I wouldn't. At the same time, I would not want her to be extremely younger or older than me. I think max age difference for me would be like 10 years (not 10 years younger than me for now lol). I have dated 2 girls till now and both were older than me by 3 years.
Absolutely not. I am 25 years old dating a 43 year old female. You'd be surprised how much fun you could have with someone thats a little bit older. More experience in many levels of life. Very smart sophisticated and different from most girls i have dated. I would say with age comes more knowledge and power. Well worth it dont let age stop you.
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First, i can't date someone who is 18+ and i can't date someone under the age of 16. At least from a legal stand point. I personally would not date anyone more than two years older or younger than me assuming they are over the age of consent (16 where im from including close-in-age exceptions). But I'm young so my standards are going to change. And id probably go with as long as their under 30 once i become 18 because i dont want a sterile/menopausal spouse untill i actually get the chance to water the garden if you will. A womens appeal comes from fertility and a 30 year old is not necessarily fertile.
I see it as a more primal instinct and natural standard compared to height requirements of being 6ft.
Absolutely not. Now I will be honest and say that I most likely wouldn't be sexually attracted to a woman that is in the 65 and older range, but even then, they still have the same tingles down there too.
I don't date my age or older. I date much younger for many reasons maturity matches up better for me and and they have more engery compared to older women. More inocent as in not been around the block like older women and she can have kids. Plus they have beauty going for them. I consider myself an innocent type of a person and that's the kind of woman I'm looking for
It would work I've seen many cases before. Plus when i get real old I want her to take care of me instead of just being shipped off to a nursing home to die all alone having A holes being mean to me at the home.
It doesn't have to be exactally 20 years I said 20s to 30. Besides I've seen many cases of those age gaps. There is one on this site i know of. If she's to old then she might not be able to keep up with my active life style I am an athlete
To old to close to my age. I think young and act young and dress young. I'm into pop music always have been. I'm not your avearage guy at my age. Women are a lot more more mature then men around the same age. I can't sit around waiting to go out to a musical with her and call it a nice weekend. I am adventuress. And like to be on the move
"Some guys say they want a fertile girl because they want kids but you also can adopt or there are many other options." That's not really the same thing, though. Don't get me wrong, I think adoption is great and the people who do it should recieve all the praise they can, but it's not for everyone. Some people, like me, want any eventually kids to actually be THEIR kid.
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But it is disgusting if men tries to marry a woman half their age.
When I was 17 I was with a 35 year old most of my relationships since then have been within 6 years apart. My last girlfriend was 22 and I was 50. We were together for a year and a half. I would never date a minor but otherwise it is, do we like each other or not?
Once you know and love is more difficult but at the beginning... Just because every age has different physical needs, so if we go too far is very easy she begins to ask for something you can't offer. By example, she is 20 you are 40, she will ask for going out every night, you can't follow the rhythm. On reverse its just the same.
I would only reject for being way too young. Older never been an issue for me cause I’m mature. But me in culinary classes most of the girls are 18-22 maybe. Me being 34 I wouldn’t feel right. I know I could miss a good person doing so but it doesn’t sit well. I know I’m not preying on them like a creep but it’s a big gap so I couldn’t. The youngest I went was 4 year difference and she lied tellin me she was 2 years younger than me at that point
Age. You marry a younger woman and one day you get old she runs away with younger man. This is why age must not be the issue. It's foundation I can really look upon. I wouldn't mind marrying someone older than me, or younger. I would marry someone who when I come home am not thinking of going out again.
There's a different cut off for everyone. I dont mind a woman a few years older or younger but I'd prefer she's in her 20s simply because I'm in my 20s and we are more likely to be in similar places in life.
I would personally prefer a girl my age, not too older or too younger... but I mean hey, if they come across as attractive and have good personality then I'd be down.
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Its not quite that simple. I would not reject a woman I was attracted to because of her age, but age is certainly a significant factor in attraction.
To put it another way, if I am attracted to a woman I don't care what her age is. But I will not be attracted in the first place to most women who are older than me.
If you are attracted to her then absolutely not her age should not matter in the least why would it matter and if it does then the door is open for someone else to be with her and hopefully this person will love her for who she is and not what she is
One of my first crushes was 7 years older than me she knew it too and didn't care. Just loved each other regardless. No reason to not see someone just cause they're older. Who knows they might add a new perspective to life🤷♂️
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I have no idea. My boyfriend and I started dating when I was 19 and he was 33. I’m not sure what made him choose me at such a young shoe but 6 years later were still together so I don't know
I have dated a 45 yr old lady and I loved her for real. So my age tolerance is 1-12 years difference.
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Today, if I meet woman who I like and she will be older then me I will not mind to date her.
I would say she can be max 45 ( I'm 34), I'm speaking about serious relationship.
Adoption I see not as equal replacement for your 'real' kids.
Obviously younger, as long as she is legal age and grown up mentality I do not mind.
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I definitely would. Not because I am less physically attracted to girls my age. But because they always used to reject me, when I was younger, for being ugly, balding etc. And now since I am educated, have a job and more muscle mass, they suddenly want me.
No thanks. They ignored me then, I'll ignore them now.
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I wouldn't. At the same time, I would not want her to be extremely younger or older than me. I think max age difference for me would be like 10 years (not 10 years younger than me for now lol). I have dated 2 girls till now and both were older than me by 3 years.
Absolutely not. I am 25 years old dating a 43 year old female. You'd be surprised how much fun you could have with someone thats a little bit older. More experience in many levels of life. Very smart sophisticated and different from most girls i have dated. I would say with age comes more knowledge and power. Well worth it dont let age stop you.
First, i can't date someone who is 18+ and i can't date someone under the age of 16. At least from a legal stand point. I personally would not date anyone more than two years older or younger than me assuming they are over the age of consent (16 where im from including close-in-age exceptions). But I'm young so my standards are going to change. And id probably go with as long as their under 30 once i become 18 because i dont want a sterile/menopausal spouse untill i actually get the chance to water the garden if you will. A womens appeal comes from fertility and a 30 year old is not necessarily fertile.
I see it as a more primal instinct and natural standard compared to height requirements of being 6ft.
Absolutely not. Now I will be honest and say that I most likely wouldn't be sexually attracted to a woman that is in the 65 and older range, but even then, they still have the same tingles down there too.
I don't date my age or older. I date much younger for many reasons maturity matches up better for me and and they have more engery compared to older women. More inocent as in not been around the block like older women and she can have kids. Plus they have beauty going for them. I consider myself an innocent type of a person and that's the kind of woman I'm looking for
How young?
20s up to 30
Oh that is very young. It us not weird for you to date girls half your age? My dad is in his 40s haha
They can have kids and like I said before.
That is a huge age gap about 20 years. I dont know it would work for you. A woman in her 30s also can get kids
It would work I've seen many cases before. Plus when i get real old I want her to take care of me instead of just being shipped off to a nursing home to die all alone having A holes being mean to me at the home.
Really 20 years age gap? Majority of women dont date older 6 years
It doesn't have to be exactally 20 years I said 20s to 30. Besides I've seen many cases of those age gaps. There is one on this site i know of. If she's to old then she might not be able to keep up with my active life style I am an athlete
Oh get it. But i think it would be ideal for youba womsn in her 30s
To old to close to my age. I think young and act young and dress young. I'm into pop music always have been. I'm not your avearage guy at my age. Women are a lot more more mature then men around the same age. I can't sit around waiting to go out to a musical with her and call it a nice weekend. I am adventuress. And like to be on the move
Sorry about the extra more
"Some guys say they want a fertile girl because they want kids but you also can adopt or there are many other options."
That's not really the same thing, though.
Don't get me wrong, I think adoption is great and the people who do it should recieve all the praise they can, but it's not for everyone. Some people, like me, want any eventually kids to actually be THEIR kid.
But it is disgusting if men tries to marry a woman half their age.
When I was 17 I was with a 35 year old most of my relationships since then have been within 6 years apart. My last girlfriend was 22 and I was 50. We were together for a year and a half. I would never date a minor but otherwise it is, do we like each other or not?
Once you know and love is more difficult but at the beginning... Just because every age has different physical needs, so if we go too far is very easy she begins to ask for something you can't offer.
By example, she is 20 you are 40, she will ask for going out every night, you can't follow the rhythm.
On reverse its just the same.
I would only reject for being way too young. Older never been an issue for me cause I’m mature. But me in culinary classes most of the girls are 18-22 maybe. Me being 34 I wouldn’t feel right. I know I could miss a good person doing so but it doesn’t sit well. I know I’m not preying on them like a creep but it’s a big gap so I couldn’t. The youngest I went was 4 year difference and she lied tellin me she was 2 years younger than me at that point
Age. You marry a younger woman and one day you get old she runs away with younger man. This is why age must not be the issue. It's foundation I can really look upon. I wouldn't mind marrying someone older than me, or younger. I would marry someone who when I come home am not thinking of going out again.
There's a different cut off for everyone. I dont mind a woman a few years older or younger but I'd prefer she's in her 20s simply because I'm in my 20s and we are more likely to be in similar places in life.
Honestly... Just as long as it's legal.
jk
I would personally prefer a girl my age, not too older or too younger... but I mean hey, if they come across as attractive and have good personality then I'd be down.
Its not quite that simple. I would not reject a woman I was attracted to because of her age, but age is certainly a significant factor in attraction.
To put it another way, if I am attracted to a woman I don't care what her age is. But I will not be attracted in the first place to most women who are older than me.
I hope that makes sense.
Depends... if too young which would be a no or at my age then depending on how we clicked then it might be a no or give a chance
But due to things not working out with women my age but I won't date anyone older than me that is a definite
If you are attracted to her then absolutely not her age should not matter in the least why would it matter and if it does then the door is open for someone else to be with her and hopefully this person will love her for who she is and not what she is
I didn't read the question right but with the update I will be brutally honest I'm 33 the youngest girl I have been with was 68 years young 😎😎😎
One of my first crushes was 7 years older than me she knew it too and didn't care. Just loved each other regardless.
No reason to not see someone just cause they're older. Who knows they might add a new perspective to life🤷♂️
I have no idea. My boyfriend and I started dating when I was 19 and he was 33. I’m not sure what made him choose me at such a young shoe but 6 years later were still together so I don't know
How old are you know? Is he not too old?
I just turned 25, and he’s 39. I don’t feel like he’s too old :)
Oh. He probably choose because of your youth. I mean i am sure that is not the only reason but a reason. Even 50 years old men want 18-21
I have dated a 45 yr old lady and I loved her for real. So my age tolerance is 1-12 years difference.
Today, if I meet woman who I like and she will be older then me I will not mind to date her.
I would say she can be max 45 ( I'm 34), I'm speaking about serious relationship.
Adoption I see not as equal replacement for your 'real' kids.
Obviously younger, as long as she is legal age and grown up mentality I do not mind.
I definitely would. Not because I am less physically attracted to girls my age. But because they always used to reject me, when I was younger, for being ugly, balding etc. And now since I am educated, have a job and more muscle mass, they suddenly want me.
No thanks. They ignored me then, I'll ignore them now.
Which age group do you prefer now?
And how old are you know?
Maybe 18-21
28
Why should a 18-21 would want a serious relationship with you? As you see young girls dont give a fuck about marriage and kids at that age
I don't give a fuck about marriage and kids either so
So you want a fuckbuddy? Why do you need a 18 girl for that? Someone your age can do that too
I already told you why
And do you find a woman your preference?