Husband said that's all I'm good for is sex?

[Anonymous]

It hurts my feelings him saying that... we been together for three years and we have two kids together. Why would he say that? When I take care of the kids, clean, cook, help with his business. I been there for him been a loyal wife. Now he saying I'm not wife material. I been 100 percent faithful and I dress modest. But I do put him in his place when he gets disrespectful. Maybe he just want me to be a silent wife. I don't understand.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe you should stop doing all of those things for a day so he gets some appreciation for how much you do.

If my partner made that comment, the next thing I said would be, "Then why in the hell are you with me? I want a partner who I desire, not tolerate, and I want a partner who loves me, not one who torments me."

[xKayTea]

It seems this relationship won't work out, if it has gotten to the point where he is literally just viewing you as meat for sex, and not viewing all you do for him, the house, your children etc, then I think it's best you do not force yourself to stay in this relationship.

He has obviously fallen out of love and does not appreciate you, if you force this relationship, your children will grow up in a toxic enviroment.

[sheikalana]

That's something really shitty to say about a wife. It would be very interesting to hear his side of the story from him.

[jahaims]

It sounds like you guys have horrible communication skills

[LazerBean]

I guess all he is good for is money.

[Anonymous]

You're married to an asshole

[Anonymous]

Have you considered marriage counseling?

[In_Trance]

divorce him