He says I'm acting "different"... wtf?

[Anonymous]

what is THAT supposed to mean? I have not changed my personality at all... besides becoming more headstrong in college... there is something going on with his family (besides his parents going through a nasty divorce) and when we are supposed to hang out its OK, when? one minute and then "I cant" the next.

I just don't want to be kept in the dark and be walked all over and stood up... I care about my boyfriend. I want to support him through this. I don't think I'm being selfish... I know sh*t is going down and I just want to help him get out of the house... which my mom is telling me to do because her parents went through this and it was her stubborn LETS GO friends that helped her through it...

Can someone please tell me what the hell is going on and give me some incite? Am I really screwing things up here? I'm really nervous. I really like this guy.

[ladsin]

your mothers advice might not help him, everyone reacts to that situation differently... maybe be open to him, and accepting that he is going through a troubled time right now?

[Asker]

I have accepted it... but I do have the LETS GO attitude... I just don't know what to do now

[ladsin]

like I said maybe that's not the attitude he wants right now, and if yall have conflicting interests maybe you wanna hold back on the relationship for a while...