Do guys actually get intimidated by girls? (Page 4)

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almost my entire life, i feel like i haven't gotten an excessive amount of attention from guys. i've had a three boyfriends (i'm 19 now), but other than that, that's pretty much the extent of it. i've always been told that it's because guys are "intimidated of me"- but is that really true? i feel like i'm a pretty nice and approachable girl! do guys actually get intimidated by girls?

davidckuhn · Answer

I dont get scared. And I won't  If a girl is to approach me. I will be open to it. And I will be there for her if she wants to be in a relationship.  But I'd give it up to her.

icare370 · Answer

I'm very anti-social, however i find it a bit intimidating when starting to talk to a girl. Later on its fine. Also, its much easier talking to guys in general.

Daniel3035 · Answer

Intimidated no do girls yes every girl I see actually.  More than anything I get angry because I can tell she’s one those two faced psycos who like to destry people lives.

HelloMyNameizChris · Answer

I think a lot of guys are scared because they either don't know what the girls feels about him or because we simply don't know or completely understand what women want.

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

If girls are really pretty and look very sweet and kind, I ultimatly am sure that I could never give them anything as they are way too beautiful and would just ignore me... and yes... especially me...

MarilynMansonsSlvt · Answer

Yeah, I get called intimidating as well. xx ~ Mrs Manson

curlybrookes · Answer

Shoot, I’m intimidated by guys and I’m a girl. I’m sure there are guys who are the same way.

jmr204 · Answer

Hell yes, I do what makes you think we don’t is the real question lol

catmandoes · Answer

I never get intimidated by girls but I think a lot of guys do.

tainor · Answer

How do you mean intimidated? Because of looks or if a girl would threaten me?

Raha17 · Answer

I get a notification when sb comments on this post😐 why and how can i make it stop?

Likes2drive · Answer

Maybe you look so attractive they don’t think they have a chance

Rambler221 · Answer

Well, some men definitely. At least at first. But that wouldn't stop me from talking to the person completely... Don't worry though. 19, 3 boyfriends, 15 and nothing, seen some 20, 30, 40 yr olds still nothing. You are doing more than fine.

000_000 · Answer

I think that kind of intimidation is intertwined with general social anxiety. It’s not something that happens to everybody but it for sure happens

ng210821 · Answer

No. Guys don't know how to talk to women anymore, and ladies don't know a good guy if he was delivered in an Amazon package.

whitehide · Answer

Depends on the situation. If a girl came at me with a knife, or something like that, I might be a little intimidated

Partywithtom · Answer

Oooooo yes. I can't even imagine today especially. Guys are told that anything and everything they do constitutes rape.

_dardorsama_ · Answer

Some girls are intimidating We might not see it at the beginning of the relationship but over time it becomes clear

winterfox10 · Answer

It’s easy to be intimidated by a girl, especially if she just isn’t super outgoing, if that makes any sense?

Anonymous · Answer

Three boyfriends is a pretty hefty number of boyfriends for being just 19. It sounds like your doing just fine baby cakes. I'm 24 and have only had one girlfriend, and I'm the most approachable guy in the world! Lol

KingAra3 · Answer

Sometimes guys get scared of really attractive girls or girls that carry themselves in a really strong manner because they'll feel unworthy in a sense

xyz94 · Answer

Definitely. Guys can be nervous or anxious around women, especially if they either like a woman or they feel insecure.

Malik00 · Answer

Yes men are intimidated by women mostly because they don't know if the women actually care about them or are just using them for a free ride

Unit1 · Answer

Nein. At least I am not. However women in the east fear me 🤷 I'd blame it on the cultural mentality difference but I'm not going to conform.

Mitchbitten · Answer

It's down to the individual but personally some girls can be intimidating but I don't get intimidated by conversation more intimidated by my own personal flaws

walkerwhynot960 · Answer

When u R ready for a real man and r approached by one he will see that in you and you both if willing could have a great time getting to know one another

Sashwadh · Answer

Guys with lower self confidence, or who do not often talk to girls, could find it intimidating to be in the presence of girls who are popular, very good looking, or have a certain aura around them... This is what I think

paolidark · Answer

no we dont but we are because if they try tohit us we can't do nothin

Sabrina_gomez · Answer

Good question!! I wanna know why guys are so scared to come up to me too :/

Ac0LyT3 · Answer

The basis of guys approaching girls is that girls are intimidating.

Dre_808 · Answer

Yes this does happen. Especially if the guy thinks the girl is out of his league.

wubbalubba_dubdub · Answer

It actually depends. Can you pls tell me the context of intimidation?

Anonymous · Answer

People keep using that word “intimidated” but it never sticks. Try a different word. 3 boyfriends by 19 does not sound like you don’t get a lot of attention.

Anonymous · Answer

I could never know the answer. I'm approachable and sympathetic but never got a boyfriend and got rejected pretty often.

nopnop · Answer

Yes. When the girl matters to us a lot or we don't want to lose her.
In your case I don't think it's your fault... It's not about intimidation but about guts in boys. They must have the audacity to ask you out.

RobLovesDemi19771992 · Answer

Hell yes they do guys are at risk of getting shot down when approaching an attractive woman

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Only the girls with big knives in their hands intimidate me. You don't seem to be one of them :)

larry69 · Answer

Its true. Women are selective and i guess guys fear rejection

Anonymous · Answer

No, most guys are never intimidated by girls, but it's a comforting lie that girls are happy to believe.

GoldenFumeGamer · Answer

I know I do, because there are tons of factors that play into intimation... Especially with wemon

Aenetoo · Answer

Yep. I'm one of them. I'm easily intimidated by feminine beauty. But I'm trying to do better.

Locha037 · Answer

Only those who are of a weak disposition are likely to be intimidated - otherwise (within my circle) most guys are not intimidated

Gnome0 · Answer

Getting the courage to approach a woman and ask her out takes a lot. The act of asking out itself is intimidating.

Jeep_lover · Answer

Sometimes because beautiful girls are so stereotype that some guys find it hard to believe that a girl like you would go out with them.

Tomsta · Answer

Depends on what kind of persona your giving off. If your coming across as condescending or a bitch yeah no wonder why people dont approach you

dae07102 · Answer

Guys can be intimidated by girls, yes. Usually when I get intimidated, it's because I pissed them off.

Tej05 · Answer

If a guy is intimated it has nothing to do with you they just don't believe they have the right amount of confidence to say the right things

Shogun48 · Answer

Yes definitely! girls are scary to approach sometimes even if you aren't, especially if you are attractive

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, personally there are just some girls that are so good looking that i'll feel intimidated by them but it's not like I don't want to talk with them, it's just that I'll be too nervous to or I'll feel like I'll just get instantly shot down

giovannimontolivo · Answer

Are you super hot? If yes, then most beta weak males are too scared to hit on you or they'll just be "friends" with you.

Northern_star · Answer

dear, we can't get intimidated once we reach 30. its not complicated like that, search for causation and use Occams razor.

LegateLanius · Answer

Criminey, every day with this "do girls intimidate guys" shit. No they don't. More than likely, they don't find you attractive.

dylanskrtskrt · Answer

If you are beautiful to others often that has something to do with guys being intimidated of girls. Often if a boy has a crush he could feel worried and doesn’t wanna chance you away

trip7 · Answer

For some maybe but not all. Three is a good number and dosent really put the atmosphere of you are scaring people away. You might just give a vibe they dont have a chance, many factors.

Loki1973 · Answer

If people tell you that, they are most likely right. I personally really like that. Girls should be just as fierce as guys. For me it's a challenge. And it makes for the best sex ever!

Silver158 · Answer

depends. there's probably only 1 girl I actually know that makes me nervous. but there's other reasons to be intimidated by a girl other than just liking them

krity · Answer

Yes - the prettier the girl the more intimidated a guy might be. We doubt if we might have a shot with someone really gorgeous!  I've never been intimidated for any other reason though

Anonymous · Answer

Guys are intimidated by : very beautiful women Very tall women And very intelligent/outspoken females

Ellie15 · Answer

Of course they do, they change everything they do to try and impress us

sonfking · Answer

It may not be because of that, your reaction sometimes does

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