I don't think he likes me. What are some signs an extrovert guy likes you?

[Anonymous]

Life is chaos because boys don't how to express their feelings and love to play around while girls love to overthink. I am the girl here lol. This guy is my friend who I don't talk to much in person. So we are not strangers. In fact, we know some stuff about each other.

Honestly, at first, I thought he might be into me because of the everyday staring he has been doing and some other stuff such as listening to my conversations with other people, but he never approached me. My friend noticed too so it's not my imagination. It was so obvious that it felt like I was on his mind.

But these two days, all of sudden he been treating me like a normal person. We even had a conversation at lunch because we were supposed to sell tickets for a club. But, he wasn't nervous or anything. He was actually pretty chill. In fact, he initiated the conversation to broke the awkward silence, apparently, he thought I was still mad at him about something that happened yesterday. When the conversation end, I have to be all awkward saying I suck at small talks. He said I can talk to him about anything. So we had a normal conversation not really fun in any way. I did see him glance at me and then quickly look away when I caught him but I don't think it was anything.

What sucks about having a crush on an extrovert guy is seeing him talk to all his ladies' friends. He would laugh and joke around with them. While I have to sit there and pretend nothing is bothering me and that I am too busy to notice & care. He seems more himself around them. It kinda sucks. I don't know if it because we didn't talk much to reach that or if he is not comfortable with me. I know he cares about me a lot cause he said and showed it so many times but I feel like that's it. Maybe he doesn't have any feelings besides friends.

Guys just stare for fun. by the way just for future references, What are some signs an extrovert guy likes you?

[wonderwoman1994]

You literally just said everything im going through with my guy friend and crush. I think he likes you but doesn’t know how to behave around you because to him you’re different from his other girl who are just friends. He respects you and treats you like that because he values you maybe he likes you but in a more i admire you for being unique and special. My guy friend has showed me and has mentioned it how he cares about me. But he is not very comfortable with me like he is with his other friends. But dont look at it as a bad thing look at it as a positive. Try to be more around him and try to get to know him more and flirt with him here and there show him that you're interested in him if you're. Do whatever you can to get his attention. If you really like him. Pursue him ❤️😉

[Curiousdater]

Lol you know so flirt or just ask him out. Staring means he is thinking while looking so he might want to ask you out.

[Asker]

But I don't see any hints of him liking me other than the staring. And the staring could mean something else

[Curiousdater]

Well maybe there might not be but you like him so let him know it. Really he won't know unless you tell him.

[Asker]

I don’t want to tell him though. I am not ready and no one else said anything so I think that indicate I am right that he does not like me

[Curiousdater]

Well wait then

[farhaan7]

Nope we don't we stare only the ones who we feel either are interesting or are physically attractive.