We were meant to be going on a 1st date which was a hotel. He didn’t really invite me out for dinner or anything so I just settled with going to a hotel
Then he sent me this message which I think is an excuse I met him on a night out but I knew of him before because he was dating this girl I know but they didn’t work out.. and guess what, he took her out on dates but yet with me I’m only good enough for a hotel
why would he flake on me last minute? Is he scared to meet me? Does he find me ugly? all this talk about wanting to smash me and how he really thinks I’m stunning and then cancels
Once he transferred the money to me I deleted him on all social media as that did piss me off. We’ve not spoke since
Why do guys bail on me? They talk about how they like me and then never end up going on a date?
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Because this ”he didn’t really invite me out to dinner or anything so I just settled with going to a hotel”. You allow it. You settle for it. Guys will do the minimum of what they can get away with. If you settle with just going to a hotel why would he take you out to dinner as well then? In his mind a waste of time and money when he can take you to the hotel right away. You need to raise your expectations and standards, and stop accepting anything less than what you want. Only date guys who will offer what it is you want and need, and stop being desperate.
I understand. Because he had taken previous girls out on dates I assumed I’d eventually get my time. But what I’m trying to establish as well is why he didn’t wanna meet up with me? If guys wanna smash girls why bail? Am I that disgusting looking? Ugh
You seem to always be after the wrong type of guy and ignore what is normally red flags such as, 1. He is dating another girl. 2. He isn't seeking to take you a proper date, he just wants to smash at a hotel.
I'm not sure what you are after, but you shouldn't ignore red flags like those.
My apologies, I misread that. I'm not sure why you are treated that way a lot, maybe there is something I'm missing or maybe you are more attracted to bad boy types who get lots of girls and are not interested in commitment.
Physically you are definitely very attractive girl, pretty with nice body shape etc, you know this already.
He said he’s a relationship kinda guy but clearly he lied 🤥 I am actually done with men. They always screw me over yet I see pretty white girls treated like angels. I wanted a relationship but not anymore I’ve been too hurt
I was surprised when you wrote that you have problems dating, I was a bit shocked tbh, because you are quite hot. But I guess everybody has problems dating, it's such a minefield.
I don't think so, I would have thought your beautiful skin colour would be an advantage. Your quite beautiful looking, I would assume you already get a lot of attention from guys purely based on your looks etc. But I guess for a relationship to develop and move beyond the fooling around stage, its about connecting on a personal level with a guy who is similar minded to you. I think maybe that's where you are struggling at the moment.
Don't be too much available for guys. Show them that you are a decent girl that you would not agree to have sex on the first date. You should respect yourself, your appearance and your racial background
Still can’t find you.. in fact, the past couple of months I haven’t seen new follows who followed me and assumed it was an accident. Can’t you just change your settings so anyone can message you?
