I think it's none of the above. Also because it's the wrong too. I'm picky about who I date, yet I still find women to date. My standards are high, and I am an odd duck. Many women had a time when they were fine wine, but that time has passed. Now they need a good personality because those looks aren't making up for flaws like wanting a 75/person first date. They either refuse to rise to the plate, can't, or lower THEIR standards. This is especially true of the age range you are in right now, the 20's are fresh in the memory, but it's feeling like time to settle down, get a good man and make some babies. Only issue is most of them settled down in their 20's and already have babies. Well, don't want a guy who has kids already. And/or they're divorced, nope, too many complications. So your pool remaining is guys who have little to no experience in long term relationships, and your expectation is a relationship.
Sorry for the rant, it just bothers be that you would want to physically assault someone for being white, single, and not lowering their standards because you won't either.
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From what I can tell, incels are people who were unable to find a romantic partner. It may have been due to their pickiness or being bullied a lot or something else. They were lonely and loveless for a while and then were lectured about how no matter what they thought, their loneliness was caused by being born wrong, and nothing could ever fix it.
I don't think they're picky, just lonely and hopeless and insecure. They reek of it. I've been there for non-incel reasons. It leads to a lot more rejection than usual as well as an unwillingness to believe a date cares back because nobody could ever love them. I picked B.
Honestly, I think that therapy and finding someone to care about them (friends, family) and have a social group to feel like they belong in are the best ways for them to heal. Then loving someone can be possible again. Ya dig it?
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I see both sides. I’m very picky, I was all told by my friends that my standards were “too high.” But I’ve been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half now, so I don’t think they were too high, I just hadn’t found the right person. I also was casually dating before we met, so I wasn’t an incel, because I was still getting laid lol.
I think what you have is a demographic that was raised/ taught “if you’re nice to a woman and you do sweet things for her, she’ll love you forever.” And that’s simply not true. Now, who’s at fault for that, that’s another topic. However, these men are frustrated when they date a woman and find out that’s NOT all that women want. Is part of it that they’re going after the wrong women? Most likely. But I think women also have very high standards for today’s men.
As for the bit about black women, I don’t know of any black women that pursue white men openly or exclusively.Other, I think it's hard for everyone to find a special someone just cause how the world is, I can kinda understand why someone would feel like no one want's them, but at the same time I really don't approve of giving up on it, because if you don't even try then how can you know for sure ya know?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y0l5nIx0Acw
Also about the picky thing there's a really funny song on it, ill see if I can link it real quick:No single women don’t even acknowledge men like incels in the dating world. it’s hypergamy you know the 80/20 rule. women only go over the top 20% of men. Women don’t even notice 80% of men in the world. That’s just reality. Those men literally can’t find people and that’s how it’s always been. It’s just now with social media they can vent their frustrations for the world to see
You think white men are the most sought after? Blacked. com and majority of white women would bed to differ.
Only if it's a female incel. You can't look at things from a women's point of view. Most guys don't have options. Some guys can create a tinder and not get a single match. Also this question is so fucking loaded
I'm answering this question with an "I don't give a shit", not because I'm trying to be rude, but because it's a legitimate response. I truly don't give a shit why incels choose to be intentionally celibate. Does anybody really care about that?
well if they are being picky then they aren't an incel, they are a volcel
Incels have mental illnesses; the rampage of shootings prove they are crazy.
They're just bad at relationships. They struggle to approach women or speak to them, and don't have what it takes to maintain a relationship when they do.
I'd think involuntary celibacy or at least percieved involuntary celibacy could be damaging long term. Maybe as simple as to much cock blocking going on
If she breathes, she's fuckable to me
I think your an incel
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