your haircut, your face needs attention as much as your body structure, your clothes or accessories or anything that is about you. Some people look better with their cheek bones appearing and some others look better with a "healthier look" so try to find what fits you more and always remember that beauty is subjective. :)
Look at my pic and tell me your opinion
Facial hair, like all men, you need it. You are by no means fat but certainly having muscles at least a defined look would help.
All I have on my face is a little mustache lol. Should I grow side burns?
No, a full beard and if you feel like it doesn't fit you, you could try different looks while you're shaving it ;)
Ok they need to work on their esteem and stop calling themselves ugly
Girl are very shallow , they don't want people look at then and think God she must be blind or something. Girls only go for hot guys I know because I have never had a girl friend and also on dating sites girls only message hot guys
10s date 10s, 3s date 3s. Unless it's love, money, or sucess.
Lol. You don't have confidence. Read the way you write about yourself..
Guys who doom their lack of success with women because of their apparent ugliness are stupid, frankly. You're missing out on improving qualities in yourself that are actually keeping you from getting a girl.
No one is that inherently repulsive physically where NO one will find them attractive.
I never said every women thinks I am ugly, more women than anything think I am a 4. I have had confidence in the past and nothing happened
Writing that you're "physically ugly" and asking what you should do made me think you were under the impression all women found you ugly.
So if that's not the case I'm sorry for misunderstanding.
You should know regardless that no person is ugly to everyone and that you Can most definitely get a girl.
You need to make sure you're looking in the right places and picking the right kinds of women. You should also work on rebuilding your confidence and liking who you are, because that is the only time when other people will like you too.
To some girl, I promise you, you will be a perfect 10.
I probably misunderstood your question and took it as you feeling sorry for yourself for being ugly. My point was that it's unhealthy to do that because no one is ugly to everyone and you are also holding yourself back from improving other qualities you can change to help you get a girl.
I apologize if I came off as a jerk, which I likely did!
I know not all women think I am ugly but I know more women think I am a 4 more than anything else.
Ugly guys still have a better chance than guys that don't have any personality, I have the personality of a rock and no charm so I don't have any personality, I'm cursed :(
I've learned to live with it.
Focus my attention elsewhere. To my hobbies and dreams.
Just be nice and treat someone with respect and kindness.
Lol, yeah like that works. I am a good guy
Nice guys get walked all over.
@Worldsugliestman Yes they do. But because of getting walked over so much, it often causes motivation to be more successful than the people who did walk over them. It can be worth the struggle. I would say people that struggled to success end up smarter and better than the ones spoofed it. And those spoon fed it, aren't really successful. Just having mainly wealth passed to them. That's all. If they don't find a way to keep it up, it all goes away eventually.
Simple. Go to the fucking gym.
I've seen guys who don't looks as good as you do, and they're doing fantastic with women. Stop making excuses, and start going out and meeting girls.
Learn the guitar or some other talent so the chicks dig yer mind
there is nothing we can do, us ugly guys... those who are attractive are one of the luckiest creatures
Ugly guy here, I know the feels and struggles.
the only thing I could do is fap and move on. :(
This answer is unacceptable.
@dontdropit yes it isss. This ugly 10 has to fap tooo.
"Ugly?" >:O WTF is that? Oh yeah, NOT YOU! Snap out of it Fart!
Just because a couple of women think guys like us are not ugly does not change the fact that more women think we are ugly than not ugly
@dontdropit yaa you see what's the asker said?
Fap? Is it good? Fap fap fap
Exactly the women and girls on here must live in a fantasy world. And I too agree no matter how confident an Ugly guy is he's still gonna get rejected.
Try rape. According to feminst 97 % of rapist get away with it.
Maybe develop their personalities and stuff until they find the right girl
I saw that one, but I really don't know how to answer it
There are girls in the world who doesn't care about looks. They're hard to find but they exist. All I can say is just smile, be nice and be funny. Socialise too. If you really want to fix your look, start exercising.
I socialize and had confidence, etc. and guess what? Nothing changed
Hey well at least you have the courage to constantly ask girls out.
I hear ya bud it so god dam frustrating.. i mean if they'd just give us a chance
The same as 'ugly' girls do. Nothing. Life is not here to please humans.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, what may be ugly to some is attractive to somebody else.
Yes, but I am considered a 4 by women more than anything. You know what I mean.
You'll find the right one, it just takes time.
I was thinking the same thing recently. You can't change your face or height unfortunately, but you can change your body. Workout in the gym.
You CAN change your face :P
with a whoooole lot of plastic surgery amiright
but yeah don't do that
@miserybusiness and @GoldCobra that's actually not true. The face is one of the fat storages that the body uses, and for some people it's the main one. Therefore, consistent weight lifting and cardio can (and does) improve you face, because it takes some fat off. Besides, by working out in the gym you increase your testosterone levels, which will also make your face more mainly.
So yea, working out can and does change your face.
I didn't even read the gym comment. I was just casually sliding a PS joke in there. Hahaha! Nice to know, though. You learn something new every day. @MaxRocks
Go get a really good job and find yourself a hot gold digger.
I ask myself that everyday I guess become a rich guy and see what happens. I know the feeling.
Either wait and hope you find the right girl, or accept the membership to the Forever Alone club. Don't worry, we'll welcome you with open arms and your favorite food.
Im in the same position bruv, its like almost we are doomed to be loner for eternity. Cheers God.
Sad. You're pretty decent looking.
Thank i guess...
You are supposed to join my Ugly-Guys-Club.
You can apply for membership by commenting on here.
Just tell yourself "I'll get me a girl one day, or die tryin'".
I think plastic surgery is the only hope for us ugly men :(((
Find physically ugly girls?
Most of them even reject us because of our looks
Have a better personality? You keep saying you do, is that just your perception or do other people agree with that assessment?
I find an awesome personality cancels aesthetics out
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@ChaosKilledTheDinos is right on the money.
She doesn't understand how women think I am a 4 more than anything else
Do you just care about your appearance?
What do you mean?
If you only care about how you look go to Korea and get plastic surgery to look like (insert popular star's name) and girls will all be falling for you. What matters is what's inside. Not just the physical appearance.
When did I say I only care about my physical appearance? You know most women have to be physically attracted to the guy
Look. I've read what you've wrote and I can SEE you're ugly inside. You just think women are idiots who come to men based on looks. If you care so much about your looks just go do plastic surgery, I can suggest you ask to look like Hyun Bin. Aigooo.. You say you don't care but what you say shows you care...
Who is that?
Go google it.
I care about my apperance because most people care about apperance and you know it.
Ugly by most peoples standards can be largely corrected.
Stop making excuses.
Huh?
It is not an excuse. I am ugly
So you have a weight problem?
No I don't at all.
Make sure have a stellar personality.
I do.
Be yourself and wait for that right person
Via con dios.
That's all I got for you, bro.
Don't worry m8. You are not alone.
Watch the movie "The Tao of Steve."
Oh God what a waste of time :/
It does offer good advice but most of it is trash. Watched it cause I heard about it and regretted it almost immediately. Basically it's common sense about dating targeted to low self-image people. And most of it isn't even true. I think one of the "rules" were you need to show a woman you're good at something... So if you play guitar, the movie wants you to bring it out to every social interaction you are in, cause it's the only way you're getting some action... -.-
I am kind of an anti-modern feminism but this movie makes woman seem like objects. You have this set of rules you need to follow to "get them" like what the hell. Then people get surprised it doesn't work that way back in real life.
Again, waste of time. If you want to watch a good movie, watch actual movies. "Good Will Hunting", "Coach Carter", "Fight Club" (this one would do you good, asker), "Any Given Sunday", etc.
Just don't watch... Whatever "Tao of Steve" is considered to be.
You will.. keep trying
Money can solve a lot of problems...
haha indeed!
What's ugly to one girl isn't ugly to all girls
Of course not but more than anything women think I am a 4.
Have a good personality
Guys who claim to be interesting never are.
Plastic surgery, and the gym.
lol buy weed !!
if you want a hoe buy weed. if you want a lady go to college or read a book.
Neither or wants an ugly guy most of the time
Develop charm ;)
rofl.. you again !!
Keep masturbating a lot lmao