Girls, does a emasculated man turn you the hell off?

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KaitieSearching · Accepted Answer

Well yes, but the picture is all wrong. I mean the first guy, yeah... I would be uncomfortable around and all that, but the crying guy? That’s not emasculating. Firstly, men don’t exist just to cater to my every fancy at all times. When I see a man cry, especially like that guy is crying, I’m not turned on by it, but I’m not less attracted to him either. We don’t always see the world through a sexual lens. I want to take care of that guy. I want to make him feel better. Men don’t cry as much as women, so what hell hole just opened up underneath him?
I don’t exist just to be pleased or disappointed by men. Sometimes I exist to serve them. Sometimes it’s about what I can do for you and not what you can do for me. I feel for that guy whose mother just died or wife just left him, or house just burned down with his dog inside. There’s grief in that guy’s posture. What kind of person sees that and thinks:”Wow, so unattractive, what’s he thinking, crying like that?”

Hurlyburly · Accepted Answer

What do you mean by emasculated? A man who's not afraid to talk about his fears and worries me? A good thing. A man thats sharing household responsibilities with me? A REALLY good thing.
A man who's afraid of those things because it'd be "emasculating"? Yep, that's a big big turn off 😂😂

MajesticTwelve · Accepted Answer

Yes. Completely. If I wanted to date a woman with a penis, I'd be a lesbian and ask for a strap on.
You can be soft, and have a sensitive side, no problem, but be a man. If I challenge you? Put me in my place. If you don't do that, I'll lose respect for you and our relationship will end.

hollybiaf · Accepted Answer

I think emasculated men are nothing to shy away from. The whole "be a man" act i find rather pathetic. I believe it takes true men to steer away from toxic masculinity and be themselves regardless of those around them. It takes more courage and strength than any "macho" man in my opinion

CoffeeWC · Accepted Answer

The way we raise men today results in them becoming more feminine. This contributes to a lot of men who have social anxiety, depression and insecurities. It's the reason why less men want to take charge. Men want to be the ones protected instead of doing the protecting. Boys generally do a worse job in school because they don't learn the same way girls do. These are biological facts, and teachers and parents are failing their boys. The feminist movement has convinced people that it's not okay for men to take on masculine roles, and has made it undesirable for them.

LokiWhite · Accepted Answer

Most women I know love if their man tidies up the house or takes the kids to preschool or does the dishes or talks about their emotions. The only people against that are insecure dudes. Most men, real men, can do all of those things and not feel any less of a man for doing them.

Prettysammie · Answer

Depends on what you mean by emasculated. A macho jerk who won’t do dishes or help around the house isn’t sexy. Neither is a guy who can’t cry when real tragedy happens.

I wouldn’t want my guy to wear a dress while doing the dishes though. And they guy crying is hopefully doing it for a good reason and not because someone didn’t like the cookies he made.

LuWe22 · Answer

A man that helps around the house is not emasculated. A man that shows feelings is also not emasculated. Being a real man is standing up to themself and is to be confident. A real man is not afraid to cook, clean and help around the house. A real man shows his feelings without worrying to appear soft. A real man does not care what other man say about him or what other man see as manly. He don´t need their approval.

carameltwin · Answer

No, because why should I care about things like masculinity or femininity? Just let the person be themselves, and leave it at that.

IceCastles · Answer

I kinda like my men manly. I dated a guy who was in the mirror more than me and used up a lot of my haircare products, including perms and texturizers. Had real issue with this as the haircare products I use are not cheap.

Inquisidor · Answer

No, and those females who marry effeminate cuckolds, they get usually bored soon, and guess who they go to find... THE MACHO.

Mädchen · Answer

Him crying or cleaning wouldn't turn me off. Him wearing dresses would though

AngelLily · Answer

Definitely a turn off but crying for a good reason is all right.

AmandaYVR · Answer

This is a terrible question. I don't know where it comes from, where your head is at, but I think you're looking at life from the from angle. This should not even be a question.

Alpha09 · Answer

A man who doesn't think he's to good to do some dishes, or cry once in a while because he's secure showing emotion is a turn on.

datgirl · Answer

Yes. I like manly macho men, but with a soft and sensitive side 😍😍. Its okay for a man to cry for a valid reason

Ninjazzed · Answer

As long as he’s somewhat distinguishable.. Large adam’s apple, broad chest/shoulders, facial hair, low-pitched voice, etc then I’m good.

Mimi93 · Answer

To answer your question yes but horrible pic examples.

Beanie10 · Answer

Yes. I’m not a lesbian and not attracted to girly men.

Shuri · Answer

Yes, but I don't really get the photos. A man cleaning or crying isn't emasculating.

KeniKeni · Answer

Yes it does. But let's make one thing straight, I've never and will never find a man crying emasculating.

ChefCurry · Answer

Once my female co worker told me about how her husband started crying, and she told me she thought it was pathetic. Then we had sex in her car. Yes women hate it.

AshleyMadison00 · Answer

Doing dishes hell no more sexy when u can help around house

lava3 · Answer

Not really but if they are extremely emasculated like cry over anything then yes it would

GhettoGirl · Answer

Absolutely it's a turn off.

MrsDahmer · Answer

I don't understand what you mean here but... I guess not.

xKatAttackx · Answer

Is the first guy wearing a dress? I'm not judging, but I can't really tell.

Anonymous · Answer

No... A soyboy beta male who only claims to be a feminist to try and get laid in college turns me off

MlleCake · Answer

I have never met an emasculated man.

Jansetta · Answer

Horrible choice of pics

LuvAsh · Answer

Yes.

namelessyoungold · Answer

Guys, what's masculinity really?

Dav1ss · Answer

They can do

kayaleyla285 · Answer

Not really

Wowgirl30q · Answer

Yes.

Aphrodite801 · Answer

No such thing

mermaidia_lol · Answer

Kinda.

BlackMex · Answer

Nope

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