You then later find out that he used to hold hands with another guy, used to completely fine with hugging other guys when he was younger, and was very open minded when it came to people with disabilities, but then you found out he was bullied in school. You notice cuts on his wrists but he says they are nothing
If they mean a lot to you anything should not matter. People are the way they are mainly because of things that happen to them. Understand them and that should help you make a more understanding decision.
If my girlfriend was homophobic I would say I will break up if they don't change their point of view and help them do so. A friend I have more slack with, but they would not be a close friend that is for sure.
Trans are good... so a female can have sex with shemale... without any doubts to others... and they enjoy too... shemales are awesome
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I pretty much feel the same way. that said, I don't not talk to people because of their sexual orientation. Also, disliking trans wouldn't be homophobia..
Have to agree. It's also a bit extreme to be against guys hugging. Why put limits on your expression with people who are there for you? Sounds like someone who just doesn't want to understand others
Well I'm bisexual and my dad's homophobic, he says he ain't but he is. I can tell. My boyfriend knows he don't care. My friends know and half of them are pan trans bi gay and lesbian
I'm okay if I had a friend who didn't think fond of homosexuals. If my friend attacked them and bullied them, then I'm not okay with that but simply wishing they would receive salvation and deliverance from homosexuality is not being rude or mean.
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Nothing, we live in democracy, he has a right to his private opinion.
I wouldn’t really bother with the friendship and if it was my boyfriend if you’re hateful to a group of people it’s not in my best interest to date you
If I couldn't convince her that's just no future for us. Homophobic people have usually more idiotic ideologies. Well I would never be in relationship with that person in the first place.
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I would hope to have figured that out before they became my girlfriend. I'd probably leave them.
Homophobia/biphobia are stupid and I would call them out on it.
Transphobia is more understandable since it is clearly a mental illness and they are trying to force their skewed version of reality on everyone else.
I can’t date someone that dumb
You then later find out that he used to hold hands with another guy, used to completely fine with hugging other guys when he was younger, and was very open minded when it came to people with disabilities, but then you found out he was bullied in school. You notice cuts on his wrists but he says they are nothing
I am not qualified to deal with that. I’d politely suggest he get therapy. I wouldn’t date him personally. Maybe some women could though.
Lol do you feel any differently about him now
I still don’t support being bigoted. Getting bullied isn’t an excuse to be like that.
True true
answer this please
Do you think this is rape? ↗
If they mean a lot to you anything should not matter. People are the way they are mainly because of things that happen to them. Understand them and that should help you make a more understanding decision.
I'd buy him a male prostitute so he could finally come to terms with his true self :).
He tells you that he's not interested in sex with other men, but he'd like for you to finger his butthole
Maybe I'd strap one on for my closeted homosexual boyfriend. I'm a good girlfriend :)
Trans are delusional... not hugging men is a little weird but whatever
We are no longer friends. He is a jerk who isn’t respectful of other people existing as they are.
If my girlfriend was homophobic I would say I will break up if they don't change their point of view and help them do so. A friend I have more slack with, but they would not be a close friend that is for sure.
Trans are good... so a female can have sex with shemale... without any doubts to others... and they enjoy too... shemales are awesome
I pretty much feel the same way. that said, I don't not talk to people because of their sexual orientation.
Also, disliking trans wouldn't be homophobia..
Dump him. He's someone who isn't tolerant of other people and I doubt he's tolerant to people of mixed ethnicities who are heterosexual.
Dump his sorry ass. I have a gay brother and my uncle is married to a man. It won't work out. :')
Have to agree. It's also a bit extreme to be against guys hugging. Why put limits on your expression with people who are there for you?
Sounds like someone who just doesn't want to understand others
Well I'm bisexual and my dad's homophobic, he says he ain't but he is. I can tell. My boyfriend knows he don't care. My friends know and half of them are pan trans bi gay and lesbian
I'm okay if I had a friend who didn't think fond of homosexuals. If my friend attacked them and bullied them, then I'm not okay with that but simply wishing they would receive salvation and deliverance from homosexuality is not being rude or mean.
Nothing, we live in democracy, he has a right to his private opinion.
Just have a conversation with him about it and ask him why he feels and thinks the way he does.
that would be my bf/friend for life cause we share the same mind about this topic , completly abnormal and gross honestly
I wouldn’t really bother with the friendship and if it was my boyfriend if you’re hateful to a group of people it’s not in my best interest to date you
If I couldn't convince her that's just no future for us. Homophobic people have usually more idiotic ideologies. Well I would never be in relationship with that person in the first place.
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