So my mom started dating this guy about 2–3 weeks ago and he's moved in already, she wants me to talk to him more than i have but i don’t want to. I’m going to be oversharing a lot because I REALLY need advice so I’m sorry in advance :”)
Backstory for context:
her second husband (my stepdad) of 9 years left in July suddenly after a argument and just moved out in one day (they both cheated on each other multiple times and cussed each other literally every morning, no surprise) so after (and weeks before) he left she had a boyfriend around that time then randomly broke up with him the DAY BEFORE this new guy came to our home and just gave very little information? she said he is a old friend of her and my dads and apparently he has a crazy mother who tries to get him in trouble but that’s all i know about him
Why i’m hesitant:
- She's known to like felons or men who are known to be bad news but still will date them
- he's wanted by the police apparently and she won't even tell me why and dodges questions when i asked about him despite saying he wasn’t when he first came here
- The night he moved in i had about around 300 dollars missing from my account by a bondsman in the state he's from but my mom said it was “a friend” that got bailed out, not
him and i have yet to get money back even though she didn’t ask to use it?
-her boyfriend seems nice and hasn’t been rude but i just don’t want to get involved? like she's a very selfish person and i’m trying to move out but i’m stuck here for a few more months and someone who just moves in someones house after dating for less than a week seems sketchy to me but i feel bad for avoiding this so could someone give me advice? it would really help
I don't really want a relationship with her either but like i said i have to wait to move out and that's a another situation on its own.
