Why do guys ignore some of their female friends when they get a girlfriend? (Page 2)

Question

I know not all guys do this. I’m still friends with a lot of my guy friends who have girlfriends but there’s some guys that will completely ignore me and not talk to me anymore once they get a girlfriend and to me it seems like it’s for no reason or they hang out with other female friends but not me. Why do some guys do this, like even as friends?

NathanStrat · Answer

Because uh, they never wanted to stay just friend with you. Guys don’t enjoy the friendzone as much as girls do.

Naelyon · Answer

Well, a lot of guys are friends with girls because they see them as potential partners. Once they have found a girlfriend, there's no longer any need for female friends. It also happens that they stop talking to girls because they're worried about their girlfriends being jealous.

Rayce · Answer

I've never had a girlfriend or wife who let me have any female friends at all. I wasn't allowed to hang out with them or talk to them. I think that's pretty normal for women after talking with my guy friends, none of them were allowed any female friends. So there's a big reason for you right there.

Kawabanga1 · Answer

humans are jealous , we are jealous if i had a girlfriend i would hate for her to have 5 dudes orbiting around her as "friends" and i would imagine its the same for women... the solution in my opinion is to not completley cut them out of your life but dont hang out one on one or get into too intimate discussions with your guy friends , keep it casual and friendly.

aaleena · Answer

Your too good looking and that can sometimes cause friction in a relationship having such a bombshell of a friend like you. It's definitely lame. But whatever. Still cute though 💗

Godless_flawless · Answer

I’ve experienced this myself and can’t honestly come to a logical reason behind the sudden negligence. Perhaps the girlfriends insecurity in the relationship can be a possibility. Hinting her dismay to the boyfriend to make him distance himself.

Girrafespelledwrong · Answer

I do it because I may have had attraction to you and cared about you when we were friends but all of it has now been put into my girlfriend and it may also be so as not to make her jealous

dropkicknj13 · Answer

A bunch of reasons but the most common one is because you were never friends. He was around because he liked you, but now he has a girlfriend so he's not gonna hang around

silvermoon84 · Answer

Sometimes that just happens. In which case, they don't mean to do it (or don't realize they're doing it). But usually it's the girlfriend making them cut off female friends. Not all girls do this though

Anonymous · Answer

Out of respect, it's harsh to completely stop talking to you but there are certain boundaries that should be respected. Someone who drops you as a friend completely when someone else comes into the picture probably isn't much of a friend.

QueenofCups · Answer

Cause they see you as a potential girlfriend, and once they have a real girlfriend, they don't need you anymore.

performerwannabe · Answer

They don't want the new girlfriend to feel threatened by how close he is with another female (that's not family).

BuchitaBuchys · Answer

You were probably in his friend zone but now he's getting puss puss on the regular and he realized you guys weren't really friends

rotnet · Answer

As This New relationship is more important and consume a lot of time and effort so in some cases we have to give up to free up for more important things
This not mean we hate or don't appreciate our friends we actually love to see them and help them
But each stages in life have different requirements we have to understand that

EpicDweeb · Answer

I've heard of it in the sense of doing it so as to remain loyal. It's possible he likes you but I'd trying to avoid and ignore any feelings he has foe you because he's in a relationship.

kazotaja · Answer

My girlfriend gave me so much drama for simply keeping my old friendships I just gave up. I couldn't deal with the drama.

Then again, a lot of dudes are simply preoccupied with their new relationships. Dividing attention between multiple people is hard when you meet a person you genuinely want to spend every waking minute with.

I don't know.

FatherJack · Answer

To avoid cheating accusations , and also a true girlfriend will have far higher priority over a mere platonic friend / acquaintance. Male and female friends will take a back seat , women will do this to men too.

pete_the_pan · Answer

They were interested in you and they were never your friends.

ashiakaleo · Answer

Because maybe he is loyal to his girlfriend and he feels that the friends may get in the way... or maybe to make her feel comfortable so she doesn't feel she is competing with them

ItsASecret26 · Answer

Because their girlfriend doesn’t want him to. Or because he is so focused on his girlfriend that he’s not interested in anything else even his friends.

e-choe · Answer

Guys do more than girls care to notice for them (while in the relationship). Avoiding a conflict for whatever reason is key... lol? It could be that this new "girlfriend" may have said some comment about you and he just doesn't want to deal with this issue. Especially with this new someone who could potentially be someone special.

TheFlak38 · Answer

This is just another proof that men don't have female friends. They either want to fuck you or they will find another pussy and then dump you.

XoxobriiiiiiRod · Answer

Maybe cause sometimes their girlfriend is not okay with it. Give it time and respect his decisions.

PurpleTeardrops2 · Answer

Because they got a female friend aka girlfriend that they can have sex with. Don't take it so personally

nickyBBB · Answer

Because some girls aren't comfortable with their boyfriend hanging around other girls, like some guys don't like when their girlfriend does that. Simple lol

tori-gee · Answer

They sometimes do it because the girlfriend isn’t happy about it or because they just don’t want to seem like they’re cheating that’s my personal opinion on what I think it could be

CubsterShura · Answer

Because they think that they should do it. Girlfriends can be possessive.  Well I had a possessive ex boyfriend and it wasn't fun.

SlowRoast · Answer

If the girl has a good personality then that'll be all the friend he needs. Other girls become shallow and meaningless in his eyes.

Letsplay2day · Answer

I never did that. Thus the reasons most my friends are woman. On the other hand my partner who I might be dating at the time were usually ticked about... thats Why I now stick to the no strings attached rule... lot less drama which wore on me over the years

bigmacperez · Answer

in my opinion, it’s to help the girlfriend from feeling jealous or suspicious of possible feelings or intimacy between the guy and a friend. It’s also a way of the guy to show his girlfriend that he’s willing to drop his friends for her. Girls love having priority 😒

Syrian_survivor · Answer

I like to treat people the way i like to be treated
I don't want my girlfriend hanging out with her male friends, so in contrary, i weaken my connections with my female friends, it's more about personal preference in my opinion

AlphaGhost · Answer

The same reason you ask your b. f questions about his female friends and even force him to del all the female contacts from the phone.

roseygalea · Answer

They don’t want the girlfriend to get the wrong impression and/or the girlfriend has told them not to talk to you

beebella · Answer

Out of respect for their girlfriend. Especially if the girlfriend has let it be known that she doesn't want him talking to other girls. Some girlfriends don't mind it, tho.

pooper89 · Answer

Because they were only friends with you because they were hoping to date you or hook up with you. Now they don't need you anymore. That's why I don't try to have guy friends

Anonymous · Answer

Because they respect their relationship and don't want any drama.

winterfox10 · Answer

It helps to prevent an awkward situation, by eliminating the possibility of it occurring at all. It's the same reason that a girl will shut out her guy friends when she is getting serious with a guy; she wants to avoid any confusion.

Hosslover2005 · Answer

Well I guess then we'll spend time with their girlfriends and cuz they're sharing their lives feeling all the secrets to someone who's the stranger basically so don't take it personally but I'm sure once they break up

SaintRaghu · Answer

It’s 20th century and most girlfriends are totally insecure and controlling and they stop their boyfriends to stay in touch with their female friends. It’s not the guy’s fault but I do blame such guys to not leave these kind of relationships.

PolkGuy18 · Answer

I did this before. I would have to say mostly because I was trying to get with the girl I started ignoring. Once I got another girl, she wasn't as useful or was too much of a distraction for me. Shitty way of thinking but I'm not like that anymore.

turtl3man · Answer

Because the girlfriend gets jealous when we spend time with other girls so it's generally to make the girlfriend more comfortable and assured

Taleygirl1998 · Answer

The only real logic reason I can think about is If the girlfriend doesn't want him to talk to any females period.. thats the only thing i can think

skimando · Answer

Well it is a jealous thing for sure. Girls get jealous actually more than men do and feel threatened.

johnboymuscles · Answer

Men arnt friends with women😂 he was trying to fuck you. Now he got a girlfriend. You missed your chance. Bah Felicia

DizzyDesii · Answer

My best friend guy is doin this to me rn and it hurts. But i understand cause my boyfriend and i cut people out of ours too

owens97 · Answer

i use to do this its cause they put all there attention into seeing and being with there girlfriend like if u could hangout with ur girlfriend or ur fg then they think girlfriend

outside_Toronto · Answer

Because they aren't really your friend. They befriend you for the possibility of sex. When they get it elsewhere, they don't have as urgent of need for you.

Jager66 · Answer

guys do this to their male friends as well.. just saying.  If it's worse with female friends it probably has to do with dumb ass girl friends who are insecure.

-_-321-_-123-_- · Answer

Maybe they are afraid to upset their girlfriend by hanging out with other girls?

annabel67 · Answer

He might have some feelings for the person he's avoiding so he doesn't want to get any closer to her.

ThisDudeHere · Answer

Because there may have been some interest in said female friends before.

Hopefullness · Answer

Girlfriends can sometimes get jealous, so maybe he’s trying to avoid that I don't know

gemstones · Answer

It’s cuz they don’t want problems with there girlfriend and they don’t want there girlfriend to get mad over just talking to girls

jackmaxim · Answer

Our girlfriends make us she must of saw you as a threat and specifically said stay away from her ladies are so hateful of each other sometimes

Joelski440 · Answer

I could be off base but. The only reason I have seen this is because the girl friendzoned the guy. Now the guy has a girlfriend he want to run her face in it.

Synttacks · Answer

My ex was extremely possessive so I actually lost contact with all of my friends except the female ones because none of them live close so I only text them. Not sure if that helps

Hectorrr · Answer

Because there is tension or they like you more than just friends and don't want to chance it or tempt themselves when they have a girlfriend and it makes it less complicated

Ghost_Woof · Answer

Probably because their one girlfriend views the girl as a threat and makes him stay away from you

stifler1979 · Answer

Because they're attracted to you and they don't know how to handle it.

JordanDavis · Answer

A lot of girls a very jealous, and give their boyfriends a hard time when they spend time with their female friends. So in order to lessen the jealousy and arguments many guys just spend less time with their female friends.

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