As long as she isn't showing too much then it wouldn't matter to me. Too much being like half her boobs hanging out and super short shorts that should be classified as underwear then it doesn't matter. I'd actually like to show her off to a degree.
Depends on what she is wearing, where we are going and what we are doing. I can ask her. But she is free to make her own decisions. Which I am free to respond the way I want too (e. i. call off the event, start an argument, etc..)
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I dress how I please. My boyfriend would never make me change from that. We are both naturists, but generally, I never chose to wear revealing clothes.
I wouldn't if it were up to me, but I know most women want to be told what to do for some reason, so I guess I have to think of some things that bother me.
Setting rules is controlling and abusive let alone showing not only a lack of trust but a man’s insecurity. If you’re in this type of relationship PLEASE LEAVE AND GET OUT NOW ITS NOT HEALTHY
I didn’t say there weren’t common decency things in relationships, and if a man does that you shouldn’t be with him anyways. The point is when it goes beyond basic relationship understandings, that’s when the problem starts. For example, saying “you can’t wear x, y, z” is controlling.
But that's my point, women flirt with clothing, namely revealing clothing. Its goal is to get the guy to notice her and make a move. So when a woman goes out while wearing revealing clothing she is saying to every single man she comes across that she is single and looking because that is the message she is conveying (whether or not she thinks so is irrelevant, this is what is happening). I think that's really disrespectful and it isn't any different then a guy flirting with another woman, he can claim he isn't going to do anything that he is not going to cheat or what have you and it might be true but its incredibly disrespectful to your partner when you do that. Not saying any man can control what you wear but if your priority is showing off your tits or ass and not about respecting the relationship, well then he has no reason to be with you because clearly you've already prioritized the relationship beneath that of the male attention you get from others rather then him (again, you can argue that this isn't what a woman does when she reveals as much skin as possible (sexual), when she wears clothing designed specifically to accent her secondary sexual characteristics (again, sexual) or the makeup she wears that is by its design meant to mimic sexual arousal (blush, and lip stick to make the lips look fuller and flushed etc.).
I've never had any interest in setting some kind of rule about the way she dresses. I mean unless it's like, sexy passed the point of being socially appropriate.
I have made only one rule (and she agrees to it) that too much revealing clothes or mini skirt be avoided in public places, however, it is OK going to small, limited and frank gatherings.
No rules but I would hope the woman I am with would have the common courtesy to know not to bring skin attention to other men and want to dress modestly. I'd leave it up to her.
No but if she started to dress in a way that either offended or appalled me, I would just end the relationship. I don't even know if I would state the reason other that I wasn't into her anymore.
Not really, except that I'd be hugely embarrassed if she wore super revealing clothing in public and if she wore thongs or any such I'd break up with her immediately.
normally im happy that the girl im with dresses how she wants but once she was wearing a t shirt without a bra showing her nipples and the outline of her breasts. I was mostly disturbed by the way guys were looking at her
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As long as she isn't showing too much then it wouldn't matter to me. Too much being like half her boobs hanging out and super short shorts that should be classified as underwear then it doesn't matter. I'd actually like to show her off to a degree.
Depends on what she is wearing, where we are going and what we are doing. I can ask her. But she is free to make her own decisions. Which I am free to respond the way I want too (e. i. call off the event, start an argument, etc..)
I dress how I please. My boyfriend would never make me change from that. We are both naturists, but generally, I never chose to wear revealing clothes.
I wouldn't set rules but I also wouldn't date someone that dressed in a trashy manner anyway.
I wouldn't if it were up to me, but I know most women want to be told what to do for some reason, so I guess I have to think of some things that bother me.
Setting rules is controlling and abusive let alone showing not only a lack of trust but a man’s insecurity. If you’re in this type of relationship PLEASE LEAVE AND GET OUT NOW ITS NOT HEALTHY
So if a man flirts with another woman, you finding that disrespectful is showing a lack of trust and its unhealthy and he should break up with you?
I didn’t say there weren’t common decency things in relationships, and if a man does that you shouldn’t be with him anyways. The point is when it goes beyond basic relationship understandings, that’s when the problem starts. For example, saying “you can’t wear x, y, z” is controlling.
But that's my point, women flirt with clothing, namely revealing clothing. Its goal is to get the guy to notice her and make a move. So when a woman goes out while wearing revealing clothing she is saying to every single man she comes across that she is single and looking because that is the message she is conveying (whether or not she thinks so is irrelevant, this is what is happening). I think that's really disrespectful and it isn't any different then a guy flirting with another woman, he can claim he isn't going to do anything that he is not going to cheat or what have you and it might be true but its incredibly disrespectful to your partner when you do that. Not saying any man can control what you wear but if your priority is showing off your tits or ass and not about respecting the relationship, well then he has no reason to be with you because clearly you've already prioritized the relationship beneath that of the male attention you get from others rather then him (again, you can argue that this isn't what a woman does when she reveals as much skin as possible (sexual), when she wears clothing designed specifically to accent her secondary sexual characteristics (again, sexual) or the makeup she wears that is by its design meant to mimic sexual arousal (blush, and lip stick to make the lips look fuller and flushed etc.).
I've never had any interest in setting some kind of rule about the way she dresses. I mean unless it's like, sexy passed the point of being socially appropriate.
I don't set up rules.
If she dresses sexually explicit and revealing... I don't date her.
Sounds as though you are not ready for a relationship.
I would never allow anyone else to decide what I can or cannot wear.
Wear what makes you feel aight, just remember you're with somebody.
If she has to be told... then she is not girlfriend material.
I would not force my girlfriend to wear what I want, but I also would not have a woman as a girlfriend, who dresses inappropriately.
I have made only one rule (and she agrees to it) that too much revealing clothes or mini skirt be avoided in public places, however, it is OK going to small, limited and frank gatherings.
No rules but I would hope the woman I am with would have the common courtesy to know not to bring skin attention to other men and want to dress modestly. I'd leave it up to her.
No but if she started to dress in a way that either offended or appalled me, I would just end the relationship.
I don't even know if I would state the reason other that I wasn't into her anymore.
Not really, except that I'd be hugely embarrassed if she wore super revealing clothing in public and if she wore thongs or any such I'd break up with her immediately.
That skirt better not show thine ankles harlot!
but on a serious note, I would prefer for her to dress more reserved but I wouldn't prohibit her, It honestly doesn't matter as long as she's loyal.
normally im happy that the girl im with dresses how she wants but once she was wearing a t shirt without a bra showing her nipples and the outline of her breasts. I was mostly disturbed by the way guys were looking at her
Thats ridiculous, nobody should give their partner rules except they have major issues as addiction for example.