Anyone getting tired of trying to find a girl?

[Buccaneersfan12]

Honestly it's mentally exhausting trying to get a girlfriend. I just feel like girls are being dumb or something lol.

Right now I kind of feel like giving up for a while and just being by myself.

Anyone been in this situation before?

[Yeahhbro]

I think its because you are investing too much effort on them, even you say so yourself, you are exhausted doing it!. What your problem is, is that you are given them everything that they want, when they want it. You also gotta make them work for you, you know!. Girls that work for you like, others that do not do it are just attention whores, gold diggers, or princesses that want everything done for them. If they play hard to get, do it to them to you know!. If they make you jealous do it too, but you still gotta communicate though like a friend or like a potential partner, you gotta call on her bluff or play her little games back. This saying goes well enough here "Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer". Play games with her, but make sure you do it in a friendly, not caring way and still joke with her and be friendly, trust me it will drive her insane!.

[Buccaneersfan12]

i don't think I'm putting too much effort. Sure, I think about it a lot. But I don't hit on girls every day until something clicks lol

[Littletad]

I gave it my absolute best. All the activities, the attention, the interest; you name it I did it. And yet it wasn't enough. The thing is, sometimes we just have the worst of luck. I've seen the dark side of dating. I've learned that sometimes, some people just aren't meant to find someone.

But I'll say this. I've rarely seen anyone disappointed who didn't give up in the end. Those that never found anyone, usually gave up before they could take another rejection. If you work hard at your goals, and you never give up, your chances of finding someone are greater than sitting around moping or whining that someone didn't notice you or come to you.

[lost_soul]

yeah, I feel I've had enough aswell

except, I don't really know how to not become attracted to guys, its been years since there wasn't someone on my mind. I actually remembered what I daydreamed about before guys haha

but yeah, I've had enough 'looking' just now

[Buccaneersfan12]

same here. While I say I won't be looking for girls, I always have 1 or 2 on my mind lol. I can't help it!

[prettygirly91]

It's the same with me with guys :/ but with me though, they pretend that they're into me at first and then they start to play mind games:/ I don't have time for that :/ I know what you mean though. I'm sure a great girl will come around for you

[tokioangel95]

I have been single for a while now, and its hard to find a man. You don't need to change youself for anyone.

[Jtmatt]

Buccaneersfan12, I am in the exact same situation right now. My problem is not getting girls, but it is finding a real women, a quality woman...that has her head on her shoulders, and that can be there for me when I really need help. I also feel that girls are being very odd.

I basically just gave up and I am going to be by myself for a long time. I think we guys need to just focus on making money, and making it big and successful instead of chasing women.

Now for me, I do not mind being friends or business partners with women (girls) that may not like me, but dating and relationships...naw...not really worth it. However, by doing that...I have been approached by more older, more successful women (30 - 40's) then women between 18-23.

Hope that helps a bit man.

[SunDevil2010]

I feel like I could be all of that, but no guy I find seems to care... It's like that isn't what they want.

[Jtmatt]

I am 100% sure you can, and I can guarantee that there are men looking for what I had said. You will be found by someone special, that will care :)

[cacapisu]

I know many people in this situation, including myself.

You don't have to change yourself, you just have to learn to love yourself, take care of yourself and know that you have value.

In today's society it's all about what people think of you, not what you are. Like lots of guys, some girls are plain dumb, but there are also smart girls out there that don't think with their p*ssy.

Play with your image ;)

[ProfessionalLovers]

Dude, I know the feeling. I find it nearly impossible to find a genuinely nice girl that I'm attracted to (and her to me) and compatible with.

Thank God for xbox.

[AmazingParkour]

I've been there, I know how it is.

Instead of building a relationship with another girl, focus on building one with yourself first...because you're gonna be living with yourself for the rest of your life, why not get to know yourself before getting a girl?

[elliotness]

Honestly I'm just tired of the antisocial culture I see around me. Women apparently already have enough friends so making contact or conversation is too much of a chore. The people in this country have gotten way too picky about who qualifies to be in their social circle and it's biting them in the ass in terms of emotional development. I guess what I'm getting at is maybe the women around you aren't mentally mature enough.

[micricjac]

its not an easy world out there and you may have forgot that your looking for that one girl out of many which is why is so hard but it will be rewarding at the end

be yourself you don't have to go looking to find her

[Rated_R]

Yes been there and still there. I want one to find me and take me away from the darkness of the abyss that I live in.

[socalgamehater2006]

I've been tired for years now but unfortuneately anything worth having never comes easy, and that only applies to us guys, well, mainly.

[Roanna]

Having the attitude that girls are generally "dumb" is probably the reason you can't find anyone. We women can sense that kind of thing a mile away. Look for someone with common interests who you can respect.

[alltheabove1212]

lol how can you "sense" that?

[FirstLastOnly]

Being yourself is the best way to find someone worthwhile anyway, so go for it.

[diamond3]

if you have standards then yes it will be hard to find a good women..

[Jtmatt]

I can bet his standards are very, very modest. He may not want to lower his standards anymore than he has...that is probably why he is reaching out to us for answers.

[diamond3]

i don't think he should lower his standards.. what I am saying is a person with standards are going to have a harder time finding the right person. Do not give up. it will take time to find that right girl.. don't lower yourself

[Anonymous]

If you can't get a girlfriend get a boyfriend, can't get a boyfriend get a dog don't like dogs get a cat ect.

[Unersheep]

I know so many guys in your situation.

[bunny420]

Let the bitches come to you.

[Anonymous]

i haven't found a guy yet either buddy