I have a tendency to be shy myself and regrettably am constantly afraid to make the first move. Mostly because I usually end up saying something really stupid. Now for me, if something works, don't mess with it. A routine and pattern is predictable and safe. Getting comfortable and feeling safe is more important to shy guys then most other types of guys. I also have a tendency to take things much slower then most other people. I'll let my guard down a little at a time as I get to know someone better and feel I can trust them. I think that for some shy guys, letting the woman take control in some areas relieves them of the pressure of making a horrific mistake that ends the world. I think the most important thing to keep in mind is this; how do you feel when your with him? Is he making you happy? Hugs might be a good way to tell how things are going. The longer the hug, the more he doesn't want to be away from you. You could also try sharing something small with him, maybe something from your childhood that is funny or interesting. Lead by example and it's possible eventually he will start to take a little more control.
Hope this helps. :)
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mabye or mabye not he might still like you put not that much or he just likes to sit back and relax. so one day rent a nice movie no chick flick and watch it with him in the comfort of his own home.
He's too shy or not ready.
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