What does it mean if you look nothing like his ex or current girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

If you didn't read or see my question before this, my very first & only boyfriend iv had I dated for 4 years. Iv look nothing like his exs they all wore little to no makeup, had brown hair, they look like their in middle school (no shade) plain jane & are pretty quite. But I have bright blonde hair, pretty involved & well know, I do wear makeup & look a lot older for my age. Me and his ex & even his current girl he cheated on me with are NOTHING alike. But me and him always had the most serious & longest relationship. My ex always told me I was way out of his league, better lookin than all of his exs & blondes were his favorite.

If that's true why have all of his exs & even the current girl he is with now all look the same & nothing like me? Also If what he said was true why would he start a relationship with a knew girl that looks just like his past exs? What does that mean or say about me?

[Buckzor]

Could mean absolutely nothing. Just because you don't look like his ex's, doesn't mean he thinks you're any better or worse necessarily. He found/finds you attractive, simple as that. Just because it may seem he has a "type", doesn't mean he will stick to it all his life.

Not sure what to tell you as you seem hellbent that there is 100% something to do with having ex's that look similar to eachother.
Probably means nothing.

[boggboss]

You a reading into it a bit much guys don't have just one taste for women also just because u looked amazing don't mean you 2 sautied for a relationship what's the reason for the breakup

[Asker]

well we were together for 4 years it wasn't a healthy relationship. What the final "break up" was we had a fight and in under two weeks he has a new girl & he has contacted me multiple times trying to either rub it in my face or tell me I'm some awful person but everything about his new girl is everything he has told me he doesn't like so it just confusing

[boggboss]

So it's clear that u 2 so where not good for each other why even wonder if it don't matter seems like he is doing it to spite u just move on don't play games

[Asker]

If he is doing it out of spite can he actually like her? And I know you're right I shouldn't worry just some days it gets to me. Its both of our 1st relationships we are eachother 1st for everything and I don't know I thought our relationship meant a lot but somehow in under two weeks he finds a new girl and acts like our relationship & me meant nothing to him. It's my 1st time dealin with anything like this so its just hard for me process. Thank you for being nice about this and giving me honest but kind feedback!! :)

[boggboss]

I'd depends it's possible he likes her I say to spite u because he is rubbing it in your face but there is no way to know if he likes her or not plus we all move on in different ways and speeda

[potatoisme]

It's not all about looks. That's all I have to say.

[jimyee]

Tldr.
When you post anon no one knows what you posted before.
I don't really know what your asking but a girlfriend doesn't need to resemble a past girlfriend in any sort of way.

[nohopeleftinme]

It doesn't mean or say anything about you. He has a type, which is why his current and previous ex's look alike. Trust me. I have a type.

[tk42jm]

You're not supposed to look like his ex so I don't see what the problem is or why do you have a problem about you not looking like his ex no girlfriend is supposed to look like an ex-girlfriend if she does that means you ain't over your your ex

[Asker]

That's my point, he said multiple times his ex ugly etc we broke up & in under two weeks he is with another girl that has the same appearance & rep as all his exs do that's why it doesn't make sense to me everything about his current girl & exs is exactly opposite of what he claims he likes so is he lying to me or while he was with me he never was over his exs

[tk42jm]

I don't know what you're trying to ask me

[Asker]

I'm sorry I don't mean to be difficult I know your trying to help. :) I guess I'm just trying to figure out if pretty much the whole relationship was a lie, I'm starting to think he never really liked me & he just used me for 4 years straight for multiple reasons & dropped me like I was nothing its just pretty shitty.

[Logorithim]

I wouldn't read anything into it- guys usually take what they can get, so to speak.

[triff]

it sounds like he has a type that he has preferred but now has looked at you as a person and not a type Just be careful he doesn’t try to change you or start suttle control This could be why he ha Xs