Does every guy cheat?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Depends on the girl. Some girls are misbehaving themselves and teach their man that he better cheat despite that not being what she wants, she really just wants to play him and not vice versa.

I can imagine being thirsty for more, but that would be because she isn't satisfying enough or I don't respect her enough to not take her for granted.

... and I am speaking from experience, there are certain women I wouldn't and didn't dare think of cheating on... others that got cheated on because they never tried to make me happy as much as I tried or did, and some that just plain deserve to be cheated on.

Making the partner look like a fool... I've never done that before, but then again, I've never been caught when I cheated. I on the other hand have experienced being cheated on... and no effort was put into not making me look like a fool... not even for herself. In fact that was part of what hurt the most about it. She risked STD's, people that see me everyday, and these people mocked me... talk about reasons to revenge cheat... I have no regrets.

Something I noticed of the girls that I refused to cheat on and in fact had no desire to cheat on... we're still friends, they never cheated themselves, and they respect me as much as they did then...

I think behavior triggers certain behavioral reactions.

[Jfreeland912345]

To answer your question, no. Not every guy is a cheat just like how not every girl is cheat. Personally, I've never cheated on my partner because a relationship needs to have strong foundation created by honesty, at least in my opinion. I don't know if this is true, but in my short two quarters as a psychology major my professor talk about why men and women cheat. I haven't done any research on this, but it's something that you or anyone can think about. Apparently, men that have cheated did so from having a physical attraction (in other words, they just want sex), having weak will power, and that they thought they could get away with it. Most men aren't influenced to cheat from emotion, but from desire. Whereas women who have cheated tend to have done so from an emotional standpoint. When something is going on in a relationship and it's affecting the girl emotionally, she'll tend to cheat to find an emotional connection. That being said this isn't saying that all guys do it for these reasons and not all girls cheat from emotion. This was information taken from a survey, but I don't know which survey. I have no way to tell you if this survey was legitimate and had a large sample size, but it's "food for thought."

[doodleheads]

my former male best friend cheated on his girlfriend of 3 years in the past for a under age girl, he was 25 at the time and the girl he cheated with was 16 at the time and she also has a boyfriend. he asked me to help him lie and since i was his best friend at the time i helped him lie to his girlfriend of 3 years from time to time. as time went by, he got 2 more of our mutual friends involved with the whole lying to his girlfriend scheme. when i was getting sick and tired of the whole thing after a while, i asked him why he wanted to cheat and not just be a man and come forward to break up with his girlfriend to make things easier for EVERYBODY? he kinda smirked and told me it's because he finds her boring after 3 years and wanted some excitement in his life and that's when i stopped being his friend

[MindYourEyes]

I know not all guys cheat even though most in my experience have. There are some good guys out there. Just hard to find sometimes!

[Jaye234]

No. Not every man cheats nor does every woman.
To me if the person loves their SO they wouldn't cheat.

[fashionguy17]

Not every guy cheats, and thinking that every guy cheats will ruin relationships for you.

I've had a couple of women I was seeing accuse me of cheating because their ex cheated on them. As a result, I broke up with them. I don't like people who live in the past, because each person you encounter is different.

Do I think about sex often? Yes

Have I ever checked out other women while in a relationship? Yes

Have I ever thought about having sex with different women? Yes

Do I act on my thoughts? No

Men and WOMEN fantasies about people other than their partner all the time. What separates a cheater from a non-cheater is whether or not they decide to act of their thoughts.

[BCRanger10]

The only people who will say "yes" to this are either women who've been cheated on before or "men" who think we have some kind of biological urge or "obligation" to cheat and think that we have no semblances of reason, discipline, intelligence, or choice (or women who think the same).

No, not every man will cheat. Yes, we are very visual and yes, we will notice attractive women. This does not mean that we will cheat. Believe it or not, men are intelligent beings who actually can and do choose to be faithful and to love.

[bizkid95]

It really depends on character of person, but sometimes, it just comes down to capability. It goes as follows: 1. Are you sexually happy with your relationship? Yes? No worries. No? Could be some problems. 2. Can you get away with cheating discreetly? Yes? Higher likelihood. No? Might make them frustrated, and they will show it. If both 1 and 2 are true, cheating will more than likely happen literally out of boredom

[Stoner710]

No not every guy cheats. But if we look at this from an evolutionary stand point having more then 1 sexual partner is more Beneficial, you mate with multiple partners in order to guarantee the survival of your genes. If you look at it biblically there is no reason for cheating and these guys are just ass hole who need to burn in hell. If evolution is true then this idea of a single partner is evolutionarily distractive. But no not all guys cheat do we think about sex a lot? yes we do but not all of us cheat

[GingerGuy]

Never have nor has it crossed my mind ever. I don't understand either. My thinking if I even would consider it, says something isn't right with my current relationship and I need to figure out and/or fix it, or end it first.

But, not to defend their actions because I don't think anyone should cheat, but I wish you women could understand what it feels like to be a guy and be visual. That temptation can be VERY hard to resist, especially if the woman is coming on to us and feeding that desire.

[Goochbreaker]

Sometimes being weak is as bad as being cruel. People are presented with temptation and they take that chance. I don't know how women are always choosing guys that cheat when there are so many that don't. Guys that are always dating someone and always hooking up probably will cheat, guys that wait around for the right women and are pickier probably won't because they don't wanna have to search again, fundamentally. Also though, just make sure you have a real connection with this person, if you feel in your gut that they are using you they probably are. So many pieces of shit out there... it's way harder to find a good women who won't cheat, for some reason they flock to the asshole dudes...

[Shine4eva64]

No not every guy cheats. And recent surveys show women cheat more than guys. Difference is when guys usually cheat its got more to do with sex but when girls cheat its more to do with mentally. Women are less likely to admit they have cheated and more secretive about hiding it then men.

[CurtisR]

I've never cheated in my entire life and never will! How can someone go behind their SO that loves them and completely back stab them like that? So heartless. Been cheated on by at least 2 women already though. 🙁 It's way too savage and terrible for me to do to someone else. I value loyalty above everything else in a relationship, once a cheater always a cheater and I'm not going to waste my time with one!

[dbskecheyii]

Today society has the ideal for traditional relationship set in a way that clearly doesn't work. If people would remember that only "I can determine my own happiness", and focus on happiness rather than the failing standards we try to adhere to... no one could or would cheat. Men think it is important to be "what she needs" to get what they "need" for a moment. If people would stop playing games and learn to be honest in happiness, everyone would be better off.

[HughJass]

yea yea sure sure.. 1 or 10 or 100 or 1000 guys are cheaters and then suddenly all lets say half of male population of Earth are cheaters. It's luck really. Luck in if you face a " real " man or a " cheater".

Asking of me, no, my purpose in a relationship isn't sex at all. When I get a girlfriend I will never cheat... There is no need for it...

[AlexanderZ]

Not when they love their partner. Most men and woman are sadly capable of cheating - especially when they figure out that their relationship isn't going to be 'the one' - Some don't want to let go of the good parts of their relationship - even if they've discarded their partner's feelings. It's all generally pretty immature.

[asdfdude]

No, of course not. Statistically, 50% of married men cheat at least once on their partner, while 40% of women do the same. As an aside, liberal male atheists are more likely to be sexually exclusive.

www.cnn.com/.../index.html

[Anonymous]

I been cheated on twice by 2 different women. Once just catching her out kissing another guy, the other much worse with actually catching her in the act. I been on that side so I would never cheat. I do find it pretty rude of you just to assume that every guy cheats since it isn't true. From where I am standing I could easily say all women cheat.

[fhziljio]

Bill burr is a comedian and here is his take on why men cheat

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0gaYyNk7QA

[Snelsnowden]

No a big percentage of people are cheating. We make generalisation because we hear stories about one guy/girl cheated and we forghet about a billion of people around who dont cheating, but no one will tell this story because its not intresting.

[savalisk]

Oh, for sure. Every guy will cheat. There is actually a set time of year when all the men in the world get together and plan out a huge cheat event where we all cheat on our girlfriends, wives... but not our waifus. They are off limits.

In all seriousness. No. We don't.

[MrOracle]

Most guys do not cheat. The ones that do are mostly the entitled, selfish, self-centered types - attributes that you can almost always detect BEFORE you sleep with them, assuming you actually date first - so it's mostly a problem for women who make poor choices in partners. Remember that some women also cheat, so this isn't just a girl problem.

[ManiMiami]

Well, My ex thought I cheated she was told by a "friend" of mine and after we broke up she confessed that she cheated on me, because she thought I'd say I cheated as well so we were even, But I didn't and so as you do I got upset and got angry. Then she brought her brother into it and so being a islander with several older brother and cousins I threatened back and soo she got scared and called the police. Does it mean I'm the bad person or is she?

[Cosytoasty]

Yep we all do, every man does lol... in fact I’m working on a girl right now behind the fiance’s back, gotta get as much in before I get married right 😉

[JDavid25]

No, there are many guys who wouldn't cheat me included.. But those people have issues that are beyond them.. That they needed to resolve before they entered a relationship..