Hmm, seems like something is really wrong with him. But I don't much care to figure that out--because whatever the reason, he seems emotionally abusive. Why should you have to put up with that? If you're feeling that way, it's not a good sign.
If you are of the mind to try to save the marriage, seeing a marriage counselor and having him speak to someone about trying to figure out his behavior is an option. But if that doesn't work, or if you aren't up for trying (which would be completely reasonable of you based on the history of your marriage so far), then leaving may be better.
But to your headline question, there is no good reason at all for a man to talk to a woman like that.
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No man should talk to, or put down, any woman like that.
i'd heard anecdotally that a friend of mine had been criticised by her husband about her weight before and she's tiny (UK 6-8) and it so annoys me that someone can bully someone else like that.
I hope you don't find this offensive, but he sounds like a complete asshole. No man should EVER speak to or treat a woman like this. I think it's wise for you to consider divorce or at the very least some counseling. I don't think things will ever get better between the two of you if he thinks this behavior is ok. I know that it's hard to contemplate breaking up your family especially when young children are involved, but think of it this way, do you really want your children growing up believing that this is a healthy relationship? Stay strong and respect yourself. Good luck.
He is an abusive narcissist who only sees things his way. He only loves himself and is a sorry excuse for the title of head of household. You really need to get counseling for your children, yourself, and reevaluate your marriage. He really needs help.
What a total and complete jerk. How dare you be a good wife and help contribute to a healthy sex life. :/
Try and get to a counselor to get him to see what a horrible husband he's being.
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He's a control obsessed psycho.
Somehow putting you down makes him feel better.
How does that even make sense.. A wife having sex with her husband is a whore?
No. He's a useless, abusive human being. Please get out of there.He sounds like he's emotionally not stable.
Tell him exactly this, tell him how you feel. Tell him that you're sick of putting up with him and that you're going to file for a divorce.He is tremendously emotionally abusive! :(
You really should divorce him, and that's coming from a Catholic... what he's doing is heinous.He sounds like an emotionally abusive husband. If it's as unhealthy as it sounds, considering divorce probably is the right thing to do.
Uh, a whore is a woman who has sex promiscuously with multiple different men for money.
Tell him to get his facts straight.
Since you're just having sex with him, you bypass 'slut' and transcend to just being horny, which everyone.Why? Why are you still with him? Why do you keep having children with him?
Tell the old man to keep his dick in his pants.
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