If a guy's too good looking, multi talented, intelligent yet has a great body. Would you turn him down?

[qwer1234]

Would you turn a guy down who's too perfect? Like he's good looking, talented in many fields, intelligent but still has a great body. And you know that a lot of girls like him. Does his too perfect traits make him more desirable or intimidated?

... would feel more attracted to him (and would accept a date).

...would feel intimidated (and thus turn him down for a date.)

[usagichan]

I'd turn him down because I figure with so many girls chasing after him, he's not gonna be into me or stay into me for long. Plus most guys I've met who have/*think they have* all those traits usually have huge egos attached, and most down-to-earth girls don't wanna deal with that.

[Anonymous]

I don't go for guys that are too good to be true

[qwer1234]

Kinda sad isn't it? So the good ones will die out.

[Opinion Owner]

No....the good ones will go to someone who is equally as "prefect" as they are. Relationships are all about a match

[qwer1234]

But how many good ones are outthere? Imagine, if there's a guy who's got a lot of good qualities but can't find a match, because there's a less amount of available women with the same good characteristics, he'll die alone. :(

[Opinion Owner]

Look, people date in their social circle. If he went to an ivy league, he would find a smart girl and yes, she would be pretty if he was good looking. If he came from a wealthy background, so would the girl he dates. Do you see my point? He is never going to be alone because there will be someone who is equally as good if not better

[qwer1234]

What if the guy comes from a poor background but is intelligent enough to go into a highly respected college. The rich ones won't like them. The poor ones don't see him as one of them anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

You are overthinking this. You're not alone in this world. If you're in this situation, guess what? There's someone else in the same exact situation you are. No one is alone

[qwer1234]

But what is the probabiltiy of finding someone like that?

[Opinion Owner]

Ok here's the thing. If this guy is so called perfect, he'll have no problems finding a girlfriend. If he's having problems, then guess what? He's not so perfect is he? It would mean there was something wrong with his personality that he's unable to attract and keeps girls

[Brando]

I see both sides to this. On one hand, I do agree that people generally match up with people who are similar to them. But I also see where the QA is coming from. What are the probabilities of finding that matching person? After a while of getting turned down because you are "too perfect" will make the "perfect" people confused and wondering what's wrong with them. And we all know desperation isn't attractive.

[qwer1234]

I think the best one can do in this situation is to say and do s.th. stupid from time to time. So you'll be considered as "normal"

[GENIE101]

i don't think you literally meant "perfect" maybe he's a little conceited. but hey so am i... haha. don't see nothing wrong with it.

[leastman]

...the guy you described sounds very hot...and I definitely wouldn't want to discriminate against him just because he's liked by a lot of other girls.

[Anonymous]

I answered A, but I would also automatically assume he's a douche or a player if he has that much going for him. I horrible generalization, I know...

[Anonymous]

nobody's perfect