Lady stop overthinking everything he says to you, I know it's hard bc you like him but overthinking almost all the time leads to rush and most likely wrong conclusions, don't think about the whole " why did he say 'oh I don't know' and not ' oh I can't' thing" there's no explanation to it that you can find here, does he fancy you? I don't know honestly I don't thinkm I DO think however that he feels attracted to you and he feels like he's kind of cheating the other person he is seeing AND THAT'S WHY he said the I don't know thing, my advice os that if you really wanna ask him out tell him that it's just as friends maybe on a group or something
I think it's hard to know based on just that comment. It could mean that he would be willing to meet you if he wasn't seeing someone but it might or might not mean that he fancies you. It could be that he just would be willing to do it as a friend. There is some chance that it could mean he would be willing to meet you as a friend even now but only if the woman he's seeing is okay with it. Or it could have just been a polite way of saying no he wasn't interested.
This is a case where the words are unclear and body language or facial expression might have helped make it a little more clear.
It is hard to tell whether or not he likes you, but I think it would be safe to say he would go hang out with you if he wasn't dating somebody. Maybe since he is in a relationship, he doesn't want to give the wrong idea and therefore doesn't want to hang out socially with a single female. Either way, I don't think you should make a move now that you know he is taken. If he is willing to step out on her for you, he'd be willing to step out on you for somebody else.
The only thing it means is that he's taken. Everything else could only be a guess instead you ask him directly
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Well again, you can't really tell as it depends. I personally feel like that I don't know is just more polite version of saying now. And we can't really know if he likes you just from this. He could have meant it in many ways. But cool that you asked a guy as a girl.
he asumed you wanted to have sex when you wanted to go out for a drink:
the term of a woman who just found an excuse to have sex with a male aka getting drunk is at play.
now you know that he is not just dating you and in respect of the other date since he's uncertain who to pick he won't have a hook up with you untill his other date fails
Same thing I said on the other one. He could just be testing the waters. Not really committed to her yet.
Perhaps he's not sure, since you've asked him if he'd go out with you for a drink and he's seeing someone maybe if he isn't then yes he'd probably go out with you why not..
Hard to make a judgement on such scant information, but based on what you said, he’s definitely interested.. follow it up...
Instead of worrying about hidden meanings, why don’t you find yourself someone who is single and has time for you?
4 not enough information about whether he likes you
He def looked his girlfriend tho
Or option 4, he might/might not fancy you but we can't look in his head, so we assume that he was just being polite.
He will go out with but understand you are his side chick.
If he would have nothing to do he would've go out with you. But as you don't post your pic, you're probably not a cherry on a cake
Lol... god may save u from ur guys. Don't u have anything better to do without f@@king or haunting a man. It will come naturally... stop describing his everything. It might be disturbing.
I mean, going out for a drink with someone in a relationship doesn't mean anything. It can be just 2 people hanging out. There should be ground rules and self-control though.
Probably if he wasn't seein somebody he may have taken you up on that offer.. Lol..
ok ur clearly obsessed with this guy and need to move on he has a girlfriend ur not gonna be his girlfriend anytime soon so move on with ur life
He meant he will go out with u but nt as a boyfriend. But as a friend. If he wanted something to happen, he wouldn't have mentioned the girl. And he didn't wanted to hang around he wouldn't have told u about her either.
Depends on what he means by SEE. He did say I don't know, but then kids today are weird
I'd find someone else hun this has a lot of red flags and will not end good.
He might like you he might not but at least he was upfront.
It means he was trying to be nice. Would he go out with you? Maybe. But I think he didn’t say no to try and not sound mean.
2 reasons
First one he's likes to go with you and just teasing you by saying that way
Second one he's just spending with you unless he find someone
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