Does he miss me? Will he start missing me if I ignore him?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend were dating for 2 years. we broke up about 2 months ago (mutual) because we were starting college and he had too much to deal with. 2 weeks later he already has a girlfriend and its my best friend (well, ex-best friend). I was so furious and couldn't believe he was just over me that quickly. I gave up and gave him space for a little over a month we didn't speak but now he texted me last week and tried to see how I was but I was pretty cold towards him, as much as I wanted to just talk to him about everything for hours. after that I thought he got the point that I didn't wanna talk(because he said he didn't wanna be friends yet) and 4 days later he texted me again. this time I didn't answer, I'm not sure if I should because he's still with his rebound and I don't want to let him have both of us in his life. I miss him and I just want to know if him texting me is a sign of him realizing his mistake with his rebound and he's stating to miss me?

[beautifuldirtyrich]

Well first off if he started dating your best friend after only 2 weeks I hate to tell you this but they were talking before the two of you broke up. And when I say "talking" lets just say that is an open word. But you have done a very good thing in ignoring him and not being friends with her. Sweetie you need to let this one go. I know it hurts and it feels wrong not to talk to him. But that is just hurt feelings talking. And that feeling will go away soon, I promise.

(If I were you I would be more hurt over your friend doing that to you than some jerk off man. always remember chicks before d***s lol)

As far as him missing you I would say yes most likely. But ah remember the way men miss us is totally different from the way that we miss them. When we miss them it kills us they captivate our minds and tears, and depression and chocolate rule our worlds. But when they miss us it just might be a simple "oh, I haven't seen her in a min wonder ho she is?" You see what I mean? What ends tares our world up might only cross their mind for a second.

So that's when you have to ask yourelf you or him? and you will make a decision.

Good luck!

[missstacey14356]

First of I'm glad your not friends with that girl anymore, second he's a jerk honestly and yeah of course he misses you if he's trying to contact you over and over again but you really shouldn't even consider giving him the time of day as much as you miss him. He had no respect for you if he ever truley cared about you to go with your best friend. He doesn't care for boundries. You deserve better and I'm sure you know that.

[Jane_]

Hes is trying to make contact with you, that's good.

Also, he is such an asshole, you should just forget him. He shouldn't be dating your best friend.

But I do think that he is starting to miss you.

If he will want to take you back, make him work for it real hard.

Honey, you deserve so much more than him.

[Drewski]

Dating someone for 2 years and then dating there best friend right after that is a pretty awful thing to do to someone. Especially if it was someone you cared about. He might want to be friends or regret his decision but is that really someone that you would want to be with? Knowing what he did to you? It is completely normal to miss him though and if you choose to you can move on with your life and be perfectly happy without him.

[foolycooly1001]

i don't know if he is missing you, but ignoring him probably won't help

[cazz1974]

Two years is a long time and you get used to them being around. But your ex has crossed a sacred line that he shouldn't of by dating your friend. I think personally you should put this guy on the back burner, go to college and have a few dates with some sexy guys from college. Beleive me he will fade into the distance as you realize that he has done a bed thing their. I wouldn't trust this guy again.

[Anonymous]

If you ignor him he will hate you. Think your immature. It might not be meant to be.

[Kathisfunny]

yes, he's still trying to keep in touch, no doubt.