do the same thing he does, just ignore him, don't look at him, you worked enough on this now it's his turn, if he's into you, he'll contact you if not just consider it over
I think we're all just biased. You probably think women flake more because a woman has flaked on you a lot. She thinks men flake more because a man has flaked on her a lot. I think that gender has nothing to do with it, and that some people are just plain flaky.
I should have said why do SOME guys flake. I've been with guys who were very true to their word and was very supportive of me in every area of my life. So ur right. It's not all guys. Just him and other guys like him.
I mean, honesty is a pretty easy thing to feel. If someone feels like they are being open and genuine with you, you can usually tell. Do you feel like that is something you two experienced before this issue occurred?
Ah I see. I'm sorry to hear that. I had an experience with a guy who was very honest and just didn't see his own flaky behavior. I kinda had to show it to him so he could see it himself. Unfortunately I don't think that applies to your situation
You should be asking "why do people flake on people?".
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My apologies! That day I was so upset I wasn't thinking that the way I asked the question, I was putting ALL guys in a box. I was just thinking of that specific guy when I wrote this question. I should've asked why do some guys flake on girls.
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I don't think he is interested in you for real... Cause I tell you what is I am really interested in a girl I would cross borders for her :-)
It's easy. Just tell him you don't have any more time to waste on him.
do the same thing he does, just ignore him, don't look at him, you worked enough on this now it's his turn, if he's into you, he'll contact you if not just consider it over
Fuck that guy, you don't deserve that kind of behaviour
I flake all the time. I dont think its behavior exclusive to guys.
At least you're honest. About this, anyway.
And it's definitely not just guys. Women flake far more.
I think we're all just biased. You probably think women flake more because a woman has flaked on you a lot. She thinks men flake more because a man has flaked on her a lot. I think that gender has nothing to do with it, and that some people are just plain flaky.
I don't give them a chance to flake. From what I've heard/read from other people, women flake more.
I see... Well, okay then
I should have said why do SOME guys flake. I've been with guys who were very true to their word and was very supportive of me in every area of my life. So ur right. It's not all guys. Just him and other guys like him.
He didn't truly value your time. If i like a woman she gets my undivided attention. If there's no time you make time.
How well do you know him? How honest are you two with each other?
I've known him for a while now but we just exchanged numbers and started really talking. I was honest to him but he obviously wasn't honest to me.
I mean, honesty is a pretty easy thing to feel. If someone feels like they are being open and genuine with you, you can usually tell. Do you feel like that is something you two experienced before this issue occurred?
Nope. I don't think he was honest with me & I always felt in my spirit that he had a girlfriend but I just didn't have solid proof.
Ah I see. I'm sorry to hear that. I had an experience with a guy who was very honest and just didn't see his own flaky behavior. I kinda had to show it to him so he could see it himself. Unfortunately I don't think that applies to your situation
simply your not high on his priority list. if your where, he would rember, care and show up. Toss him.
Ask him face to face what does he want... you know it's kinda irritating... and besides ask him to tell you the truth!!!
Thank you for your comment but I'm done with him. He's like a joke to me now basically
If you are done with him... don't think of him for a second... and besides go and eat some chocolates or ice cream!!
cuz either they aren't interested or its a game to make you chase him
he is not in love with you or he doesn't see you as a priority
You should be asking "why do people flake on people?".
My apologies! That day I was so upset I wasn't thinking that the way I asked the question, I was putting ALL guys in a box. I was just thinking of that specific guy when I wrote this question. I should've asked why do some guys flake on girls.
Because I just bought Horizon Zero Dawn and it's 10 times more awesome than any woman. I'd flake on a date too.
Guys are pricks and assholes. And complete jerks who are nothing, but scumbags.
Because flake cereal tastes good.
Oh I hate you lol
Lol give me an upvote and I will give you the keys to my car <3
Ya want it. Ya got it. 😉
🔐 there ya go. See i didn't flake on you ;)
Lol u gave me a lock not a key.
You have to use cheat codes my smashing the window to get in :D
Just stop talking to him forever
don't even contact him again, delete his number
By flaking him back and blocking him on everything
I would flake on him back but I'm not even gonna talk to him anymore. And yup I blocked him.
Good! Don't give him another thought. He's obviously not worth your time.
They aren't interested.
just move onto the next guy he's not. interested