I accidentally called my crush on whatsapp?

[Anonymous]

And now he just wont' go on whatsapp (he's usually on ALL the time), but hasn't been on for hours.

Is he avoiding me? I mean I tried deleting it not sure if it was possible.

Gah! :S

[mrmackey]

Girl I know it is hard to not think about a person you have a crush on but the fact that you know he is on all day and you keep checking if he is.. that is not good. Do not forget to do your own things, do not let it control your day, he reacts when and if he wants. Checking if he is online all day only makes you feel bad. I know it is hard, but try and do things for yourself do things with friends, tell yourself not to check if you almost want to again, will also make your contact with him more fun

[ZanyInternetName]

Let's face it, accidental calls on there are pretty common (for accidental calls anyway).

Why is he not online? I'd suggest he's just busy. Hell be back soon enough.

[Asker]

Listen my mom said to exit the group that he's a part of, so that it doens't seem like I tried to contact him.

I get why, I think she's worried for my peace of mind however I fear that if I DO react he'll think for sure she meant to call me you knw?

[ZanyInternetName]

So, you're part of a group where he is in as well... I'd actually advise you to not leave because that would be fairly suspicious in my mind (suddenly leaving without apparent reason).

[Anonymous]

I feel your pain 😂 That happened to me before too while trying to delete old messages to make space for my data. I cringed so much lol but just ignored it and hoped he would too... then... I got a message asking about the phone call so I was then able to explain that it was just a mistake. Not sure if he believed me or not though, lol oh well. You're not the first person it's ever happened to and I'm sure you won't be the last. It'll soon be forgotten and just a funny story to tell lol.

[Asker]

This guy has thought I was interested in him in the past which caused me to leave the place.

I was creeping his profile and accidentally called him (twice!)

Now I'm pretty sure my mom doesn't really believe that I did it accidentally which makes me wonder if he would.

However what I considered is if I react back to this, he's goin to think for SURE she intended to contact me on purpose.

If I do nothing, he will be like... mmaybe she didn't really mean to and it just dialled because if she wanted to get in touchw ith me she would've messaged me which she didn't

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I'd just be cool about to like you're not bothered, you could have sent a message straight after explaining it was a mistake but it'd probably be a bit weird now. What time did it happen? Feel free to use my reason as an excuse if it helps lol.

[Asker]

The thing is I do not speak to this guy on whatsapp.

If I were to message him he will for sure think she (I) did it purposely in an attempt to talk to him.

If anythign even now he likely might ssume I did it to signal to him to message or contact me, not sure.

I don't know what to do, I could just leave the group but what I fear happening is he may see it as, ohs he felt so bad that she was 'rejected' that she left.

That's why I didn't do anything although now i'm a bit wary.

He might see it as me like invading his privacy

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh I see. Do you have his number saved under his name in your phone on whatsapp and do you talk much elsewhere? You could just brush it off like 'I wasn't sure who is was so I checked it out and accidentally called you, my bad'. I wouldn't worry about it too much, these things happen.

Yeah I wouldn't leave the group, just play it cool and let it blow over.

[Opinion Owner]

Or you accidentally clicked on the writing my one etc. Tbh it's easily done when you're a) drunk b) distracted and multitasking etc.

[Opinion Owner]

*on the wrong one* I meant

[ShayShayBayBay]

He could just be busy. Sometimes females overthink things. There are days I'm on snapchat logged in yet I'm no where near my phone as I'm preoccupied with visiting people or I ignore my fb/snap etc for respect reasons. I wouldn't jump the gun just yet. If he doesn't want to hear from you, he can delete or block you tbh. I wouldn't stress it. And if he brings it up to you then make a fun & light conversation about it. Don't let yourself get backwards overthinking things. Good luck!

[Asker]

Well I don't speak to this guy BUT he thinks I'm a bit obsessed with him.

Truth be told I was creeping his profile and accidentally called him twice.

I'm not really sure what to do, it was by accident but it was twice.

I figured if I delete myself from that group, he's goign to think look purposely she called. IF I stay, it'll be like... oh maybe it was a mistake..

[ShayShayBayBay]

Well, if he thinks you're obsessed, that's bad. A guy is going to be more attracted to a single woman who is enjoying life and not putting too much attention on just one guy while single. I know guys may try to disagree but think about it. Let's say you are putting all this effort or focus into said crush, well you're going to spend more time obsessing and come across needy. If you however, talk to several guys (not saying sleep with---talk to and go out with) then you are less likely to come across obsessed. He's going to see you have your own life and it's going to draw him in more if there is initial attraction already. My mindset is this: If a guy doesn't like me, that's his choice. I'm not for everyone. No biggie. I don't put all my eggs in one basket and as a result, I truly enjoy being single. I love to flirt and... not bragging but this method has gotten way more guys attention. I've done it the other way before bc I really liked a guy, and I ended up upset at the result.

[Asker]

Hmm but I left like in early decemebr and now it's the end of the year AND my birthday and I accidentally called him.

I mean like, I don't know he might have thought I want to talk to him on my birthday? I really have NO idea what I should do at this point.

I could just leave the group he and I are both a part of but that would look suspicious, like why did she suddenly leave?

I don't know. I don't rust him

[ShayShayBayBay]

Honestly, I wouldn't bring the call up to him. If he mentions it then laugh it off in a fun & light way.. Such as, "Apparently while I was dancing around my phone was calling people to gather evidence." aka butt dials. However, you play it off do it in a light way as if it's no biggie but really it isn't. I would avoid calling him again tho lol Let him come to you. Look at it this way, I've had guys literally call me 14 times in one day and that's not including texts. That was a major turnoff however, once they realized how they came across--this particular guy was able to get my attention again. It wasn't easy at all but, he smooth talked his way back into my mind by making me smile & laugh... He was also an ex which is why he was so desperate thinking I was moving on (and I was). That being said, you can still have a shot if he's interested initially. Just don't over-stress a pocket dial or an accidental button push.

[Asker]

The thing is I'm never going to see this guy again and fear that he truly did think that I was purposely calling him what do I do now? :S

[ShayShayBayBay]

Do nothing. As females, we overthink. If he wants to know, he'll reach out. Absolutely, do nothing as I said unless he reaches out to you. Go keep busy so you're not stressing this matter. It's not as big of a deal as you are letting it become in your head Sweetie.

[Asker]

He didn't reach out?

Also, this other girl from the group she changed her profile picture to herself and another girl on the exact same day

[ShayShayBayBay]

Then do nothing. Like I said, if he doesn't reach out then don't stress over it. If he does then keep it light & fun. What's the other girl have to do with it?

[Asker]

They were in a clique against me.

I'm assuming he doesn't care?

[ShayShayBayBay]

I honestly can't say with this information. All I can say is, do not reach out to him and if he reaches you then to keep it light and fun. You really are over thinking this a lot girl. Go find something to get into to keep occupied. Stressing isn't going to help you. Good luck!

[MMarina]

No worries it's just a call. You can make it playful and be like "woops! Called you by mistake! Guess fate really wants us to talk :P " and then say something chill like "sorry 'bout that, how u been?" Or something

[devilish-cutie]

doesn't have to be, he may just be shook and too scared to call you back... but maybe he will when he gather courage
or he will wait for you to call him again if there is something you need

[Asker]

I thought he realizes I matured and instead of freaking out did nothing= I'm over him

[devilish-cutie]

I dont understand what you mean

[Asker]

In terms of if I really cares for him I would have reacted. The fact that I did nothing= I didn't care

[devilish-cutie]

well you did something: you called him, and maybe he thinks you wait for him to call back cause you needed him about something since he doesn't know it was accident but he may be too shy to call back and if he feels something for you too, he may taking his time to gather courage

[Asker]

I video called him accidentally if I meant to call him why would I video call?

[devilish-cutie]

than he may think it was an accident or is confused why you did that

[rish170003]

Don't over think it too much
It's not a big deal to be honest
He might just be busy
Let it be for a while
He'll probably text you sooner than you think

[Asker]

I do not speak to my crush.

[rish170003]

If he asks you why you called , just say that it was a mistake

[UltimateGohan]

Avoiding for sure

[Asker]

Why? He hates me?

[UltimateGohan]

Not hate but if he doesn't have ur number then like a normal person he would avoid strangers

[Asker]

He doesn't get that it's an accident?

I mean if he clicks on the number he can see it's mine

[UltimateGohan]

He doesn't wanna talk thats why

[Asker]

Hmm so he's avoiding me? As in he doens't understand it was by accident

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Just send him a message to say you rang him by mistake.

I'm always ringing people by mistake , it's so easy to do lol

[Asker]

I just ignored it?

[cocaths]

Wow just say it was an accident. It's not a big deal

[Asker]

I decided not to message him and make it worse

[PrincessJess49]

Not explaining it was an accident makes it worse

[Asker]

Hmm but he might just think hmm it was an accident, especially if I don't react :)

[PrincessJess49]

But he might also think
“Wonder why she called?”
“Was it something important?”
“How did she get my WhatsApp?”
“Is she going to call again?”

[cocaths]

I don't think so, if someone calls me I don't give a f_ and just think it was an accident if they don't call again

[PrincessJess49]

Not everyone is like you or thinks the same

[cocaths]

Obviously. But guys don't overthink things especially if he doesn't like you (as you said in other comments)

[stillagoodgirl]

It's not possible to delete just simply message him "Sorry I accdiently called you "

He's probably busy with the holidays, not avoiding you

[ArabianPwincess197]

Lol I did that a few times, it happens.
Just ignore it, it's not a big deal and maybe he is busy

[Chanel1981]

Accidentally called him?

[Asker]

you doubt my believability?

[Chanel1981]

Oh no, I'm just not familiar with how that app works. Did you just call and hang up?

[BatmansWife]

Tell him it was an accident.

[Anonymous]

Omg the world is gonna explodeeeeeee!

[omgjassy]

He’s probably busy