Complexes they develop driven into their heads by things they read about on the net. All they ever get told is girls think you are creepy, if you can't buy them things you're worthless and don't approach. You better be hung like a donkey or she'll think your worthless. They hate being asked out coz men have no right to accost women like that. It's bullshit but it stick and destroys confidence. It's social engineering. There's people in this world trying to shape it to their own benefit. Seems to be the white race especially is in the crosshairs since it's happening in western countries. Funny how sexual liberation, gestapo like feminism and a mass influx of the 3rd world happen almost at the same time. They want to cap white birthrates. Gay guys used to breed as cover, white women want to date foreigners and the gender roles are driving a bigger chasm between men and women specifically white men and women. It's genocide and it's being done under cover. Our governments are just puppets to these people. Men used to annoy women all the time for dates. Women loved the attention. Men loved the women. This is before the net was in everybodies house. Information on this scale is damaging. Kids are having their heads fucked up by it. It's all lies and propaganda. Ask any guy on here old enough who lived before the net was widespread if they see the difference between men in their day and men just now. Young guys are like a weak diluted scared version of men of other generation. We all notice it. wearing make up, body vanity and a million other female traits they've been told they should have. It's pathetic and sickening.
It's based off the principle of give me them Young and they're mine forever. That's true. Young people are eager to fit in and so they're easy to shape. You don't need tk have them go to seminars and lectures to brainwash them now. You can let them get brainwashed in the comfort of their own homes. Imagine the situation in a movie like equilibrium or 1984. A totalitarian state with an obedient population and thats exactly where were heading. Don't believe me though. Find out for yourself. These are bad times
Girls that let guys know that they are open to being approached and want to be talked to are way more likely to get a guy talk to them. Sadly it is the behaviour of a lot of girls when we talk to them that makes us guys scared to talk to any girl because we never know how she will react.
Us guys get what is in this video all the time. I am not trying to be offensive but it is the truth and I know not all girls are like the girls in this video but so many are even when we try and find the most suitable place and time to make an approach.
#generalisation427 , even though i haven't been approached in person in about 2 years...
i find it kinda frustrating, but i do think a lot of them just don't wanna do it. maybe they'll want to, but just won't.
Same!!! I don't understand why this is a thing in our generation. Guys will die before they talk to someone! It's like some phobia that's becoming more and more prevalent. It's a wave!
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Any approach that is unwanted is now called sexual harassment. With the constant shaming of male sexuality by calling them harassers, creeps, and perverts young man don't feel confident approaching. If we even look at a girl for a little longer than she deems appropriate and suddenly he is a creep staring at her.
As a result men have had to modify their approach to where he waits for the woman to give him a signal that she wants him to approach. @Applefan1 already showed a good example of what happens to a guy that hasn't already received the signal that a woman wants to be approached.
One approach a lot of guys are using is to become the girls friend. After all guys keep getting told women want guys to become friends first, and with no way of understanding of what that means take it literally. This approach doesn't work and normally backfires, but they are desperately trying to find ways to approach women that are acceptable within society.
It doesn't help that the more vocal feminists just keep complaining. Even becoming the woman's friend is now being seen as the most deceptive way to get a woman to notice you within feminist circles. Everything is being twisted to make it look like guys are victimizing women so he is too afraid to approach, then women shame guys for not having the confidence to approach.
The most common approach guys now use is just talking to you, like they would talk to anyone else. While they are doing this they are trying to figure out if you like him, and then if you don't give him the right signals he leaves without ever admitting he was attracted to you. This is so subtle that women that never get asked out, may get approached all the time without even realizing it. This basically means that women will have to be clear enough so that the guy knows she wants to be approached, or asked out.
Guys fear rejection. If any one of these guys actually did approach you, as girls are more picky than guys, and you said "no thanks," he's going to be stuck on that rejection for days. So, they'll avoid this.
Couple this with the #metoo atmosphere, and rejection isn't the only threat we may face. We could experience harassment, embarrassment (the girl may video it, or at least post if on her twitter), or even arrest.
This is why guys don't approach girls, because women have created a society where we're terrified of doing so.
Two reasons:
1) Men are told that it's sexist and bad to approach a girl.
2) 9/10 women will be rather harsh with the rejection.
They're afraid of being put on a street harassment video and being called a creep.
I don't know why girls keep asking this question when they keep getting the same damn answer over and over and over again. Society has made it known that it's not ok to approach women anymore.
They don't want to get emberassed because 9/10 chance this already happend in the past. Girls can indeed be very harsh in rejecting, guys have feelings too you know.
We also wish we would be approached more, trust me :/
I approach all the time when I'm out there. I've moved to a new state by myself 3 times, so at this point I'm very good at picking up and building a circle of friends, dates very quickly.
Then go up and say something to them yourself. Problem solved.
You do realise that in many cases women consider this as harassment which can only result into something bad for the man?
I don't because I ain't confident enough to plus I'm shy
this video will explain everything
How about why don't girls ever approach guys? We are all human afterall
Actually am one of those guys that look at girls and don't approach sometimes.. Because every time I ask a girl if thier single, they say thier taken
Since its all about equality now, they lookin at you to do it lol
You know its the modern age!
It depends on the type of guy. Some guys are shy.
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