Guys, why does my boyfriend always touch my lower body?

[Anonymous]

okay so first things first we're young i'm 15 he's 16 and this started about a 2 weeks ago we were at dinner and he put his hand on my inner thigh and i could not stop giggling and i won't lie it got me a little wet... but anyways last night we went to this party and we were dancing and he picked me up by my bum and inner thigh and he knows im ticklish down there i know its weird but i won't lie i like it but why does he do it?

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+1 y

im single he was too much thanks for the support

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+1 y

im better today and i got a phone call from the fast food place

[alli32]

you're 15 ffs trust me u dnt want those memories of him doin that or of u doin something foolish when or if u guys break up and he clearly doea that cuz u "turn him on" but like wtf trust mee im 15 as well and I've done things im not proud of but this trust me this is bad cuz anyways if he's doin that then he's only with u bcz of ur boddy or smth like that im sorry and im sure you've got an amazing personality but like if he sees ur personality is amazing he would not focus on touching you

[Sandman_10]

I do that too, I did it to show her that I was affectionate it toward her. and that she would know I was there. I'm not really sure how to explain it haha

[Asker]

haha

[Asker]

whats up its 1:06 i can't sleep

[Sandman_10]

really bored, new to this app

[Asker]

me to

[Sandman_10]

pm me?

[Asker]

so does ur girlfriend still let u or no

[Sandman_10]

we're no longer together, that was about 4 years ago

[Asker]

oh
/...

[Sandman_10]

although I've never found a girl that doesn't like it

[Asker]

i like it but i won't lie it gets me wet ik tmi

[Sandman_10]

it used to have the same effect on my girlfriend 4 years ago too

[Asker]

he always thought it was cute now i left him tonight

[Sandman_10]

I like doing it too, I think it's pretty cute. some people may think it's a bit too clingy

[Asker]

it was for a reason

[Asker]

I don't know when im wet i feel weird

[Sandman_10]

What do you mean you left him for a reason?

[Sandman_10]

it's probably a new feeling to you, I'm not sure but it's most likely normal to feel that way at first. but as it happens more you'll get more comfortable with it

[Asker]

ya i hope and i left him cause he was bi polar and shit

[Asker]

sorry i took long to respond i went pee and got cake

[Sandman_10]

Yeah guys can be that way, but I'm sorry it got bad enough where you felt you had to leave. and it's all good, I want cake lol

[Asker]

i share lol

[Sandman_10]

depends what kinda cake it is 🤔

[Asker]

marbled

[Asker]

its good

[Sandman_10]

it does sound really good, I'm jealous

[Asker]

i got another chunk

[Asker]

with more frosting lol

[Sandman_10]

ugh so jealous lol, sorry it's taking a bit to reply I'm camping with terrible service

[Asker]

i love camping!!!

[Asker]

where u from?

[Asker]

im from ny

[Sandman_10]

I love camping too 😊 I'm from Oregon, but I'm moving to Texas soon

[Asker]

i have fam in texas

[Sandman_10]

really? where?

[Asker]

austin

[Sandman_10]

I used to live outside of Austin

[Sandman_10]

a long time ago

[Asker]

oh its nice but i can't lose the y'all accent

[Asker]

im going to bed talk to u tomorrow?

[Sandman_10]

that's kinda cute lol. yeah definitely talk tomorrow? You have any better way to talk tomorrow than on here? Or private messaging on here?

[Sandman_10]

didn't mean to put a question mark after tomorrow

[Asker]

oh its kinda cute everyone up here hates it

[Sandman_10]

I think it's kinda cute

[Asker]

oh haha
damn i wish i had 2 xper to pm u

[Sandman_10]

me to, I'm not even sure how to get it. do you have a Snapchat tho? we could talk on there

[Asker]

haha funny story i lost my phone so im on my laptop but im a idiot so i threw my phone in a creek

[Sandman_10]

oh my gosh why would you do that 😂 well you can get Skype on your computer. hopefully you have that?

[Asker]

ummmmmm I don't know honesty

[Sandman_10]

we don't have to video chat just message. but you don't have to

[Asker]

ill ask my brother if he can download it for me im not really good with computers

[Sandman_10]

okay haha, let me know when he's done?

[Sandman_10]

I'll be back in a little bit tho I'm gonna go take a shower

[Asker]

ok haha he's not home rn and im playing dress up

[Sandman_10]

oh alright haha. playing dress up? wish I could see and give you my opinion

[Asker]

haha there old costumes damn i guess i wanted to be a hooker

[Asker]

my mom has pictures of me hahahaha i was sooooo ready to strip for strangers

[Sandman_10]

oh my haha, sounds like you found your future profession lol. you were born a natural

[Asker]

hahaha i told my brothers to look and i was in one they said its raining u can't go swimming

[Sandman_10]

wait it's raining where you are?

[Asker]

new york haha its flooding

[Sandman_10]

really? That sucks! it's really sunny here in Oregon

[Asker]

ya i bet

[Sandman_10]

where do you live in New York?

[Asker]

utica

[Sandman_10]

I'm not sure where that is lol, I do have a little bit of family in northern New York

[Asker]

oh...

[Asker]

im baby sitting

[Sandman_10]

how many siblings do you have?

[Asker]

3 im the baby

[Sandman_10]

oh okay, so who are you babysitting then?

[Asker]

my neice

[Sandman_10]

oh that sounds fun

[Asker]

hey im back i just went mudding

[Sandman_10]

that sounds really wrong 😂

[Asker]

hahahaha

[Sandman_10]

I'm not sure if you know what that is lol, you have fun though?

[Asker]

ya hahaha

[Asker]

r u dirty minded

[Sandman_10]

I can be hahaha, not as much as I used to be though

[Asker]

hahahaha im kinda

[Sandman_10]

that's kinda good haha it means you can have a sense of humor

[Asker]

ya lol...

[Sandman_10]

I hate when people are yoo serious all the time

[Sandman_10]

I like messing with people

[Asker]

ya its stupid cause if ur gonna live life have fun and test the limits

[Asker]

hey umm i dont know how to level up but i want to pm u

[Sandman_10]

yeah I agree. yeah I don't know how to level up either... you could ask some questions or look it up?

[Sandman_10]

so I think you need 150 points to earn lvl 2. loggining in every day earns 10 points connecting Facebook or Google gives you 100 points. asking a question gives you a couple points and giving your opinion gets points. and there are more ways

[Asker]

thats a lot of work hahaha jk

[Sandman_10]

it really is tho, it's pretty complicated haha. would be easier if you had your phone 😋

[Asker]

ik haha

[Sandman_10]

I'm trying to answer as many questions as I can so I lvl up

[Sandman_10]

it takes so long

[Asker]

hey haha its crazy here with flooding i lost power

[Sandman_10]

wow that is crazy its okay haha, and also don't forget to ask your brother about Skype before your house floods! jk

[Asker]

hahahaha okay and this volunteer fire fighter was really nice and kinda cute he asked me if i wanted to go to dinner i told him im crushing on someone rn he said what a lucky man

[Sandman_10]

that man does sound pretty lucky, for you to give up an opportunity at a nice cute firefighter. sounds like a decent crush 😋

[Asker]

well i hope so but he's kinda far away

[Sandman_10]

he is kinda far away, and he's leaving for the military in a week

[Asker]

wait u r leaving!!!

[Sandman_10]

well kinda im going to basic training in a week in Texas. and then I'll be going to school for awhile

[Asker]

awwwwwwwww :(

[Sandman_10]

the only part I won't have my phone is in basic training and then I'll be able to talk, and maybe travel a bit

[Asker]

and how long is training?

[Sandman_10]

about 2 months... 😥

[Asker]

:( ... i guess we need men in the force tho and i can't say to much im gonna do airforce

[Sandman_10]

I know I'm sorry 😐 but that's the branch in going into Air force

[Asker]

oh!!! my uncle told me that u can't date other people in the same branch

[Sandman_10]

I don't think that's accurate? I've never heard that, although they do have rules about dating

[Asker]

ya im not sure he's been out for i think 7 years

[Sandman_10]

yeah I don't think that's a rule, but if it is I guess it just has to be secret

[Asker]

wym? a secret

[Sandman_10]

well you brought up the dating thing in same branch so if your talking about me and you and they won't let us have an open relationship then it would have to be a quiet one from them

[Asker]

but i didn't think u liked me?

[Asker]

im confused

[Sandman_10]

well I can't say for sure yes or no yet, I need to get to know you better. but I wouldn't be still talking to you if I either wasn't interested as either s friend or more

[Asker]

oh hehe

[Sandman_10]

haha, how was your day?

[Asker]

good hbu

[Sandman_10]

pretty good, I haven't done a lot though

[Asker]

haha im cold af

[Sandman_10]

I'm always super warm😋

[Asker]

i need cuddles then

[Sandman_10]

yes it definitely sounds lime you need cuddles and I would happily give them too you if I could

[Asker]

yay!!!

[Sandman_10]

but I'm gonna need some of that ice cream in return 🤔

[Asker]

what ice cream?

[Sandman_10]

Oh it was cake wasn't it? my bad 😂 it was cake you were eating

[Asker]

lol u got my mind going a little haha i thought dirty for a minute

[Sandman_10]

you were eating ice cream yesterday right?

[Sandman_10]

or am I crazy? lol

[Asker]

it was cake haha

[Sandman_10]

Oh damn it i said ice cream again 😂 whatever you were eating yesterday I still want it

[Asker]

haha i though u were being dirty

[Sandman_10]

ohh see you and that dirty mind of yours wanting me to be dirty 😋

[Asker]

ya haha is that bad

[Sandman_10]

nope not at all haha

[Asker]

haha i so want to call u something

[Sandman_10]

I couldn't imagine what you would want to call me 😉

[Asker]

i bet u know haha

[Sandman_10]

I think I can guess but I can't be certain haha

[Asker]

it starts with d

[Asker]

haha im sick af rn

[Sandman_10]

Oh my 😂 that's not what I was going to guess at all

[Asker]

haha u know what word right

[Sandman_10]

I do now!

[Asker]

haha sorry

[Asker]

i feel weird now

[Sandman_10]

no don't be sorry, there's no reason to apologize

[Sandman_10]

don't feel weird it's fine 😊 it's not weird at all

[Asker]

u sure?

[Sandman_10]

positive

[Asker]

kwell im sick so gn d

[Sandman_10]

Your sick? I'm sorry :( goodnight

[SnapTsch]

dont let in to the persuasion, you'd be hating yourself if it is just sexual from his side of the isle because you'd be left hurt and feeling violated

[Asker]

i want to run away rn

[SnapTsch]

hey hey, dont feel bad
we aren't blaming you or judging you about this
dont feel alone, we are always here to help you

[Asker]

no its him he's saying shit

[SnapTsch]

like?
I am all up for it if you want to talk about it, rant or just get things of your chest. but dont beat yourself to the ground with this

[Asker]

he's screaming at me and he said that he can have "another hoe by tomorrow"

[SnapTsch]

he is an asshole who didn't care about you and just wanted sex.
you are better than that
just block him and stay away from him, dont let him play with your emotions

[Asker]

i mean i can run to my friends house tonight but I don't know

[SnapTsch]

I think things are serious and I'd really like to comfort you Ina totally platonic way, but if you are scared, ask someone to stay over at your house

[Asker]

ok im safe in with a friend for the night

[Asker]

hey i kinda want to pm u to tell u everything else but i only have 1 xper point :(

[SnapTsch]

are you the one that just followed me?

[Asker]

ya why?

[SnapTsch]

just to make sure that I wansnt doing the wrong person 😊

[SnapTsch]

*wasn't

[Asker]

haha okay :')

[Anonymous]

As he is also a teen and in teenage curiosity to explore the body of opposite gender is more. Just hormonal changes taking place in the body.

He did it for the same reason why you are liking it. :)

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha. I thought that you are single still as you were flirting with one dude on this question. Lol

Welcome. :)

[reptocarl]

Because he likes it too. Tell him you like it and what it does to you

[Asker]

I don't know were fighting

[Anonymous]

He knows it gets you wet and loves having that control over you

You should use your finger nails.. start at his knee and run your hand towards his inner thigh with some pressure... activates cremaster muscle which pulls his scrotum close to his body for protection.. also will send a chill/butterflies in his abdomen
Watch his eyes when you do it

[Cocacolamm]

because he knows it gets you excited and he likes you getting excited.

[oldoldold]

he's testing the waters to see if you will let you touch your vagina. the rub it then put himself in...

you might have babies soon unless

[Asker]

ummmmm no babys

[oldoldold]

then keep his fingers and other parts away from your...

[GingerGuy]

He's hoping to turn you on probably and it might lead to more.

[emoteen289]

it's a guy thing it's hard to explain I fight doing it to my friends (who are girl) when at lunch

[Asker]

I don't know we're fighting and im in tears i just want to run away

[killroy900]

set your own boundaries and make them clear to him. If he doesn't cross them, do what you want. he does it because he probably wants to slam

[Asker]

we r a little rocky right now

[killroy900]

You can't expect your relationships to last long at this age..

[Asker]

true

[Asker]

how can i get more xper points

[killroy900]

I don't know, I just got this app today

[Asker]

haha same

[Spartanluke217]

It because he think you like it and hoping you be turn on by it.