Guys, do guys tell their friends about their crushes/who they think is cute?

[Anonymous]

Do guy friends talk about their crushes with each other? Or do they talk about the cute girl sitting across the room from them in class? or do you guys have no idea who your friend might be crushing on?
i think my crush might be talking about me with his friends but idk? They also give me weird looks like they are observing me sometimes?
Do guys just talk about sports and stuff haha or everything?

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Any one else?
looking for MHO!!!

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I got pretty divided answers. Interesting...

[GoodManDave]

It depends. I've made that mistake of telling people who aren't trustworthy in that department, and it's blwon up in my face - so, now, I tell my closest friends - those I can trust - and that's about it.

I might admit to being interested in someone, but I've learned to pretty much keep it to myself or make it VERY non specific. I won't say how I know her, or what her name is, or describe her to people I don't know that well.

I DO mention a girl I think is attractive. I was mentioning a friend who always seems to get dates with gorgeous women, but most likely mention that I'm not wanting to date her, I just think she's cool, or she's pretty.

[Asker]

Same here! i don't tell anyone about who i actually like.
only when im joking so if they run off and tell someone i can say "cmon guys i was OBVIOUSLY joking"

[1GuyOpinion]

I don't talk about who I have feeling for.

I definitely talk about who I think is cute/hot/sexy/bang-able/gorgeous/would-tap-dat/etc with my buddies.

[Asker]

Thanks for answering!

[Keyspirits]

So.. that makes anon cutie "bangable" 😋😋

[Asker]

huh?

[Anonymous]

I dont do it until someone does it, then I realize they are comfortable so I reciprocate by telling them. I currently like a girl who sits on the other side of my class, I do talk about her to my friend and when she goes up to the professor I check her out. I can't help it, I want a piece of that with a glass of milk haha I genuinely like this girl it hurts that I can't talk to her (even though I'm a social butterfly)

[Asker]

I'm in the same situation! My guy sits across the room and I just look at him when i can

[Opinion Owner]

I know how it feels :/ I talk to her sometimes but its just not enough for me to get her number or anything.

[Asker]

Yeah same here I've talked to him and he's said some things to try to tease me but not enough to just go up and talk to him randomly yknow?
maybe you should do that- tease her a bit :p

[Opinion Owner]

If she's anything like you, I can only assume she will be great ! I will try to appear a bit more interested. Good luck with your guy ;p

[oldanddecrepid]

Golden Rule... never tell your friends who your crush is...

1) It leaves you open to one of your loudmouth dumbass friends to embarrass you with it!

2) Your friends may start seeing what you see in her, and then it becomes a competition.

Not good! Only tell them after you are going out with her.

[Outofthegrey]

No. I don't tell anyone until I'm going to do something about it. Men thrive on competition, so you learn to not share what your feelings are about a girl if the other guy also knows her.

Or maybe I just have some highly misconstrued view of life, one of the two.

[Asker]

You don't talk about who has a nice body? Nothin?
Interesting

[Outofthegrey]

There's a big difference between wanting to have sex with a girl and liking her. We definitely talk about who we'd like to have sex with, we just don't talk about who we want to have more than sex with.

[Asker]

Ohhh i see

[mgalex]

talk with my friends about women all the time.
but I only talk about my crush/cute girls with my best friends.

it doesn't matter what girls talk, we just make something up and even joke around with eachother about it.

A friend of mine started dating a girl because I went to her and said my friend though she was hot. we were in a bar and we were checking out girls on the nearby tables.

[Asker]

It doesn't matter what girls talk? Huuuuuh?

[mgalex]

sorry, i didn't mean it like that.
I meant it in a situation where (just na exemple) the table across you and your friends is full of girls and they seem to be looking this way and seem to be talking about us guys sitting over here. so it becomes like a game of guess-what-they're-saying.

ofc girls opinions is one of the most important things for a man seeking a relatioship.

[Asker]

Oh lol no hard feelings I was just confused i didn't know what you meant :p

[Asker]

But I think he has said something about me to his friends because they look at me way too often and in a strange way

[mgalex]

hmm.. i see..
or maybe they just noticed you like him :)

[Asker]

I don't know. I dont really talk to him at all so I don't know how he would know lol.
like om mot obvious at all i hide it very well

[mgalex]

then it might be the other way around.
what if he has a crush on you and told his friends about it?

that happens sometimes.

[Asker]

Wellp thats why i asked this question haha!

[Anonymous]

We don't often have "crushes" we have girls we would like to have sex with and we often openly say to each other who and what we would do and see if our buddies agree.

For example if I see a girl at work who is new and attractive, me and my buddy (s) say things in private like "I bet she fucks like a..." or "I would love to tap that ass" and we usually agree back and forth.

or if there is a girl one of use thinks is doable, and the others disagree, then we mock him and laugh and say shit like "Aww man no way, you are fucked bro" and it becomes a joke. But we don't honestly care, we just give him a hard time for fun.

[Asker]

I mean girls you actually have feelings for

[Opinion Owner]

I never have feelings for girls unless I am already involved with them long term.
Girls across a room or ones that I know because of work or other situations I have zero feelings for.
Crushing is not something a lot of older guys do. It's more of a high school idea.

[Chris011]

Do I talk about girls with my buddies? Yeah, all the time. We talk about everything from the attractive girl we met that day from the Superbowl to the new movie we just saw.

[Asker]

Cool

[DarkHumorRUs]

I talk about my crush a lot with my best friend, cause both of us are forever alone. My other good friends know about my crush but we never really talk about crushes. And yes we point out when we see a cute or hot chick.

The good thing about crushing on a coworker who goes to a different school is that I can select who I want to reveal information to and what information to reveal.

[redza54]

I don't really tell me people who I like.
I mean I would tell them if they are cute/sexy but not if I'm really going for her
because I have history with telling people and they just start acting all stupid around her and some even starts flirting with them.

So yeah...

[Antizzl]

Guys talking about their crushes (the word crush is a girl term) is for the guys who dont get any play and have no game (i guess now its called swag and that sounds so pussy too) There are no crushes only girls you wanna get at. If my friends ever said to me "i have a big crush on this girl" i would laugh his ass into next week then i would kick his ass for sounding like such a pussy then go get at his "crush". and with all honesty i hope he would do the same for me. Never bring to your friends attention something he doesn't see yet never look or act like a pussy and keep your friends from doing the same thing. You didn't share feelings back in the day... hell we didn't even have them.

[Asker]

... of course you had feelings. You're human... unless

[Antizzl]

i answered the question.

[Asker]

okay. Wow you much not have many friends huh

[Cyhhgg]

Well, sociopaths don't have feelings.

Also, you're pretty much wrong on, well, all of this info. Lol

[Anonymous]

I did that once. One big mistake. that guy liked the same girl. Thing is, the guy and this other girl tried to get in between me and my crush. It worked for them. Can't believe how sad some people are.
Now I wouldn't talk with my guy friends or any friends to be honest, until after I tell the girl. Then if we get together, they would figure it out themselves.

[Asker]

Wow that's messed up

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, yes it is. Unfortunately I don't trust people anymore when it comes to certain subjects. I only discuss information that cannot harm me. "I pooped today" "I forgot to walk the dog" "weather is nice today". meaningless stuff.

[Asker]

Im sorry :/

[Anonymous]

Speaking from my experience in a group if guys. In public 3+ guy friends. If a pretty girl walks by. Someone will remark on her butt or boobs or both or even appearance in general. Now in private 2 close bros. Wether it be in person or kik or text they can talk about how someone they met is amazing pretty smart funny etc... i guess its just circumstantial

[Asker]

I've noticed guys ALWAYS have something to say about the girl who just walked by their group! That's why i HATE passing by a group of guys because they just look at me and only God knows what they say after i leave

[Opinion Owner]

All i have to say is if you walk by a group of guys and they see your face then their eyes go south. They ain't lookin at your shoes. Or if you walk by one and slowly 2 or 3 start to look at you. They are probably checking you out. In a good way.

[Opinion Owner]

And as respectful as i can ask this. do you consider yourself to be gifted wether it be nice boobs and or butt. Cuz if so.. as stated they are probably checking you out.

[Asker]

my butt is okay... its not like jen selter but i got a little something going on. but even if im wearing something that does not reveal it they look

[Opinion Owner]

I say they're checking you out.. thats what ut sounds like.

[Asker]

Yeah.. its just annoying

[Opinion Owner]

Really? I would think if i was a girl i'd like the attention lol like do the frikin "bend and snap" all day. (100 respect to ANYONE who knows where that reference is from)

[Asker]

haha bend and snap *beaks the guy's nose*
But umm nooooo!! have you seen "10 hours of walkign in NYC as a woman"? Sometimes I enjoy that I am being admired when it is in a good way but most of the time (particularly when its a whole group of guys ogling me) I get pretty uncomfortable!!

[Opinion Owner]

Ah i understand. by the way you are amazing for getting the reference x)

[gamer_guy16]

I don't tell people about my crushes but i defently talk about hot girls and we even sometimes agrue about who's hotter but we never talk about our "feelings" with our friends

[Abe90]

I mostly hang out with women but the few guy friends that I do have, we do converse about who we like or crush over. We just have a different aspect of communicating about them. Some guys can be really vulgar whilst some like myself will talk about them to our friends. But I converse more to women though lol

[Devin_Smitty]

Heck yea, if I like a girl and my friend brings up the topic I tell him. Only if I trust that one friend...

[Anonymous]

We don't talk about who we actually 'like'. We talk about them in a superficial macho way, like "damn look at that body she's hot as fuck, I'd hit it."

[Asker]

Oh thats what i figured

[mickelplus]

Look, to be honest...
Boys that have no romance in their life won't talk about girls.
Boys with some will.
Therefore, if a boy IS actually talking about you, and his group of friends are observing you, you should do one of the following:
1. For the brave, try to talk to him while he is alone. Or even while he is in his group.
2. Glance back with a smile every time
3. Thinking of a present to give him.
Preferably, I would, but people call me weirdish, so I'm guessing not.

[Asker]

Hmmm. I do smile at him!

[Anonymous]

I used to but then I realized that guys still act like they're in high school and ruin my chances with the particular girl I like. I told a couple co workers about a girl who I talked to a couple times who worked in a building next door and they ruined my chances with her when they started doing cat calls when they saw her and tried getting me to go hit on her.

[Asker]

Wow that's not cool that's annoying!!!

[Anonymous]

Yeah today me and my friend where in our downtown area, and we pointed out girls we thought were hot.

[Asker]

what about crushes?
Like not just random girls

[Opinion Owner]

We just approach them and if they don't respond we move on to the next girl.

[RichHomieGeorge]

It depends on the friend. I'll always talk about who's hot and fit and stuff but who I actually like, that depends on the friend, there characteristics, their link with the person I like, etc...

[kartavyabanker]

Yes i do talk about everything.. From sports to crushing.. EVERYTHING.. generally almost every guy does this

[Asker]

that's cool!

[c00l_guy]

yes, of course...
we also talk about what we like among them..
ask friends for their opinions.. and so on

[tmac725]

I do. I'm not shy about sharing my feelings for someone. My friends know I'm a lover lol

[Asker]

Haha

[Kshppatel]

Pretty much goes like this. "Yeah dude I'm talking to this girl, she's pretty cool man." We don't tell each other about our feelings and stuff lmao

[Asker]

haha oh

[Asker]

do y'all tease each other for it

[Kshppatel]

Yeah sometimes

[Asker]

Coollll

[James687]

no we talk about who we would fuck, not who we have a crush on because are friends would then tell the girl

[Anonymous]

Guys talk about their crushes and cute girls in class. I guess your crush told his friends that your like him.

[Asker]

He has no idea that I like him trust me lol

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe told his friends that he thinks your interesting

[Asker]

Yup maybe

[verd12w]

I've learned to trust nobody.

[Asker]

Same here! i don't tell anyone about who i actually like.
only when im joking so if they run off and tell someone i can say "cmon guys i was OBVIOUSLY joking"

[Consultant]

Most/all guys I know, myself included, talk very often to their close inner circle of guy-friends about crushes they have.

[Anonymous]

No never my friends would probably ask them out before me then bang and dump them so I'm too grossed out to even think about dating my crush

[Asker]

Those are douchey friends

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah ha I need new friends but I'm not sociable so I have trouble making/keeping friends

[surfyboy911]

Me and my mates would talk about it here and there but not in a group, group chat would be as you said sports and stuff but when its less then 3-4 people we would talk about stuff like that a bit more personal and crap.

[jmmmfi]

The girl I'm into now I haven't told anyone about yet

[Asker]

Aww secret crush