Why do so many random guys want to fuck me?

[Empressa_Rae]

Over the past few months I've had over a dozen guys try to hit on me when I'm doing nothing to be flirty or showing interest. I barely know some of these dudes like I've probably talked to them several times. Yet they keep hitting on me and trying to come over. It's a no from me sorry because they look like goblins 😂

[MrOracle]

The threshold for guys wanting sex from a girl is quite low. Essentially, if you are physically attractive (meaning: a 5 out of 10 or better to the guy, and some guys don't even need that much), and you are willing, that's all that's necessary. And that means you're going to meet those minimal requirements with a LOT of guys. This shouldn't be any surprise - it's how things have always worked for the history of human beings.

As a woman, YOU are the gatekeeper of sex for yourself. Your job is to guard your gate well and only admit the rare guy who has proven himself worthy (because of his morals, values, and life-goals - not because of his looks or his status or his money). That won't stop guys from asking, because plenty of girls are horrible gatekeepers and will admit almost any guy who asks, but don't get upset by it - you just say "no thank you" and move on.

[HawkPerception]

That's the life of a girl. As long as you're semi attractive you'll get a lot of guys attention. Just accept it, unless you want to disfigure your face and body and become uglier so you don't get the attention. A lot of girls with worse genetics would trade places with you in a heartbeat.

[Joshydavid25]

If this is online, maybe you have some questionable pictures that attract that kind of attention.. If IRL, maybe you wear clothing choices that gets guys looking and wanting to make a booking.. If not any of that, you could just be a girl with a nice face and body that makes guys wanna get it in..

[Anonymous]

There could be so many different reasons guys would try to fuck the wind if the wind would hold still


But I would have to say you're probably beautiful you probably carry yourself well you're smart you're confident. And there's probably something they really like about you

[Zbrody1997]

I don't know, do you have a high body count or OF? If so that could be one reason and they simply don’t respect you, otherwise maybe you’re high value and selective of your partners, that’s honestly a great quality.

[tzdc21]

Because you're a woman. Majority of women experience guys approaching them in person and online.

[handsomelad70]

"Goblins?" Why are you attracting goblins, lady?

[Empressa_Rae]

That's what I'm trying to find out

[Billlewis]

Unfortunately, although women instinctively know which guys they can seduce and which ones they can't, guys don't have this psychological tool, and therefore typically make fools of themselves trying to date women who are totally and completely superior to them in every conceivable way. I wouldn't dare ask you for a date, because I know I'm not worthy even to kiss your feet;)

[Empressa_Rae]

@Billlewis okay so you're another goblin. You don't even know what I look like!!

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, I accept whatever term you wish to describe me as, but I don't see any possibility of your being anything other than drop dead gorgeous, because of the way you carry yourself. I don't need to see a picture of you to know that you're an absolute goddess.

[Empressa_Rae]

@Billlewis the way I carry myself wdym? I really want to know because the mind of a goblin is a mystery to me

[Billlewis]

May I be permitted to discuss this with you privately? Please follow or message me and I'll be happy to tell you everything. It's kind of embarrassing to do so here. Thank you very much.

[Empressa_Rae]

@Billlewis you're free to message me if you can explain that

[Billlewis]

Yes, I just did. Thank you very much for letting me share this with you.

[handsomelad70]

@Billlewis Superior to them? H**l, even handsome dudes make fools of themselves trying to bond with UGLY girls.

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, that's a great point.

[DrPepper12]

Not a bad problem to have I guess. You must be attractive I would think.

[RedInnocent69]

[Anonymous]

You probably look like a goblin also. And you have no right rejecting a guy because of his looks

[Opinion Owner]

PS: I do not know why you call yourself Empressa, you are at the opposite end of the scale

[Opinion Owner]

Your remark is also childish

[Twalli]

You're a young woman who is probably relatively attractive.

[ManInChains]

Maybe it’s what you’re wearing?

[handsomelad70]

Gorgeous and perhaps wearing flattering clothes. Can't see why boys would want her.

[Empressa_Rae]

@handsomelad70 yes but these dudes have no sense of subtlety they just want to fuck and they look like goblins. Cute guys hitting on me is a rarity

[handsomelad70]

I'm sorry about that, Empress_Rae.

[dustybiker2]

It's annoying, I know. 😏

[Billlewis]

Um, maybe because you're gorgeous?

[handsomelad70]

She probably IS gorgeous, and gorgeous gals can attract some, ummmm, less-than-handsome chaps.

[exitseven]

Do you have a bad reputation?

[Benitomussoloni]

I personally want this too

[Empressa_Rae]

You want goblins trying to hump you no matter what you do? Ugh be my guest

[Benitomussoloni]

no you misunderstood me

[Benitomussoloni]

I want to be a goblin

[Empressa_Rae]

What? You don't even know what I look like? This is what I mean 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Empressa_Rae]

I got a profile picture

[Benitomussoloni]

oh my god! I gave up

[Empressa_Rae]

What do you mean?

[Benitomussoloni]

I gave up after seeing your photo

[Empressa_Rae]

Why?

[Benitomussoloni]

Because you're too beautiful for someone like me

[written_in-the-stars]

Simple answer u must be fuckable 🤣

[Luckycharms12]

Goblins need love to

[Empressa_Rae]

You can go ahead and give them that love. I'd stay out of it lol

[Luckycharms12]

Men aren't for me

[TeraGER]

@Luckycharms12 exactly that's why you are into grannies. Gross

[OddBeMe]

They’re prob drunk.