Are guys ever interested in really being friends with girls? (Page 2)

Question

I've had seemingly really awesome guys become friends with me, only for them to eventually learn on their own that I have a boyfriend. Than they'll break off the 'friendship' and act like they absolutely hate me. So, is a guy trying to friend a girl only him trying to get with her? Why can't guys and girl be real friends without one trying to bang the other.

Trippyy · Answer

I said this a few minutes ago as well, I've got good looking female friends, a lot of guys are thirsty I suppose, just a combination of not giving any mixed signals

OpenWine · Answer

well usually I like to with some but they usually tend to spazz out or think that I wanted to get in their pants when I actually just wanted to hang out (people whom I don't hang out with to me are not called friends).

janjohanjson · Answer

Yes! I have at least one close female friend and several casual female friends that I love but would not want to have a romantic relationship with.

bubble_tea · Answer

Yes, but they rarely want the normal kind of friendship girls want, they want the normal kind of friendship guys want with girls.

Margillard · Answer

Guys and girls can never be true friends, just lovers.

youtoo · Answer

N E V E R. If anyone says that men and women can be friends, they're liars 😄

dandiecandie · Answer

No they are not thats why as soon as i say lets be friends i don't want to be in a relationship. They are like dont talk to me.

DifferentSort · Answer

The answer is an unequivocal yes. In fact I've always been more comfortable being friends with women than men, especially when they do realize that I'm only interested in friendship and nothing else.

TheBestUsername · Answer

If they already have their romantic/emotional needs fulfilled, then yes it's possible.

Clarke498 · Answer

Well, i have two very good girlfriends right now. Don't ever plan on hooking up with them. Well, i sort of like one of them, but she ain't single, and i can be friends with her really well so. That don't matter.

CandacePerry · Answer

In college most of my friend are guys. there more guys with a learning disabled in my college.

Prettysammie · Answer

All my friends are guys, so definitely yes. It’s only natural for there to be some attraction sometimes and sometimes it’s mutual so things happen.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys and girls think completely different. So guys are probably a little clueless on where the relationship is at. Girls are hard to read. I don't know what they're thinking about a lit of the time. So it is both ways. Guys and Girls don't really understand each other. That is why we try to get to know the other

Justsomeonebored · Answer

I do have sincere guy friends, maybe it's because I don't look like dating material 😂

davidrees · Answer

I have plenty of female friends that I've never tried to hook up with or date. Those are immature douchebags and you're better off without them.

catrdabomb · Answer

I am I find most guys rude and enjoy being friends with females more

coowhip · Answer

Yes, 100%. I would say I have am even split of close male / female friends. Most guys, but not all, are just trying to get it in. There are exceptions. And more than you would think.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes we are interested in just being friends with girls.

SchnitzelBoy · Answer

Very rarely can a guy be friends with a girl and not feel attracted to her, unless she is butt ugly or he has immensely great willpower. Usually, if they DM u out of nowhere, it's a 90% guarantee they like u

MrKandMissy · Answer

Yes, my best friend has been a girl for the past 8 years..

RedNinja99 · Answer

90% of my friends are guys. Yes a few of them want to get with me but some of them are just wanting to be friends and I know this because its been said and no moves have been made yet I've known them for years.

NamelessStreets · Answer

My best friend is my ex-girlfriend who has now been with her current boyfriend for two years. It's not awkward and there's no residual feelings.

AMEL2332 · Answer

almost all my male friends failed 2 of them tried to rape me so fuck that they will turn on u one day just one was really great to me but he was gay

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure how to answer that. I for example have female friends, but I fancy all of them. And had something going on with one of them for a little while. So, for me, I can't think of a girl as a friend.

Ayer93 · Answer

I have friends that are girls that I chill with frequently and have friendzoned me entirely. I'm perfectly fine being just friends though.

sahas20 · Answer

I honestly am not, but if it happens eventually, it's fine, but I won't go after her looking for a friendship.

Myplace22 · Answer

Yes, men can be in it just for the friendship with no sex in return. I’ve done it plenty of times where we would just hang out as friends without any sexual issues

Taimooriasat · Answer

Thats not true i all cases but yes there. is quite a. majority of guys out there who actually do that. One just has to know the difference between a gentleman and a lustful common guy

nilsparsona · Answer

I think that's a lie as I'm friends with many girls although at the start I was pulling them 😂. But when it didn't work out I became friends with them. I also continued to be friends with them, not breaking off the friendship

BraveRecreation · Answer

Yes we do, in fact, most of my friends are girls. We just interact better.

Arrots · Answer

Yes usually girls think that men want what's between there thighs so end up with either girls trying to avoid you or one who wants to date
But Yes it's possible my best friend is a girl and we are really close but not in any sexual way so yeah

boredjon · Answer

Women make that difficult, especially sending their mixed messages. You can't be all over a guy and just expect him to want to be friends

1nittol3arn · Answer

It only works if they're not attracted to you. You can't be that selfish not to realize that. Which guy in his right mind do you think won't do that?

aloysious · Answer

Yeah I have a few friends that are girls. I’ve got no interest in dating them but we hang out all the time

StickStickity13 · Answer

We don't actively search for it. Why are women obsessed with male friends?

The1Revan · Answer

Honestly, I think yes but there is always someone deep in your brain that says "try if it would work" . If it doesn't work or you're in a good relationship then there can be good friendships.

jaysavsmoke · Answer

Those are fake guys who have to lie to talk to females and pretend to be friends

soundlessguy · Answer

Yes! I have been tryin to have more friends that are girls but they always think I want to get in their pants. I always flirt and have fun, but that’s what it is, just fun

Nik1hil · Answer

Yeah , have you ever seen a horse, being FRIENDDS with GRASS, LEAVES And FLOWER.

seagreen · Answer

Yes they are. The guys that you talk are interested in relationship not all of them are like this

pizzalovershouse · Answer

because sum guys want hook ups an others feel your guy mite get jealous

Sockertz · Answer

One of my best friends is a girl and I’m definitely not gay. You just need to find some good guys

hansukota · Answer

Yup. I really want to have some close female friends but never did

StarRift · Answer

Yes. Unfortunately, trying to stay friends can make you seem like an orbiter

jeremythedrummer · Answer

Most of my friends are female and i have no romantic interest in them. So yea it is possible

bickthegreat1997 · Answer

My best friend is a girl and she's the only one I have yet and don't really want to fuck, so yes we have friends of the female variety.

Dart99 · Answer

It depends on the guy and situation. For instance, bud of mine from work talks about going after a girl for sex being blunt about, me, I just want friends to listen to play music.

ThatGuyAlexis · Answer

In my opinion, no. I used to hang out with some really cool girls that had no damn time for boys. There's a difference between sexual intentions and friendly intentions.

Anonymous · Answer

only if the girls are ugly adn extremely fun/interesting personalities.

Anonymous · Answer

I think they can, buy the guy has to be completely unattracted to the girl. Otherwise, he'll say something stupid and thirsty, and he'll ruin the perfectly good friendship.

100lbguy · Answer

Yeah cuz that is why female friendzone also exist xD.

alibutt · Answer

95 percent guys do not like only-friendship relation with a girl.

Mrblueballs42 · Answer

Yes of course. I could ask that about the Gals do they want to be friends.

WhoDatGuy · Answer

Your not as much fun as my friends. I don't need additional friends. I need a lover!

TallGuy96 · Answer

Actually i have 3 friends who are girls, i tend to open up to them MUCH more easier than guys.

OmkarBorade · Answer

More than a gang a guy would prefer a wild and crazy girl as his partner in crime

Dxk007 · Answer

Some are but, you probably won't be able to find the right person for that

therainman · Answer

Yes, I have multiple female friends and I don't intend to make a move on anyone

Anonymous · Answer

I could only befriend a girl if we both already had someone.

Dinnye001 · Answer

Yep. I have lots of female friends. Without any kind of sexual tension.

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