Guys, curves necessary?

Question

I'm skinny and my curves are...well, the same. Not really existant. Is that important for you guys? I heard a lot of men saying that they want something to grab or hold on, soft curves, nothing boney. I eat really much xD My friends laugh about the fact that I'm always eating something and still look like I look^^ But my hip for example is boney and while I don't like it but go with the flow - would that bother you?

ImSoSozzled · Accepted Answer

Your body type is great. Every girl is insecure about something with their body because the grass is always greener on the other side. Focus less on what you don't have and more on what you do (for example, curvy girls have a way harder time keeping the weight off, especially when they get older, whereas you probably won't have that problem at all.. do you know how many girls would kill to be able to eat whatever they want and not have to worry about gaining weight?). There's always room for improvement though, so if you are still feeling insecure, try hitting the gym and doing some squats, deadlifts, etc. If you eat a lot, that should fill you out a bit more. In-shape girls are attractive to most guys too, since that seems to be a factor for you.

godfatherfan · Accepted Answer

I want a girl with curves. I want a woman with some meat on her. I am not a skinny guy 6' 3" 275

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So I am not looking for a tiny woman. They also usually aren't looking for me either. But I would be afraid to hurt them during sex.

Hannah591 · Accepted Answer

I'm quite curvy and I've had guys tell me they want me to gain weight to get curvier! I went to a guy's house who's in the gym every day with a muscular body, yet he was pinching my fatty areas saying he loved them. He seems to love my curves. My ex loved my curves and I seem to get more male attention when my curves are noticeable.
I would say curves are definitely the in thing now but everyone has their own personal preferences. One guy may think you're perfect as you are and aren't interested in curves.

cl_517 · Accepted Answer

No, they're not necessary! You don't need them, you look healthy and beautiful! This is me and my "curves", well i'm just fat LOL

peachblossomluck · Accepted Answer

You're totally pretty:) You look healthy and great to me!

Hans222 · Answer

Basically, some curves may be a small advantage. But believe me on one thing: that smile on your profile pic is a 100 times bigger asset than 100 curves! So you'll be more than okay :-)

Octavion · Answer

I like both. Being skinny isn't a negative thing for me. Skinny shaming seems to really be in right now. It's a shame that any type of body shaming is ever in... If you don't have an unhealthy body you should be proud of it then.

This_guy_here · Answer

It depends. There's cute girls who are skinny (like your case apparently). There's girls with curves who I'd skip regardless of the size of their curves.

There's also skinny girls who are skinny because they don't eat, but they also look sick and thus not cute at all.

Flat4 · Answer

Curved are over rated and over played by girls who would secretly love to be thinner in my view!

As for your hips, you have the perfect hips! My gf is skinny too and I say her hips guide me into the good stuff! A bikini/lingerie bridge looks SO enticing.
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sobg71124 · Answer

Yes, it would bother me. I am not at all attracted to skinny/petite girls at all. I like them thick/curvy/big-boned/fluffy. So feminine and sexy! When I see models, it makes me want to throw up from repulsion, since they all appear to be starving to death.

Mad_Batman · Answer

as long as the personality is "my type" her body can be whatever,  oh and she should be fit too though; because i hate it when people are out of shape..  hope that helps O:)

Dandeus · Answer

Curves are preferred, not necessary. Girls who are too skinny are pointy and hard and uncomfortable to be physically close too. But as always, if you have the face and the personality, I'll overlook a lot with the body.

TheOneAndOnlyBart · Answer

I care just as much about curves on a girl as girls care about a sixpack on guy. It's a plus but not a requirement.

Kshppatel · Answer

Well what I can see from your profile picture you are really cute! But anyways some people have a fast metabolism maybe that's the case with you. Squats might help you get dat asap lol 😂

dricky2011 · Answer

It's not about how you look but how you are as a person, there are many curvy girls out there that look good but are real bitches , just cos she has nice curves doesn't make her a nice person, or attractive

Klaatu51 · Answer

OF COURSE!!! curves r fuckin hot basicaly!

Rocky96 · Answer

I don't care about physical changes, I just see beautiful she is, how sweet her smile is, how cute her face is. how her hair style is and how she looks. Actually I don't go at the bottom unless I fuck her.

idkwtftoputhere · Answer

Curves or not, you will find someone who will love every single thing about you. Not to worry :]

AleDeEurope · Answer

Curves are great, the kind you're talking about, not the other kind some women want to believe are "curves". But I don't really care that much how much curves a girl has.

TripleAce · Answer

For me it's very important. I don't ask for too much physically but curves as in a slim waist, wide hips, thick legs, full butt is what I want

katedepp32 · Answer

curves for the win! but of course all body types are great.

rockaholic · Answer

Curves all the way... looks FANTASTIC on tall and long haired girls

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Some guys like em and some don't. All bodies are beautiful!

RichHomieGeorge · Answer

It all depends on the guy and his tastes but for me it isn't that big of a deal

bananatossing · Answer

Girls don't need perfect curves to be attractive. Most girls have decent/great hips so I'm fine with it. A plain butt, well, that's a problem.

napoleonebonaparte · Answer

Curves... but maybe you can be even nice so, because I guess that your bladder becomes visible when is full and bulging outward your belly

Roadcruiser1 · Answer

I don't care. If you have a good personality, and you have good looks (which you do) I will date you anytime.

Anonymous · Answer

From previous data, I don't care at all about anything but facial attraction when it comes to physical appearance. Plenty of guys are probably similar I bet.

TheSpartan · Answer

Curves aren't necessary (you can be totally hot without them), but they definitely help a hell of a lot.

blondfrog · Answer

No they are not I like both equally skinny and curvy

Anonymous · Answer

Why don't you girl stop eating and be a skinny nice girl instead of consoling yourself by keep telling "curves"?

Anonymous · Answer

being a skinny guy myself i just love thin skinny girls!!! Curvy big girls would make me insecure and feel less manly.

Neuromancer22689 · Answer

Most western men prefer curves. I can't tell how curvy or not you are.

Anonymous · Answer

A bit of curve is good. Too much will be a turn off for me.

Anonymous · Answer

So What would you consider flat as an 18 year old or younger? (16-18)

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

curves are smexy i like medium & curvy built girls

Optimasm · Answer

You look hot, so fine with me.

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Depends on the girl for me.

legalboxers · Answer

its all about personality. curves are the bonus

Anonymous · Answer

Thin and curvy is best!

Anonymous · Answer

You look cute to me

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