Is it "rude" not to congratulate someone who is having a baby? (Page 2)

Question

I mean, all she did was have sex. My co-worker says it was rude not to say congratulations.

clampfan101 · Answer

Birth is the miracle of life. Sounds very much worth congratulating to me. People congratulate others about birthdays too, even though it’s simply surviving another year.

Killjoys · Answer

Its rude but only because it's a social norm. Just go with it tbh. Not worth having to be so frank and having friction with everyone. So long as you know, its prolly enough :/

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

Yes it is. I think it's a great accomplishment to strife for procreative sex. So many people misuse sex and do it Satan's way by contraception and preventing life from beginning.

fonduegirl · Answer

For the sake of politeness, I congratulate if we're friends.

Laozi · Answer

I don't think it's rude. But just saying it (even you don't mean it) won't cost you anything.

outthere · Answer

I think if they have been trying for a baby and it's finally happening for then then sure, congrats. If a ho just gets knocked up out of nowhere because she's a ho then I fear for that child's well being.

Silent_Bob · Answer

No. Keeping quiet is only rude when someone specifically requests a response from you.

ivbnlknfru · Answer

Yeah rude, Its the beginning of a new life... A beautiful and wonderful moment... It is customary to congratulate and be happy for that person...😁👼

soleil2666 · Answer

If we are equal, it is the same as for the upcoming father (hood). You owe her nothing different than you owe a guy.

crazy8000 · Answer

Nope. If someone think's they are entitled of it is actually rude. Just because you are expecting isn't an free card to be a shithead.

Tommy2017 · Answer

Yes totally. In my culture pregnant women are congratulated. You might not know whether she willing wanted the child or not

October808 · Answer

Not rude. If it's not sincere comgratulations, say nothng.

Browneye57 · Answer

Yes, of course. You have no manners or social skills? No couth?

JermalTheBlackDog · Answer

No. I rather keep my mouth shut than saying something

genericname85 · Answer

i think if they didn't tell you that they'll have a baby, then not congratulating is fair.

DonCachondo · Answer

It all depends on perspective! To an antinatalist, for example, having a baby in the first place is "rude"--if not morally bankrupt.

ultimatecatfish · Answer

Depends. Perhaps it was not a happy incident of being pregnant.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Tell your coworker to F off. Also, even mentioning her pregnancy could land you an HR complaint.

Gamillions · Answer

ETIQUETTE. IF THAT MATTERS... THEN SAY IT. IF YOU DON'T GIVE A DAM... THEN DON'T SAY IT.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I say no. In fact most of the time, apologies are in order..

termanator · Answer

Societally it’s rude, as for me. I’m not really biased either way

Cage4 · Answer

They didn't only have sex. They're expecting a newborn to their family.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Is not rude but it's not good either. It's just neutral like minding your own business

michalpl00 · Answer

👏👏🤣🤣 hahahahaha the funniest thing i saw today, congrats for making me laugh

AH_1488 · Answer

Yes, if you win the lottery, all you did was buy a ticket. However, if she is unmarried, no congratulations is deserved.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

"Congratulations on laying on your back and spreading your legs."

Nikola99 · Answer

Yes it is. in my country everyone has to rip the guys shirt.

plus99A · Answer

Ex partners don't always feel that way. if they still love you.

ralph98 · Answer

If that person has a close rapport with u... then yes its rude.

Zsolt18 · Answer

I mean i think it might be rude to not congratulate them tbf

_food_lover234 · Answer

i mean yea, its kinda rude

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's not, and in fact, it could be considered as sexual harassment in the workplace

Ripper_E · Answer

No. That makes no sense.

AngelLily · Answer

I don't think it's rude but it is definitely nice.

Jeca8 · Answer

You are congratulate her for having baba, not sex

Iron_Man · Answer

So basically she's a whore your telling me?

tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ · Answer

Girls... Don't try to understand them.

Twalli · Answer

A lot of people have sex and don't get pregnant

anton_dee · Answer

Maybe not rude but courtesy.

ronaldo75 · Answer

It's actually incredibly dude.

Aiasis · Answer

No, it's not rude.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it is.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it is rude.

Sethupathimano · Answer

It depends

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Lol.

CT_CD · Answer

Not rude

TheAteam1978 · Answer

Yes dumbass

GreenGold1992 · Answer

yes it is very rude

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

No it's not

Slim57 · Answer

No who cares lol

JohnDeere73 · Answer

I hope not

dayalal · Answer

I'm 35 age men

Aravkothari · Answer

Yes,

nickw777 · Answer

That's just wrong

gautammm · Answer

No it's wrong

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