Today we were chatting about school stuff and he suddenly asks me if he can ask me something personal. So he was saying that he wants to cut off a 5 year old female friend from his life whom he doesn't like talking to anymore. He wanted my advice as to whether he'll end up regretting it or he should just go ahead and do it.
I'm surprised how he's suddenly gotten so comfortable with me? 😅 He always seems shy and awkward in person.
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Ooof. Tough one. In this case, it's easy go see why you'd be unsure. Moat people think we're attempting a relationship at this point. Not true, not not false either.
Most guys want to be with a best friend. I have a heirarchy of the different levels 2 people can have. First you're Acquaintences, then friends. Then you start dating. Next is best friends. (Some skip right to best friends) most people don't realize it, but dating is essentially the same as hanging out, regardless of what stipulations or limita you put on it. If you are getting to know someone, and enjoy spending time with them, it's essentially a date. The only thing that makes it different is if it's romantic or not.
Anyway, after that is when you are a couple. Then marriage of course, or life partners.
Most friends don't talk about that stuff, but if you do, that means you are close friends, and can even be considered best friends.
But in the end, the onyl thing that matters is your own thoughts and opinions. Don't think much of it AT ALL. Go with the flow. Help him out. Talk and get closer. Offer advice when you can. See what happens. THAT'S THE EXCITING PART OF LIFE! No matter how much you or I analyze it, we can't predict the outcome. It's best to enjoy the smooth flow, and go with the tide. See what happens, learn to improvise. Don't put labels on it, and don't overanalyze your relationships. See where life takes you, snd if you like where it's going, and like the type of person he is, then go with it! Good luck#