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I'd date a 19 year old if she was a real catch. You never know.
Of course though there is that maturity level. I've ran into early 20 somethings that were a mess too. It really depends on the person though and I don't necessarily restrict by age, but younger girls tend to be more shallow and picky in the kind of guys they want. That and a 19 year old is nearly 10 years younger than I am. That is quite an age gap.
You don't want a second chance with him. It's funny, being an old guy, I don't see the huge age difference between 23 and 19. I think he's trying to appear mature to his mates, but not caring about who he hurts in the meantime.
Forget him, enjoy life and you'll find someone else who will value you for who you are
It is possible, when I was 27 I dated an 18 year old and just recently dated an 18 year old turning 19. Though I live in another country, I know the US is prude and morally awkward towards... Everything, except producing hard core pornos involving under age Russian sex slaves.
I can kind of understand where he's coming from. I don't date too much younger, and especially under 21 as I like going to shows and such often where they serve alcohol and don't allow people under 21. I mean if I really fell for her then it is what it is. But if I just met her, I'd be like "nah, too young" and wouldn't pursue her.
What you're saying makes sense, but it's also kind of disappointing.
Yeah, but it works the same way with women. I've had plenty of women say outright they don't date younger guys, under the blanket assumption they aren't mature enough.
I did it before, wouldn't say it is bad but you have to have some type of priorities or life goals. She pretty much decided after 2 years that she wanted a career that would make it impossible to find time for someone.
I'm 27 and would date a 19 year old. In the UK that's perfectly normal and acceptable. My dad was like 35 when he started dating his wife when she was 18, they have been together 15 years now, married and have 2 kids. Age means nothing.
I am currently attempting to date a 19 1/2 year old girl, and I just turned 23 a couple months back. I see no issue with that. People who get weird about age are generally too concerned with what other people will think of them, instead whether or not they actually want to be involved with the person. I wanted to date a 28 year old grad student when I was 21.
Did anything happen between the both of you? What "second chance" is there to give if nothing ever happened.
Approach him and let him know what you feel about him. Plan a date with him if that's what you want to do.
Personaly i don't see a problema there.
It would be another thing if he was 20 and you 16, that's illegal.
so, just tell him how you feel and I hope you be happy :)
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a 23 year old guy being with a 19 year old girl! I don't think 25 and 18 would be wrong.
I say go for it. Just make your intentions SUPER obvious (I can't stress this enough to women). If he still indicates that you are too young, he is an idiot.