Boyfriend asking another girl about boobs?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend was talking with a girl he’s been friends with and he noticed one day while passing by that she wasn’t wearing a bra so he proceeds to text her saying he can see her nips and then asks her about her breast sizing before she got her boob job.. (he’s not into fake boobs) but I’m curious if I have reason to be mad about this or just let it go? I feel like he shouldn’t care to talk to her about her boobs if she’s just a friend but I’m not sure if I’m overreacting? Since I don’t talk with my male friends about my breasts and I don’t think they care to hear about it either. Please give feedback about this.

[Aysen]

Talking about the private details of a woman's breasts that's not your partner's is rather inappropriate for a relationship considering that part of the female body isn't something all woman are going to expose to anyone they meet; it's rather intimate. That would be like if my girlfriend was asking about her guy friend's penis size and seeing the bulge of it through his pants which would make me feel uncomfortable to say the least. Even though this spiked his curiosity, let him know you don't appreciate him talking about this kind of conversation with another woman to him with a warning so he doesn't do it again. You have every right to be mad at him for getting curious about something this personal and sexual that's not involving you. If he was single, it wouldn't matter but since he's in a relationship with you, there are boundaries to set so no one gets emotionally hurt here.

[Logorithim]

he shouldn't have asked her that, but you should let it go.

[Asker]

Should I bring it up to him? I feel like if she was one of his ugly friends he wouldn’t care to talk about their breasts

[Logorithim]

I think you should let it go because he didn't have bad intent and she a friend of his, so he probably thought it was OK to ask something he would not have asked a girl who wasn't a friend.

[Киттйлинк]

Lol @not into fake boobs...
men like boobs period! Fake or not is irrelevant... they just say they don’t like fake but once it’s in their face they don’t care at all.., it’s boobs! Men are liars. They also prefer you to say they are real even if they are fake cause it turns them more on and helps them win their “I don’t like fake boobs” line...

What’s the need to have to message anybody about this unless they are clearly interested... especially when already in a relationship.. that’s extremely disrespectful. I would not be with someone like that. No need for an argument or questioning...
I’d just leave him.

[Secret6620]

You definitely have a reason to be mad. He needs boundaries

[Asker]

Thank you

[ShortCircuit]

Ask him if he would be mad if you noticed that a guy wasn't wearing underwear, so you texted him saying you could see his dickprint and asked him what size he was. If he says yes, then you get to be mad because that would make him a hypocrite.

[Red_Arrow]

You are overreacting. She is a friend of his that he felt comfortable asking about something he was curious about. If it bothers you, nicely mention that to him. But it really was not out of line.

[Anonymous]

How close of friends are they? Also, how big did she go with her boob job? Sounds like she enjoys the attention if she went so far as to get a boob job and now goes around braless and nipping out. Does she have a man?

[Furuok]

Breasts are important, fake breasts are meant to be perfect. Please handle with care. I prefer the rough stuff so I stray from fake breast although they are perfect!

[bush123]

no ur not overreacting if my boyfriend did that then i would be fuming why tf would he be so interested in her boobs if she's ONLY his friend?

[Asker]

That’s what I’m wondering.. I feel like my male friends don’t care to hear about my boobs

[bush123]

if they have a girlfriend their not suppose to be SO INTERESTED in the friends boobs?

[bestone]

I feel like he didn't like your boobs or it wouldn't be more satisfactory

[worldscolide]

He might just be curious if that's all he asked

[Asker]

That is all he asked but he talks to her all day almost everyday. I’m not sure if I should bring it up to him or just blow it off... what do you think?

[worldscolide]

Ok that's not cool. Do you know the nature of their conversations? Is it flirting or just friendly

[Supersexymixer]

Yeah what is her size and what is yours x

[Nachowedgie]

You're overreacting