Well, its not the fact of ugliness that turns people away. In my opinion, it's the stupid belief that girls must look like supermodels or guys must be almost steroid buff to look good. Its all in everyone's head. Its not reality but that's what most people perceive it as because they are stubborn and arrogant. LOOKS. SHOULD. NOT. MATTER!!! If girls think you don't look good, then say fuck em cause they're missing out. I know it's not always right to blame other people. But in this case, how most people get attracted to each other is fucking STUPID! If a guy is not super buff or "attractive", it doesn't mean people should just look the other way especially is they have the right personality. Do not change who you are bro! I'm a guy as well and I used to get called ugly back in sophmore year. Now in my first year of college, I actually know a cute girl with a CRUSH on me. She's not the kind of girl that's too easy to get either. Yet, I'm thinking about looking elsewhere because I know for a fact our personalities don't match and would cause drama and misery. Looks aren't everything. Yes, everyone including you always have improvements to make themselves a better person, but if you are a friendly person with a humanistic mindset and good personality and girls aren't into you, its time to give everyone the middle finger and keep moving on! Love isn't everything and usually is shit these days anyways so just keep up the good work and focus on a good career that you love. Girls DO NOT always equal happiness!! (and by the way for any girl reading this, keep in mind this all goes for y'all too. We're all humans with this problem I know!!)
Most women ignore ugly guys till mid 20 years. You just got lucky. I am 23 and have been in college for years and despite being a good guy and funny no girl has had a crush on me or said yes to a date to me. No girl ever has had a crush on me or has ever wanted to go on a date with me
I know this is likely looong overdue but here's more advice. If no girls are recognizing your potential, then fuck em! Let them do their own thing. If they go for guys that obviously aren't going to be good, let them learn the hard way unless you can stop it. Which likely you can't. Somtimes the hard way is the only way. Focus on a career. College. Etc. Succeed! Then when the girls who would have NEVER even dared to TALK to you suddenly may change their mind, you give them a nice big FUCK YOU. They are humans like guys. Just as greedy and selfish at times too. Don't be fooled by their beauty. Some know they can use it to get ahead. Don't let them. And start to fight against the men who want it that way. Start backing feminism. Trust me. Cause that way, you can fight for the men fucked by other men too. Feminists and nice guys like you and me have a common enemies. Those enemies are the assholes of the world Mostly guys, but some girls too. Don't give in to pressure to be antifeminist.
lol this is so sad, I should've cried over how fugly you think you are and the abhorring lack of confidence, but I can't find the tears.
Man don't waste your precious early 20s on that shit, you're gonna regret it so bad when you're older. You'll think to yourself: wtf was I doing back then? All you need is to learn, get with just any girl and your confidence will hit the roof down from where it is now. Most importantly, you will learn so many things about women as well.
Here is what unattractive is to women, which I could take note of and learn over the years: Being manly ugly is in demand by females, just ugly with no added masculinity or femininity is also okay. The only type of ugly that women deem as unattractive is someone who looks or tries to look feminine! For instance: weak facial features, wrong distribution of hair on face, hair patches, severe acne and any unmanly features you can think of. If you don't have any of these, then you should STFU, up your game and get it out. Learn how to approach women from thousands of tutorials on YouTube, because you clearly have no idea how to.
Watch this and guess which guy do you sound like:
It really doesn't sound like you're very confident in this post... but if you want some advice it's to work on how you present yourself in a number of ways:
- smells nice, has a style, nails trimmed, haircut, clean, etc. (shows you care and exudes confidence)
- has goals and hobbies/interests (job, car, not living with parents, not holed up playing video games 24/7)
- has common interests with a girl you like
- social: you surround yourself with people who build you up, has friends, decent-close relationship with family, can hold a conversation (doesn't just talk about yourself), funny (guys are instantly more attractive when they can make me laugh)
- honest, loyal, kind, funny, supportive, respectful etc.
A lot of these traits don't necessarily fade or change like appearances do. Also who we are attracted to is a subjective thing. I don't think it's bad or even that unusual that you are in the 18-24 age group and haven't had one. Also, the fact that you have been rejected is normal but also shows you put yourself out there which is a good thing! It's really hard to do.
Well but nearly everyone in the 18-24 group had been on least one date. I have been on none and I am 23.
More women think I am a 4 on the look scale than anything else.
I'm 20 and honestly haven't. I know some other 20 year olds that haven't either. They weren't unattractive people either. Mine and my two guy friend's problems were that none of us put ourselves out there. My other guy friend set crazy high and unrealistic expectations for women and while he would go on the occasional very casual date he would never pursue a girl farther than that. I can't say exactly why you aren't getting the dates you want but I would work on yourself first and focus on accomplishing goals and things that make you happy. People are attracted to well rounded and happy people. Sorry I know some of what I'm saying is vague, generalized, or just easier said than done but that's what I'd focus on instead of harping on why you can't get the dates that you want.
attraction is subjective
It is subjective, but women think I am a 4 more than women that don't think I am a 4 on the looks scale
Those are just women who aren't attracted to you. It's rejection and it sucks. I would not ask those women out on dates. What is it that you want to hear? I have read a lot of good advice to your original post and you always come back to that comment.
Um I am talking about when I have asked women to rate me on here. More women have rated me a 4 more than anything else and I nearly all the time on dating sites women that read my message and look at my profile afterwards don't respond like nearly all the time. I messaged so many of them and told them why they didn't respond and tons of them admitted saying they didn't respond because they think I am ugly and the other women made up a bunch of dumb excuses or ignored me.
Yeah I get that you say most women on here rate you a 4. I don't think that's a fair representation of real life.
I was going to say maybe I just look ugly in pics lol but maybe I am not ugly to most random people, etc. in person. But the thing is I have asked like 9 women in person what they think of how I look like and 5 of them used the ''I don't care about looks excuse.'' meaning they think I am ugly. One other one said I am a 3. Two other chicks said''Meh, you are OK.'' And one said'' without me even asking that she thinks I am cute
Respectfully, you are far from ugly, in fact, you're very good looking with good eyebrows, but honestly you don't look like you like yourself at all. Your eyes look very pained, which is understandable, but in all sympathy, may I ask, How much pride do you take in your appearance? Do you style yourself in a way that makes you feel at your best? it's depressing, because in your description to this question, it sounds as though you feel as though you aren't worthy of even making an effort, which is very sad because you seriously don't ever need to feel this way. Remember, as others have pointed out, us girls suffer from rejection too. Also, nobody is desired by everybody. With that being said, people are right to talk about confidence in some ways, because if already it's written in your eyes that you don't believe you are handsome (even though you are) along with if you dress like it, it can drive people away from you. In all, I pray God sets you up with the right woman, because it's best to have a woman who both desires and values you at the same time.
All the Best
You may not think I am ugly, but women on here more than anything have rated me a 4, and most women that I have asked in person what they think of how I look, they responded,'Looks don't matter to me''
Do you understand?
Sorry I didn't get back right away, I was very overwhelmed with replying to my posts along with on and off preparing for my exam. In relevance to what you said, I know that must hurt really badly. I'm not going to lie, I was both shocked and disgusted with many of the replies you are talking about, but have you ever wondered why most of them keep themselves anonymous? It seems fair to say that if these girls felt so good about the way look that they would be proud enough to show who they were--with a profile pic of their face. Once again, you are NOT ugly, the problem is the comparison of beauty standards which aren't always true. This is proven with the falseness in face symmetry. Very few people have a perfectly symmetrical face but that doesn't mean that those whose faces are not an instead asymmetrical look like an animal's rear end, right!
What about those women who refused to answer my question in person?
They could honestly feel better because some chicks feel as though they are literally Up, above and beyond beautiful, or they could not like your status because in a lot of ways status does have a major impact when it comes to shallow girls. Seriously, there are a lot of handsome gentlemen who just because of clique and job status were turned down. This seems like it could be your case. Which clique would best describe the one you were in throughout school and now?
You're more than likely going out of your league. I don't know for sure if you're ugly or not since I can't see you, but I am just going to take your word for it. So I am wondering if you're just going for the beautiful women and not paying attention to the ones in your own league. I know a guy who is the same situation as you. I wouldn't call him ugly. I don't see him as ugly, and if he wasn't so picky, I'd go for him. I know I don't stand a chance with him though. He wants a tall woman, she has to be at 5'7. She has to have black long hair and blue eyes. She has to be thin and have perfect cheekbones. He's actually put what he is physically looking for in a Facebook status once. He says she can be a bitch though as long as she meets his standards physically. There are plenty of nice women who would probably date him, but he will not go for them if they don't meet his standards. He isn't a young guy either. He's just turned 32 and never had a relationship.
So are you similar to him?
Just go on my profile, then click on my pic. More than anything women have rated me a 4 on here, and I go after all kinds of women regardless how they look like. I am tired of people assuming I am only going after my league. Most women that are 4s don't even want 4s'
You're not even close to being ugly. I can think of many women, even myself who would be interested. and maybe it's not your case that you don't go out of your league, but many people do that. That's why I brought it up. Maybe you're not going out of your league but just going for extremely picky women then. I can't see anything wrong with you that so many people would call you ugly. Maybe there is something else off-putting about you. The only people who would call someone ugly are people who are insecure bitches anyway, even if that person is ugly.
You are right when you say 4's don't want 4's though and it's not just women who do that. Men and women both try to go out of their league don't label just one gender.
Also, I apologize for assuming you go out of your league. It's just like I said, many people do... like the guy I told you about.
Yeah I understand. And respond to his message when you are ready for me to show the pic in which women on here have rated me a 4 more than anything else. It is not the same pic as this one and even with this pic that I have up right now after I confronted women on dating sites for not responding, tons of them admitted to not responding to me because they think I am ugly, and I had this pic up.
Come to think of it why do nearly all women on dating sites ignore my messages after reading them and looking at my profile? I put my leather jacket pic up there. When I confronted many of them why they ignored me tons of them have admitted to me because they think I am ugly. TONS of them. And nearly all the time women do the same thing on Facebook but yet they have talked to many other guys. I don't get it
Dating sites are hard for men as it is though. So many men can send a lot of messages to women and not get a response back because women get bombarded with messages. To get noticed you really have to have a good profile and a good message. I don't do online dating, but I've just heard stories about how hard it can be. I did try it back in the day because I have social anxiety but I was too anxious to respond to guys, so that didn't work out. Oddly enough I do better in set ups by friends. I don't know why but I do.
I said the women THAT HAVE READ AND LOOKED AT MY PROFILE AFTER READING THE MESSAGE, NOT THE WOMEN WHO HAVEN'T EVEN SEEN THE MESSAGE, NEARLY ALL THESE WOMEN IGNORE MY MESSAGES AFTER READING IT AND LOOKING AT MY PROFILE, AFTER I CONFRONTED SO MANY OF THEM, TONS OF THEM SAID THEY DIDN'T RESPOND BECAUSE THEY THINK I AM PHYSICALLY UGLY, THE OTHER ONES USED RIDICULOUS EXCUSES, AND OTHER WOMEN JUST IGNORED ME WHEN I ASKED THEM WHY THEY IGNORED ME
Sorry about the caps locks in my last response to you. It is just that you clearly got confused with the women who haven't even seen the message or who haven't even looked at my profile after reading the message.
Everyone gets rejected. I'm not best or worst looking and I've been rejected by 100% of guys I pursued.
Don't lose hope. Will it be harder to find someone? Yes. Will you be rejected? Yes. But will you find someone eventually? Yes. Don't ever "settle" or sell yourself short.
Also, learn to be happy while being alone. People who aren't usually REEK of desperation and it is off putting. So learn more about yourself, love yourself and be happy while single. If you're search of happiness lies in others (aka a girlfriend), than you'll never be truly happy nor satisfied, no matter how many girls you get, no matter how hard you try. FYI
Rejected by100% of the guys you pursued huh? It must have something to do with your personality, because looks don't seem be an issue for you.
So on one hand, half of the girls say we should lower our standards because, clearly, we must be aiming too high. On the other hand, confidence is sexyness so we should never settle or sell ourself short. Makes sense. So we just have to find a way to be super confident but without being confident at all in our looks or our ability to get average or above average looking girls.
Sounds like quite the conumdrum. Thank god I'm extremely good looking. Oh wait.. :)
@SomeoneImportant She has an amazing personality. ;) At least in my book lol. But we can't please everyone..
@VulcanHades You can't judge personality unless you've met the person. That's why I didn't attempt to point out anything specific.
@SomeoneImportant I guess, I'm a really shitty person but still awesome :P lol
I have a hit or miss personality, some people like me, some don't :)
Some have been my friends, some were strangers. So I guess the strangers thought I was unattractive or my personality? I don't know how they would have known my personality though lol
@VulcanHades yea, don't settle BUT. And there is a big BUT. If you don't settle, just remember it will be REALLY hard to find someone. Will it be worth it though? I think so. I'm not saying that not settling will be the best choice, cuz it has a lot of risks. A LOT. You will be a lot less likely to find someone. I still don't think, for me at least, I would wanna settle. Mine is about personality though, not looks. I have a lot of requirements for his personality mainly.
I think Buchita is hot
@SomeoneImportant
How are these men able to tell what her personality is like, if she just walked up and said "hi"?
Unless she pursued men she already knew, this statement holds no merit. And even then, it doesn't mean she has a bad personality - some men will simply not like a certain type of girl: some prefer the quiet, others prefer outgoing and neither can be considered as "bad".
What I'm trying to say is that EVERYONE has preferences and looks won't always help you.
@asker thank you :3
@MaskedSanity exactly. Sometimes people like your traits, sometimes they don't doesn't make either of us wrong.
But @asker, if you reek of desperation, that can be one. Sometimes guys can't tell they're being extra desperate, and that's off putting. It shows you don't value yourself. I know for me, I don't like that. Like I told @VulcanHades, don't settle BUT beware that you won't find someone easily. Your chances of getting a girl will be less and less. I don't know. I guess you can make it work if the girl you go for is not what you actually want. So it's your choice really. As long as you're happy, do what's best for you.
@MaskedSanity Well you're assuming she's getting rejected right off the bat, I'm assuming the guy loses interest after a date or two. Which would mean it MIGHT have something to do with personality. I don't know her personally, I'm guessing you don't either, so we are both making assumptions lol.
@SomeoneImportant no. It wasn't after dating. We didn't even make it to dating :c
It was right off the bat. I also tried with a couple of friends. But some said the cliche line "I'm not good enough for you" aka they either believe that, or they just don't wanna. I'd rather people be upfront and honest, but whatever. Or that I'm just not their type. That I don't mind, I'd rather them be honest than patronizing.
@BuchitaBuchys You may be a nice and fun gal, but I don't know since I don't know you. I just threw out the personality thing because you certainly have the looks in your favor. A hit or miss personality huh? Haven't heard that one before, must mean there's certain things about you that only some people can tolerate. But that's just my analysis, based on absolutely nothing.
Interesting, I'd like to know what it is that chases the guys away. These type of things fascinate me, just everything about the different dynamics of dating/socializing. I wouldn't mind sitting and discussing this with you in person. It's like a puzzle, now I want to solve it.
@GoldCobra, everyone :c
Lol jk. Those who don't want me. It's cool
@SomeoneImportant, Eh. I'd like to know as well. But we're not all special snowflakes lol I know, mama tells you that you're the best, and whoever rejects is just stupid or whatever. But sometimes the people just won't like you. And that's fine. Doesn't make them terrible people, it just means you aren't for them.
Yeah, that pretty much sums it up lol.
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I honestly doubt the physical appearance is your biggest problem.
Why say that?
Because you've been on this site for more than a month and all you do is whine about your appearance! There's no way your continuous negativity doesn't seep into your real life social interactions.
So you are saying ugly guys don't get rejected for being ugly? LOL
You know that is bull right
More women rate me a 4 than anything else
Well of course. You're using a picture where you look like you're constipated and angry about it.
Women think I am ugly in person too. Many women that I have asked in person what they think of how I look and nearly all of them said they don't care about looks
I have never agreed with an opinion so much in my life @Mesonfielde
You need to STOP whining immediately. Why do you refer to your apparent '4' rating in every post? You have taken this way too literally.
Its all about the way you approach the women not about your looks.
For example: I am 27, bought a house and moved out of my parents when I was 19. I own a car, I dress very well and keep myself well groomed. I do housework, I can cook. I have a well paying job and I stay very fit. I travel international every year and have renovated my house. I play two sports, including golf which I play at at a very high amateur level. By all accounts I am highly intelligent and hold interesting conversations.
But guess what? I have been single for 4 years for all but one simple reason. I am very shy. I have mental brick walls stopping me from approaching women. Maybe that and I dont shout out to the world or brag about myself all the time.
Thing is, I dont complain about it, I just get on with what makes me happy, a woman might fall into my life but I'll let that happen when it happens. Until then you'll find me on the golf course :D
If you are ugly you have to take 1000 rejections, the difference between you and me is that you are not ugly.
If you can pick your balls up off the floor, before someone steps on them, you can start on the road to pussy as soon as YOU stop holding yourself back.
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I would say it's more of a mindset than confidence but that's important too. Everyone once in a while you there videos of out of shape out, not very attractive women posting some video expressing themselves confidently. For example I've seen a video of a rather large girl doing dancing. She was confident in herself and I found her attractive because of it. I would have never done so otherwise. She seemed like a really cool girl I would love to get to know.
In regards to a mindset I've learned something a long time ago looks mean nothing. Majority of the cool attractive girls in high school work in Walmart and have 3 kids by the age of 20. Outside of a short fling as long as they aren't repulsing looks are pretty far down the line when it comes to important qualities. You don't want to date a 10. Why? Because they are often fake, spend large amount of time perfecting their image. 10s want to date 10s because they are both equally focused on their appearance. Call me crazy but being a nice person, having passion/drive, a job, and not mentally unstable are far more important to me than looks are. I have not a shred of doubt that if I'm rejected by someone they are missing out. Not my loss. I saw this video from Jenna Marbles about "nice guys" and I think it's pretty accurate check it out.
She saying nice guys only go after hot chicks. I don't do that
You are not ugly, dude. But anyways, a guy's appearance is not everything. Even 'ugly' is a vague word, I really don't know what ugly would like if it was a person. LOL
If someone is really really really unattractive, they can try to compensate the lack of good physical apparence by other things; like being fun to be with, having a good sense of humor, trying to overcoming insecurities, at least not showing them to people, being ambitious/having a good job, being interesting/having hobbies.
Read some self-help, relationships books.
And lastly, if you don't love yourself, nobody's gonna love you.
Well you may not think I am ugly but women on here have rated me a 4 more than other things
Also, I have asked women in person what they think of how I look, most of them responded they don't care about looks, one rated me a 3 and two said''Meh, you are ok.''
The point is more women than anything think I am ugly. I am not saying most of them think it, but more women think I am ugly than anything else
What is an ugly guy that is considered on the looks scale a 4 by women more than anything else supposed to do?
I have that and nothing happened.
Yes I do.
Martinhelper... It really comes down to confidence which you say you have. I'm not considered attractive at all but it doesn't stop me from talking to a woman. When I was younger, I wouldn't approach a woman because of all the "what if" scenarios that you put yourself through, but as you get older, most women really don't look at your attractiveness "as much" though it plays a small part. I personally think as long as you're showing that confidence and are being yourself then most women are drawn to that type of aura or vibe and they will approach you. Just keep doing you my man and you'll be good to go. Trust me, this is coming from someone who is just like you.
I am 23 though. Most women still don't like ugly guys my age lol
Smile :) And don't just have confidence and appear interesting, be friendly and witty. You could probably improve your appearance by working out and getting some muscle. I think it'll suit your body type more. And get contacts. Not that there is anything wrong with glasses, but it's making you have a baby face. You need to be a bit more manly.
But seriously, there are lots of girls out there with the exact same problem. You're either looking in the wrong places or are doing something wrong like creeping her out.
Lol about the baby face. That is true
I still have a baby face without the glasses
Nah, you look a hell of a lot better in your new photo. Heck, I wouldn't turn you down if you approached me in rl. If you can't get a girl looking like that, it's something to do with your behaviour.
You look more buff now, not babyfaced lol.
Lol thanks. Even with the glasses on, when I go out in public with the leather jacket on, a lot of women are smiling at me. I always wondered if they thought something was funny about me but I guess I look good with the leather jacket with or without the glasses on. Even though I look good either way I assume I look better still without the glasses when I wear my leather jacket.
Oh yeah, the jacket is def a keeper. Not many guys can pull it off, but it really suits you. I prefer you without glasses, but if you need to wear them, try and get some better frames.
Wait a minute come to think of it more than anything women have still thought I was ugly online even with the leather jacket on. Only some women online have thought I was good looking with the leather jacket on. I get ignored nearly all the time on dating sites, and when I confront the women on there why they haven't responded tons of them said because they think I am ugly, and the other ones refuse to admit why they ignored me. I get ignored nearly all the time after women read my message and look at my profile.
Read my last message please
Geez, nobody is everybody's type. There are gonna be some women who find you attractive and some who don't. It's like that for most people. And if at least some women found you attractive, isn't that more than enough?
If a women ignores your message, don't ask why they ignored you. That's really creepy. Men might send messages to lots of women on dating sites, but since women are usually only after the one, special guy, chances are that you're gonna get ignored. Women usually get way more messages than they would be able to handle, and they are only going to respond to a few of them. They guys that they're gonna respond to won't be chosen just because they're attractive (which you are anyway, so you don't need to worry about this), but because they can find something in common with you on your profile and get the impression that you are trustworthy guy. Focus on that instead, and keep it real, 'cos women can easily pick out a fake.
Odds are someone in your family thought you were a cute kid but you were raised insecurely and hence you're here upset about how you're apparently unattractive since that's what you latched your self worth onto. Doesn't matter that every single girl you approached rejected you unless one of them physically said something like "You're not just average, you're ugly." (Internet ratings don't count, the average here is a 3.5/10 for males looks-wise).
It doesn't matter how good looking you are or how good looking she is, if a girl can tell that you've got a potentially dangerous set of insecurities, you will be rejected. Arrogance is no compensation; I know this through personal experience.
I have asked women in person about what they think of how I look and all but three said the excuse''looks don't matter to me.'' Like 6 of them said that. Basically refusing to answer means they think I am ugly. A 7th girl admitted she thought I was a 3 and two girls said''meh, you are OK.''
You really think that and why would women online rate a guy they think is average a 4?
What about just online in general? Like this website?
Well I am saying that I have asked rate me questions on here and more women have rated me 4 thatn anything else
What is ofc?
How about the pic now?
Looks much better than your previous one in my opinion; at worst, you look far closer average than ugly. If I came across you in real life, I'd probably think you were more awkward or something than necessarily bad physically features. I'm more convinced now that your string of rejections had more to do with your approach rather than looks.
Thanks man, but I usually don't look like that in the pic lol. I usually wear my glasses all the time and dress like most other guys around my age. I do wear my leather jacket sometimes. And even with the glasses on I get a lot of looks from women when I have my leather jacket on, to top it off nice pant, and nice shoes. Everyone's right. Maybe I just am a 4 in the pic that I had up before because I am not smiling, etc.
Read my last message
I got ripped, educated myself, learned German, learned Electric and Acoustic Guitar, became a U. S. Marine, learned how to go down the right way on girls, and developed a very funny, charming, and sincere personality. I treat every woman in my life like my best friend, and treat every girl I date like she is my wife. Word spreads from there. I had to. If I had to rely on my looks, I would still be a virgin. And, yes, I have has several girls that were WAY to attractive for me. I mean WAY out of my league. But a lot of girls do like a 'Good and Descent Guy' over a studly asshole. Not many women, but there are some, (usually well over 30 years old). Just like me - I put no weight whatsoever on a girl's looks. I become, literally, more and more sexually attracted to women as I get to know, and LIKE their personalities.
Success Criteria is going to vary from person to person or scenario to scenario. But I hate to admit that confidence is apart of that criteria.
1. Be funny, make people laugh and bring joy to their lives
2. Be romantic, show the you are loving and caring
3. Be mysterious and/or bad boy. I don't know why, women love jerks. So be nice, but be a bad boy.
4. Be responsible for your actions, follow up on your actions. If you say your going to some thing, DO IT
5. Don't chase, let them come to you. Be appoarchable.
6. Do things that make you interesting to people, and want to be your friend. Be friendly and outgoing
7. Be a gentlemen, and treat them with respect. But lets admit it. Women like a chase. Be hard to get and always be busy
If your confidence is what you say it was you wouldn't be making this post. Just saying.
Anyways, your question. You have to strengthen your weaknesses. Make yourself more presentable and appealing.
Girls generally speaking care more about a guy being confident.
Having something he's passionate about and pursuing that passion.
Has a job that he's recognized for.
And is "in control". Being a take charge kind of man while respecting her thoughts/feelings/needs. Girls want to be treated with respect as an equal, rightfully so.
Unfourtunately bud
Its all about laws of demand and supply... I must say its not a fair world and if you can ever land a women you find really attractive and she loves you, Id be really happy for you
However at the end of the day, its supply and demand and what the market finds sexy vs not
So best advice if its really a problem and you want a better answer then the typical have confidence or just look for a women who loves you for you. If you want to be 'james bond' in a sense, increase your social rapport in the world, increase status, capitalize on your brain and your quirkiness if you have any and all shall come pal
smell good,
great hair cut.
nails in shape.
good cloths.
car
successful
intellectual!!!
dosnt play video games all day
have your own place
start going out with new friends
good language.
PARTY!!!
be honest!
really... you are wrong. there is no such thing as UGLY! ugly is your personality or something you are doing thats a "turn off" women over come the " must be hot and have an 8-pack" phase quiet young!
hope this helps!
good luck
Yeah there is no such thing as ugly. Do you think I am dumb? I do smell good, etc. but guess what, that doesn't change the fact that I am ugly
Ugly is the only reason. You need to be realistic
fine nigga then your ugly. why you asking if yoy know every girl here is gonna say "improve your personality" etc .
if your ugly and you know it. then dont ask?
lmfao YOU NEED TO BE REALISTIC.
try not to be awkward when you talk to a girl you like! offer to take her out, invite her some where you know she has intrest in. art gallery, music, book store, club. so on.
I asked many girls out and I got rejected so much. It is obvious because I am ugly. Also women have rate me a 4 more than anything else on here.
I felt this way too before when I was in high school and university. I decided to do what I wanted to which was work in a factory... not appealing to most but whatever. Anyways, I've met girls actually interested in me and my looks... I'm like WTF. So... go where your interests are, or where you feel you belong and you will see that sunshine beautifully just for you. If you are asking girls out all in the same sort of environment, maybe you need to hunt on different ground if you catch my drift.
Bibledork I am working at an non career job since I am still studying for my major in criminal justice. The women at my non career job have rejected me. Dude I am a 4 on the looks scale. Women think I am a 4 more than anything else. I am still in college. I have asked women at my college for years and no luck. I am 23 by the way
Also Bibledork you are probably average not ugly
So in other words foxxedout be a douche bag what a surprise.
Agreed but TECHNICALLY, you could get a career out of playing video games all day. It's just hard to find this. Very hard. Yet very possible. And there is likely other work to do besides it to make it work. Still possible though. Girls and guys both do it I guarantee. Partying is not always easy if you are on the shy side and can lead to reeeeaaalllyy bad things.
Most things in life is that of perception. Life is very much what you perceive it to be. I see "ugly" guys all the time being with hot girls. I see "hot" guys ask why they aren't scoring girls.
The point is you need to go out there and get the life that you want and the same goes for everyone else. You need to believe yourself in the things you desire. Or figure it out what you desire. It is not about making yourself "hot" or beautiful, by doing it, you will naturally become attractive. It is more important than all the books in the world, the religions combined, dating advice from Don Juan, etc.
Life is 90% what we think happens and 10% what actually happens to us. Once you believe it, your views on yourself and life will completely change. You probably won't have a giant epiphany on this tonight.
First of all you're not ugly and second of all it is possible to fall in love with a guy you don't find handsome. Guys say that's bs girls just say that but I know since I am now crushing a guy I don't find good looking. But after you fall in love with someone they'll be handsome to you
Well to YOU I am not ugly but more women think I am ugly then women that don't think I am ugly
Dude did you like totally skip the rest of my opinion, the whole point is that it doesn't, matter when you're in love with someone. Just be sweet and, make her laugh
get plastic surgery?
lol, just kidding. but bro if this guy here can do it then you can do it with your eyes closed
www.rantlifestyle.com/.../...d-Flavio-Briatore.jpg
but of course he might be a multimillionaire and that wouldn't really be a triumph if you want a girl to really love you. but you can really try to be more outgoing and confident as supposedly women really find that irresistible in a guy
They say to never ask a girl about girls, and I think this has some truth to be honest. Ask a guy about his success. Anyways, I always thought if you're single (as I am), it is best to improve yourself and interests. For me, I work out a bit and I read and watch shows regarding my interests. When I meet girls, I at least have some physical attraction for them and quite a lot to talk about if we have anything in common. Patience is a virtue, apparently. Eat healthy and learn to cook too. I know some people say she should love me for being me and to never change yourself but that doesn't mean you can't improve yourself. Good luck bro. It is a tough world for everyone.
I think you have to be honest with yourself if you aren't already. By that I mean don't go after girls that are out of your league. You will get spoon fed a lot of bull shit when looking for advice, but the reality is, you just need to go after ugly girls, plain and simple.
By being fed bullshit, do you mean by people telling me it is my personality, etc?
Yup, pretty much. Honestly, girls aren't capable of telling you the harsh reality, because they don't want to seem shallow. But for you to get a date, the girl has to find you physically attractive in some way. Every relationship starts with physical attraction.
I'm not saying give up on hot chicks completely, you'll be able to pull some one night stands with a good looking girl. But, if you are not exaggerating, and really are as unattractive as you say, then stay in your lane when dating.
Well I am a 4 on the looks scale. What should I do?
Well if you want to go by the scale, your best chance would be to not go higher than a 6. But overall, just use your judgement, I'm sure you know whether or not a girl is out of your league.
You may not exactly have a personality that seems "good" to a lot of people. Just because you think you're personality is great, other's may see it as off putting and cocky because as you put it, you're physically ugly. Girls that are unattractive go through the same things. They can be really awesome but if they're ugly, guys don't really seem to want them. You could try getting a really nice body, if you don't have one already. That's what most girls have to do. Not to mention, though. Almost everyone I meet tells me that I'm extremely beautiful and that my body is amazing and that I'm super sweet and smart and funny, and I've never had a boyfriend and have barely ever been on any dates. So, I don't really think it has anything to do with looks..
I do have a nice body
There has to be something off putting about your personality then. That's the only thing I could really think of. If you were basically perfect except for your looks, more girls would want you. So there's probably something that makes girls feel like you're not a guy worth dating, personality wise
I have a nice body but I am not buff either.
Become a body builder then. A lot of girls have a hard time resisting big arms and tight abs, regardless of the face.
I'd still recommend the gym to guys honestly. I know some will say "but my face is still ugly" but just like guys are with preferences with girls, girls are pretty much the same way about guys. In the end being in front of someone in a healthy state says a lot more than some guy crippling away at 2% body fat wondering why his abs aren't picking up the ladies.
@silentg going that low in body fat is risky health wise and people aiming to go that low in body fat are likely doing it for a contest and don't care about the risks involved.
@silentg depends on many factors such as age, gender, etc. Women's healthy body fat %'s are higher. There's plenty of graphs yes. You mighta seen a reference to the "essential fat" which is a different topic.
Ok, is this what you mean?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ah_NvifsgOI
@silentg not sure if that is really 2% or not. I can see why the comments feel that way. They are right that at 2% you'd see glute striations.
@silentg someone that low in body fat will have risks like increased cold sensitivity, immune system problems, hair loss, inability to recover fully from workouts, etc. People who stay that low in body fat year round are likely to be using performance enhancing drugs.
What are physically ugly guys supposed to do?
Look for a woman who cares about you and not your looks. Look for a woman who isn't shallow enough to look at you once and walk away, or just simply reject you. Get a woman who respects you and will love you.
I'm not the best looking guy and I certainly don't have muscles. I think what is more important if not most is the way you carry yourself. Make yourself known. Talk to strangers in class or on the streets. Seriously that's how I met my girlfriend. First day of history class I said hi and she looked at me like "is he talking to me?". And then we passed notes in class, Facebook, Skype and confessed. It worked!
I did that and no luck. You are probably average not ugly like me
You probably are jut looking down on yourself. I was rejected about 4 times by 4 different girls before it happened
In the end it comes down to personality. I would never date a guy with a sucky personality even if he was the hottest guy on the planet. You just need to be yourself and be comfortable in your own skin. If you have positive attributes and a good attitude, you'll find a girl I promise.
I am in my early twenties and still don't have luck
Be patient!! Looks don't matter as much as you seem to think. Maybe you need to put yourself out there more, get out of the house and start socializing!
I am socializing and always have. That is why I am saying no luck
Girls don't like guys who don't appear happy. Smiling can make you look more approachable. I sat with this guy the other day and he was all down in the dumps, telling me all his problems. Kind of a big turn off... Although I felt bad for him!
I am happy.
Well you don't really sound too enthusiastic to me!
Well I'm technically challenged so I don't know how but I have some advise about your profile picture... SMILE!! (You could also ditch the glasses)
What does that have to do with my other question about you being technically challenged?
Go for a pretty girl with low self-esteem. I know that sounds bad but if you're telling her how beautiful she is, in her eyes you are just as beautiful if not more. That's what I just learned from my ex. He was very uneasy on the eyes but after he told me how pretty I was and I got to know him, I never found him so attractive. He was all I wanted. Unfortunately he left me for a girl who he thought was prettier. No whining please. That's not cute on anyone.
Don't be nerdy. Being ugly and lame is like the kiss of death. Become tough and manly. I've liked and dated ugly guys but they were never soft & wimpy they were always very hard and masculine. Play a contact sport, join the military, get a job where u can be seen as a hero or join a gang. That's all I got.
Really? Are you for real? Or did you just come from 4chan to create a fake account here? Not all girls are stupid and can actually get passed looks and "manliness." Those are actually the more superior ones. So are guys that are not that tough, but may be into academic subjects and expanding the mind. Sports are pointless. Military is often evil. Gangs land you in jail. We want to help this dude, not fuck his life up.
Well for starters, how about stop WHINING about it? Whiny guys are extremely unattractive. And stop the constant self-pity. It's not doing you any good whatsoever and is even more unattractive than whining.
If you are unhappy with your looks, get something done with your. Maybe even see if someone can do a makeover on you, a guy makeover of course. I have gotten better looking as I have gotten older but I changed my style. I had the help of some very fashion oriented female friends. You're also young. I was a virgin until I was 22 and have had girlfriends since.
I am 23
Just because someone is attractive doesn't mean they'll have lasting and fulfilling relationships. Good looks are useful like first impressions at a job interview, It gets your foot in the door easily. But relationships aren't like job interviews because relationships are ongoing. Usually people become physically attracted to you as the grow fond of your personality overtime. The familiarity of you personally usually is what wins people over.
Have money, be nice, and pretend that we look like Brad Pitt. Wimmen are a lot more tolerant of physical traits than guys are. So quit being desperate and feeling like a loser. Pretend you're a winner and go do fun interesting stuff. Take girls with you.
Tell her you're doing (fun activity) tomorrow and she should come do it too.
And if you had confidence you'd have gotten laid. You need to take advice for it to work.
Go to the gym get that V taper going to your crotch and they will want to feel it the next thing they grab will be your you know what! Currently am a gym rat the town I live sucks its like the worst place on earth so I am getting fit and sexy and that is making me more confident and I make the other guys look bad in the gym so that's great for me. I am on my way to arrogant-ville after all that's what all those girls like anyway haha Tell them you have a huge cock or make a lot of money lol
The theory I've heard is you have to be really ahead of the median on other things, then. You have to be buff, and/or rich, and/or a fabulous cook, and or influential/powerful/well known. And the uglier you are, the more impressive you have to be in other areas that matter to girls.
I'm an ugly guy, and so far haven't gotten all that far in those other areas, so I'm not able to test the theory first hand, yet. But I plan on getting there.
First of all you stop worrying about getting a girlfriend, because that's desiring something you aren't able to control at 100%, and it's also not gonna solve any of your problems anyway.
Second of all you stop calling yourself ugly, because that's comparing yourself to others.
Third of all you stop thinking about your short-terms, because that's self-pity. Focus on what you can do, and that there are much worse things in this world than being considered ugly
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I don't think you have self-confidence, when you come here posting things like this.
Even guys who are very good-looking, very self-confident, and very financially successful get rejected. You have to ask out a lot of people. The absolute most important rule in dating is that there are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't start feeling helpless after a few rejections, just move on and ask out some more girls.
Universal Hot Crazy Matrix YouTube it
This should help.
A. Get a good job!
B. Move out of Mommy's and have your own place.
C. Make sure you have a nice car.
We are shallow creatures. (Don't believe what others try to tell you) the more you have and can offer the better. This is why you see hot chicks with fuglys and why hot chicks put up with broke ass hot dudes.
I will do a career in criminal justice. It is not something in which I will get a lot of money.
First two maybe, but the third one? Really? And what happens if things happen to it? And insurance fucks up? Or people scratch it out of jealousy? I think if somebody is not attracted to saving money, they aren't sexy. Just another load to carry. Don't care what they physically look like. It's great to have a lot to offer, but many people have plenty to offer and end up alone. There really isn't anything wrong with being single. Saves money, you can do what you want, no risk of kids, etc. Also, if somebody gets attracted to me simply because of my nice car and wealth, idc how pretty they are, I'd say hell no gtfo! It's not worth the trouble. This is the smart way not to get fucked over.
I don't date guys for looks, I date a guy completely for his personality but I take time to know them first so basically become friends I guess but if you haven't got the looks your personalty must be amazing to get a girl attracted to you. Also stop going for girls out of you league in looks go for someone equal in looks and you might have a chance.
Completely for his personality? Lol yeah right.
Thats BS, personality may be mainly AFTER your interested in him. But it's either money, reputation (fame), or looks that attract initially. Let's be honest here.
I do but I'm normally friends with them for a hell of a long time first so I know them really well, personality when you meet someone will never be enough it would have to be a sure thing it could work out if not a fling with a hot guy sounds better than a fling with an ugly guy
I see this and it interested me so how can you tell whether a girl is in your league or not
Well looks, you clearly know if your good looking, average or ugly and also know what a girl is so if your ugly your chances with a good looking girl are fairly low
Yeah I am ugly. I am a 4 lol
Then go for a 4 or maybe even a 5 but don't go for a 8 she'll want an 8 too
Most girls that are 4s don't even want 4s. I asked all types of women out. I am not going to go for a 5 since 5s' are average looking and chances are they don't want someone below average looking
Well if your not a risk taker go for 2's and 3's, your choice but do you really think dating is easy for anyone? even for a hot person dating is all about the risks.
It is the same thing with them too
Maybe stop being such a downer about dating and go out with friends, enjoy yourself and you'll find someone, oh and you can also do something about your looks to make them better, there is always something you can do.
Do you honestly think I can do something about my looks?
Well what makes you ugly in your opinion?
Just the way I look. Look at me lol. More women have rated me a 4 on here than anything else.
Change the hair loose the glasses and get contacts, if you can't wear contacts get nicer glasses the suit you face, maybe smile more and get nicer clothes
what?
Ok I will
you just keep trying. and find ways to better yourself if you want too.
I tried everything I can
i doubt you tried everything you can, you probably did a great deal, but not everything. and the thing with trying is just that, you have to keep trying. its a continuous effort.
Get money my dude its very difficult to find good women these days with the way social media is. Its rare for girls to genuinely love you for you. Women are just attracted to the image. My bro got a 35k sports car and now women acknowledge him more than ever. Money will put you in control of women because most of them have no talent or anything viable besides their looks. So yeah just make yourself seem as rich as possible and women will be happy to date you
But those women are using your brother
Have you done everything you could not to look ugly? Like working out and getting in shape, a different haircut, growing a beard, good looking clothes? If you have a bad complexion, there is a plenty of different soaps and ointments. It may take time and effort, but don't give up. Unless you really have tried everything you could, there is no reason to say you're ugly.
There is no such thing as ugly when beauty is subjective. People get off on tentacle p*rn so it's not far-fetched to say that someone will find you physically attractive
Oh geez, to be exact, guys that are considered to be physically ugly more than anything else by women
It is subjective that is why I said women that USUALLY THINK ARE physically ugly MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE. More women think he is physically ugly than the ones who don't think so
Then why do women always call me ugly instead of saying''You are not my type.''? I confront many women on dating sites about why they didn't respond to me and many of them admitted to me''it is because you are ugly, go on the street corner to get a prostitute and maybe you will have luck, another girl said''good luck trying to get pussy you can't get since you are ugly, etc. They are right though. I am ugly.
how can ugly be subjective if it doesn't exist? girl, I know you mean well but that's a very hypocritical statement and you're contradicting yourself.
but yea, he'll find a mutual attraction eventually.
I wonder what kind of women OP is chasing after. I knew this one fugly guy who only chased after models. Dumbo actually thought he stood a chance of dating Meghan Fox. Maybe OP needs to drop his standards too?
@miserybusiness I said beauty was subjective not ugly
Can you respond to my response below to dating sites, etc?
I responded to you on here telling you about how woman called me ugly on dating sites, etc. Read the response.
And physically ugly women get rejected to. So 1 + ! = 2. Date your fellow kind of the other sex ;) Problem solved!
Caps was accidentally on ;)
Most physically ugly women don't want to date physically ugly men.
caps lock doesn't affect the number section hun ;D. you were holding shift!! Don't lie!
lol.. you're right.. I ment shift. Swear! hahaha
I don't like it when assume I don't go after women that are 4s' like me
Not everyone is a 10 .
Not everyone can get with a 10
At the end of the day looks aren't going to get you very far. As we progress in life our aperance changes. It's are actions that should define us. Their are bigger things to worry about than ur looks. We are all born beautiful.
Forget people who are going to put u down you are perfect for the right soul
It would be awesome, though if I become good looking later on in life.
What I ment was in time we age our aperance will change. How we look now we might not look like that a year from now.
Look, if you appear like you have money, than you can have any girl that you want. It doesn't matter how ugly you are. Hot guys+broke=some girls. Unattractive guys+money=all the girls.
I am not rich though
It has nothing to do with being rich. Just have your shit together.
I don't want to be used
Don't allow it to be a free for all. Women are attracted to men who seem like they have it together. That doesn't open an invitation for her to use you.
Make $$$$$$$$.
Supplement your lack of physical features with expensive stuff.
Physically ugly girls have it worse.
I don't want women to use me. And without money or fame ugly guys have it just as bad
Well if you're expecting someone to come up with some magical solution on this forum, you're outta luck bro. You can't change the way the world works. You'll find someone eventually. Make take time but hey, there's nothing else you can do. Sorry.
Be funny and confident. We love confident guys. I'd fuck Seth rogan for those two reasons, not just his looks. But he's one cool dude.
I am
You aren't ugly at all to me.
And i'm honest. don't compare yourself, you're good enough whether or not you think so.
Well to you, I am nt ugly but more women think I am a 4 on the looks scale more than anything. Women have rated me on here. And nearly all the women that read my message and look at my profile after that don't respond. I confronted tons of them and many of them said they didn't respond because they think I am ugly. Others have made dumb excuses, but the reason is obvious.
Their rates have nothing to do with real life. Meeting people in person is so much better than real life. Attraction doesn't just comes from looks alone, It's the way you speak, it's your vibe, its the way you describe things, it's your laugh and sense of humor. Attraction isn't simply just looks based on a picture, if you let yourself get defined by a silly website then you're just wasting your self esteem on something completely unreliable.
You know when someone asks someone to rate them, it means to rate them ON THEIR LOOKS ONLY.
That stuff is included in your "looks". I'm saying if some of these girls saw you IN PERSON. they would probably RATE YOU HIGHER.
Where are your critical thinking skills? Jesus.
Well I am talking about looks only. I have asked women to rate me in person and guess what, nearly all of them refused to answer.5 of them said ''Looks don't matter to them'' One said I am a 3 on the look scale, two said''Meh, you are OK.''
You know I am saying the truth. The problem is not that more women that usual think I am a 4, but where do I find many women that are 4s'? There are too many average and attractive women. I have asked out 4s' before but not many of them since there aren't many that I had a chance to make convos with
Confidence=Joke
Not to sound mean but I've liked guys that other girls would find physically ugly simple because they had a wonderful personality. Maybe it's the personality rather than your physical approach you should work on?
I said I have a good personality
Well most people don't know how their personality seems to other persons
have self esteem and find someone equally as attractive as you. thats about it. people are too caught up in appearences nowadays. whats a pretty face if every word that comes out of it is dumb and they can't even handle themselves? oh. just a pretty face. have substance and you will go far.
Most girls that are 4s like me don't want 4s either. I am tired of people assuming I only go after hot chicks. I am not dumb
i never said that.
Well you are telling me to go after people that are equally attractive as me like I haven't done that already
i will say this... and truly i mean it. why do you even need a girlfriend? why can't you just focus on other things like schooling and your career and than maybe when you're ready you'll feel more confident in yourself and your achievements to actually tell a girl, "im taking you out tonight. pick you up at 7." its not rocket science. have more self esteem.
Um I have asked out plenty of girls out and guess what happened?
well there's your error. just tell them im taking you out tonight pick you up at seven. dont say will you go out on a date with me? ladies prefer it when you decide for them. im all out of tips though so good luck
Also, I had plenty of confidence when that happened. Also, when I am done studying, and I keep asking out women do you honestly think things will change when I ask out women again if I am a 4 on the looks scale?
have you been listening to anything I've just said? no one gives a shit about how you look.
its your accomplishments and your personality that make you worthwhile.
I told them everything you can imagine. That doesn't make my ugliness go away
I am studying to do something in criminal justice so not anything that would get me a lot of money
im ugly too but do you see me getting all depressed about it? no im just focusing on school and work. anyways this is becoming an extremely unproductive conversation so good bye.
i don't give a shit simply. i have sex with prostitutes and i don't give a shit about non-prostitute girls. as long as i do this i'm happy and i don't give a f*ck if they find me ugly
You just gotta try, and having a good personality is a must! They need a reason to like you so give them one :)
I said I have a good personality and never had luck
Have a good personality. When you fall for someone's personality that person instantly become more attractive. This might sound cheesy but it's true.
I have a good personality. Read my details.
Hey honestly is that true with the personality thing true? cause im bad looking and over weight and at best im a weak 5 but get the feeling a girl I know who's a solid 10 like's me could this be? I know I have a good personality and im real polite like hold doors open for girls and never swear
I have a good personality but it never worked.
@KINGIRISH Yes the whole personality thing is true, at least it's true for me. Someone might not be super attractive, but if you fall for their personality then they just become more attractive. Plus look fades, but personality doesn't. People need to really think about this. Those who would only go for good looking people, they'll all get old some day, doesn't that means that they gonna stop loving each other?
@ Asker I did read all your details. I'm thinking those are not the right girl. If they turn you down because of your look then they're pretty shallow in my opinion, and you don't want to be with someone who's shallow. You just gotta keep looking.
hey, the thing is i feel she might like me, imjust not sure what to do i have no confidence and well i get on great with a girl at the moment but she's way out of my league but she gave me her number and has asked me for mine and we get on great when we chat also when i was out last week i was chatting a girl up and she came over and started pulling me away saying she wants to chat.. like she clearly cock blocked me. what up?
Who cares if your not attractive, most girls will like you for you. I know that sounds like a cliche but it's true. To get any girl to like you, you have to be yourself all the time. Trust me, a kind funny guy is what all the girls look for now, so be that guy! Hope this helped
HAHAHA! Girls like guys for themselves? That's the way it SHOULD be!! I appreciate you trying to help him and I wish there were girls that were smarter like you, but be realistic, what girls likes guys for them being themselves unless theyre autimatically narcisstic doushes? Fuck relationships! My friend\coworker is a awsome guy and he's been cheated on and then dumped because *he wasn't good enough!* this whole relationshit crap is a pile of assfuck! I hate seeing all the good guys\girls hurt cause everybody is so fucking picky and cruel!! Dont bother with relationships at least until college. Or maybe after. Im a guy and i dont need a chick. and I hear a Lotta girls tthink vice versa and I don't blame them! Ever. I got my car, a job, a phone, and a tablet. They are annoying as hell sometimes but i dont get emotionally hurt by them ever!! FUCK RELATIONSHITS GTFO THIS WEBSITE AND LIVE THE SINGLE LIFE U R BETTER OFF! I know i am!
@errorgoodnameunfound... you don't sound better off.
But I don't know, bro. Maybe I'm the one lashing out like I don't care, but do.
Yeah... that's right...
When you say ugly, I think of large scars or burn marks across someone's face. Do you mean ugly or just not attractive?
I mean ugly. I have some pimples on my face but not acne though and I don't have any scars. I am not overweight at all either.
Pimples aren't ugly. Just unattractive. There's this guy I know, he has some acne and braces, yet every girl I know is in love with him. (I think its cuz of his JB wannabe hair). I feel left out cuz i used 2 like his identical twin brother lol! Anyway, that crap about, "I don't care about the outside, only the inside", is a bunch of crap. Yes, to me, about 80% of a person that makes me like them is who they are, but outsides play a part too. You think I'm in love with Chris Hemsworth because he's a family man? Uh, no. There's only one thing you can do to get girls attracted to you. Confidence. You don't have to actually have it, just fake it. There's nothing sexier a man can wear than a thick layer of confidence. What you see in yourself is what the world sees. Message me if you want more on the subject!
Oops. Sorry about the confidence thing. I didn't read the whole descriptions. My fault
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. People view things as beautiful in many ways. I know how you feel, but just try to move on. Maybe work out, accomplish a goal to boost self esteem, look in a foreign country (like Brazil or Asia), etc
Wait!!! Am I being delusional? I consider myself to be handsome and yet I'm rejected too. Does that mean I'm ugly?
Um women have rated me a 4 on here more than anything
That's not very nice is it?
Only one member of this website has seen my picture and she said I was a rather dashing individual with great bone structure in reference to my face and a good pair of eye brows.
It is not mean though. They told me what they think of me.
Here's your hope.
www.straitpinkie.com/.../
Those guys have money
There aren't going to be any answers on here that will make you feel better or get you to stop complaining, so there's really no point in trying to help you out. You can either quit whining, live your life happily and work out regularly to stay fit, or you can keep complaining and not leave any room for self-improvement. Your choice.
I have seen plenty of ugly men and woman get married. So there's hope.
Yes but how were they? I am talking about early twenties and teens. I am 23
I've seen ugly people get married at early twenties, late twenties etc. Doesn't really matter. Point is they were less than desirable in terms of looks and they still were able to find someone.
How did their partners look?
Decently pretty, average looking to just as ugly as them. But obviously they were attractive to each other in someway or they wouldn't be getting married.
What only talking about the ugly guys. How do most of their wives look?
I just answered that.
You did a combination of both the ugly men and women, Just do the men
I said that. It's the first sentence on the last paragraph I wrote.
You should not get upset. Keep trying. Never give up. No matter how many times people reject you.
Ok thanks. Can you also please respond to another question of mine which has to do with intimacy?
Just go on my profile to find it
Just tell yourself this:
https://cdn.meme.am/instances/32383560.jpg
All good bro.
dude just shut up with the 'every girl gives me a 4' LOL
and why would you even ask a girl in person to tell you if you look good or not? you might aswell just say 'im an idiot and dont like me at all, so why should you?'
Well online more women gave me a 4 than anything else. And in person all but three girls that I asked said looks don't matter to them. One of the three other girls said I am a 3 on the looks scale and the two other girls said''Meh, you are OK.''
A guy I know is quite ugly and he still manages to always have girlfriends that are prettier than him. He's funny and confident (girls like confident guys), and he's not afraid of trying and flirting. Maybe it helps that we go to an almost-all-girls school.
I have had confidence and I am preety and guess what? It hasn't worked. Maybe because top it off not only I am 4 on the looks scale. I am also nerdy looking. Look at me.
I meant to say funny, not preety
"If women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy."
Bonus points for where this comes from.
What does that mean?
Do you own duct tape?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxYe26CIvuY
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