Why did he delete my number?

[blairxoxo]

So there's this guy whom i’ve known for some time now. He was pursuing me and seemed to like me a lot. He has a girlfriend tho and she has a child from a previous relationship.
so this guy always texts me to go out for drinks and we end up booking a hotel room and yeah.. (happened 3-4 times now) and yesterday was one of those times. I told him that i am on my period (day4) but he didn't care because its not the first days he said and then we went and got a hotel. He paid for everything, drinks as well as hotel around 500 in total and then we did it and the sex was shit he couldnt even get it up and told me that i gained weight so around 3am we decided to stop trying and leave because his girlfriend would get pissed if he didn't come home the night and my mom was calling me like crazy.
Then today i woke up around 12am and he had deleted me as a contact on whatsapp.
why WTF would he do that?
He is 38 by the way i am 22.

[QueenMidnight]

I think that you was just a toy that he could keep playing with. Eventually the sexual relationship became boring to you, and he lost interest.( It's like a child with a toy playing with it for a long time, and then seeing a new toy, leave the old toy behind for the new). It was probably just fun to him to have a girl younger then him have sex with him. He just lost interest in you. Either that or he got embarrassed that he couldn't get it up and just left. And don't you think its wrong that you slept with him even when he had a girlfriend?

[blairxoxo]

He keeps telling me that the only reason why he is keeping her is the fact that her child goes to school near where they live and he doesn't want to kick her out because apartments near the area are very expensive. He cheats on her on a regular basis im bot the only one he does it with he claims that she has gotten fat and he isn't attracted to her anymore and that he doesn't like how the child behaves towards him even though he tries everything to please the child

[QueenMidnight]

First, I want to say that it sounds like he has no respect for women. Because a person weight doesn't meet you standards isn't a reason for you to cheat on anyone or leave them. That's extremely rude and disrespectful. And now if he doesn't want to be in a relationship with her he should leave her alone and tell her this. Later, it will just leave her with more heart break. I'm sure he has some feeling, but its not all there. As for the child and the whole school thing. That should be discussed as well.

[blairxoxo]

Exactly i told him that as well and the typical cheater response: dont judge me u dont know everything we never have sex with my girlfriend (maybe once a month) and this and that bla bla

[QueenMidnight]

Eventually karma will come. Everybody wants to have that wild sex life style until that wild sex life style gets to be too much.

[blairxoxo]

He is almost 40 he should know better...
Men are all the same ugh.
I dont have feelings for him just like him as a person and like i said to the other user here just wanted him around to find out information and news about his bff the one i am actually in love with for 4 years now...
just got pissed that he deleted me

[MissGeorgia]

Because he got what he wanted, and now he's gone back to the woman he wants to be with.

There weren't feelings involved for him, or at least not to the extent that you have them.

[blairxoxo]

No i dont have feelings i just got mad/confused that he deleted me thats all.

[MissGeorgia]

It's most likely that doesn't want anything more.

In the nicest possible way, don't sell yourself so cheaply the next time. You're better than that.
So is his girlfriend, but she'll find that out in her own time.
It's probably not the first time he's cheated on a partner, or the last.

[blairxoxo]

No in fact he cheats on her quite a lot for the reasons:
He keeps telling me that the only reason why he is keeping her is the fact that her child goes to school near where they live and he doesn't want to kick her out because apartments near the area are very expensive. He cheats on her on a regular basis im bot the only one he does it with he claims that she has gotten fat and he isn't attracted to her anymore and that he doesn't like how the child behaves towards him even though he tries everything to please the child

[MissGeorgia]

He sounds like a catch!! :/

[blairxoxo]

Yeah and every time ita time
For us to leave and go home and for him
To go to his girlfriend after all her phone calla that he didn't answer his mood changes and he becomes grumpy and so we were in the taxi and he said “can u pay this one” and i was like “umm.. no”
Because he treated me like a cheap slut, called me fat (ter) then before and couldnt even get his dick hard which made me feel bad about myself. This morning he deleted me as a contact

[9teen]

'He has a GIRLFRIEND tho" There it is, a clear evidence of a douchebag.
Conclusion of your story: you were successfully his fucktoy and now he throws you away since he had enough.

[blairxoxo]

Yeah dont really care about him at all to be honest just got pissed because now i can't use him to find out news about his bff, he is the one i actually want and have done so for 4 years

[livingtrust]

you were just a fuck buddy. fuck buddies are at a never ending supply so if one thing ever goes wrong we can cut them off without looking back. you should only fuck that type of guy if he's really good in bed

[blairxoxo]

He is not 3 out of 4 times he couldnt get hard with me.

[TeddyEddy]

Maybe he thought that the sexual part of your meet up was the reward for taking you out and buying everything. And when he couldn't perform, it must have made him think the juice wasn't worth the squeeze.

[blairxoxo]

Haha could be.
Or also the fact that i gained weight and he told me
by the way funny how u happen to have thw same name as him

[FemWorship]

? he has more than 1 hotel date from which to choose?
? girlfriend WAS pissed, invaded his connections, found yours and then one of them deleted you?

Aren't there any guys single near you that are attractive?

[Gelder27]

Don't try to get in a relationship or anything. The fact that he's cheating on his girlfriend says everything.

[blairxoxo]

Of course not i am crazy in love with his best friend anyway...

[Gelder27]

That's one hell of a situation your in.

[blairxoxo]

Nah i knew hia best friend before every other question i posted on here was about his friend but his friend doesn't really want me it seems ans it has been going on for 3 almost 4 years so now his friend moved back to holland and i knew that this guy wanted me a lot so i fugured that i’ll make his friend jealous (which did happen despite him not wanting me as he claims) and also to ask and find out information and news about his friend who i am into since day 1. Just wanted to keep him around for that and only that now i just got pissed that he deleted me

[Gelder27]

I'd move on tbh...

[PrincessJess49]

He’s probably not attracted to you anymore... if y’all are just fucking... he probably thinks it’s pointless to keep in contact if he can’t get from what he wants. (Get his dick hard)

[blairxoxo]

3 out of the 4 times that was the case with him ans he always blamed it on the cocaine but i never believed him when he sais that. I think its because i gained weight

[PrincessJess49]

Which goes back to my comment of, he’s no longer attracted to you..

[mooky06]

He must’ve felt embarrassed or wasn’t sexually attracted to you anymore

[blairxoxo]

He could never perform with me anyways
This always happened that he couldnt get a hard dick

[Chantel77]

He probably gave up pursuing you thinking it'd be a waste of time OR he got a new phone

[ShesAmerican]

Tell his girlfriend if i were you

[jessture]

He probably wants space or to be done