Do teen guys today only really like girls with big butt/big boobs/perfect hourglass figure? Why do all the guys I know have a girlfriend w/ this body?

[Anonymous]

I know I shouldn’t base my worth on my appearance and wondering how guys view me, but it’s so difficult when you’re exposed to social media with all these perfect bodies and I see all these girls in my school that have what society calls a perfect body ☹️ i’m slender and 5’3 just a little over 100 lbs, but I don’t have a huge ass or huge boobs. I also have minor hip dips which I feel takes away from the subtle hourglass figure I have. If I had round hips, I would have a perfect hourglass figure. I think it would really increase my self confidence if I didn’t have hip dips but... being an adolescent I’d still probably find something to dislike about myself. But because of the hips dips, it feels like my hips and my ass from behind look square and it makes me feel really self conscious... I was once in the hallway at school and some guys behind me were snickering and saying “shes flat”. Certain clothes from the front make me look rectangular. The best way to describe how it feels... I feel like a little girl. Like I’m not womanly enough. Or if I try to dress up, like a little girl playing dress up with her moms clothes. I wouldn’t say I’m flat exactly but everything about me is very petite. I have a nice face and a good personality, though I’m kinda reserved... my body just feels detached from me in a way? I just feel self conscious all the time and I want to hide my body so I often do. A lot of girls say they’re envious of how thin I am, but I just wish I had their curves! It’s funny how we all want a component of someone else that we ourselves don’t have... and the only boys that have really shown interest in me are vulgar ones I’m a sophomore in highschool by the way

[RohitLakra]

The grass always look greener on the other side. Trust me it's just a stupid concern that every girl has in this age because of the ongoing trend for perfect body for women. You should blame women like Kardashians and Pornstars for it. Anyway I don't think a person who will actually like you in your 20s would even care about it. As long as you have a good health, you are fine. The stories of teenage love turning into marriage later on is full on crap and extremely rare. You should worry more about your education and your goals for now. My only tip to you is to go on dates with guys and never be forced to have sex just because of the silly thought that the guy would leave you for another girl if you won't have sex. If that's the case, he isn't the right guy for your life.

[RohitLakra]

I kinda got diverted from the topic but I felt like I should tell you about such things. Gosh! I have so much more to say.

[Tyrael]

I'm definitely not a teenager anymore, but I can tell you that when I was a teenager I had my preferences and there wasn't a particular body type I was interested in.

Personality plays a lot into it as well, looks will only get you so far with certain guys. The guys who aren't shallow and actually have some substance. Don't worry, you still have some growing to do and seem like you have a sensible head on your shoulders. You'll be fine.

[FilmGuy93]

Uhh, well... the big thing to remember is that absolutely none of the people in your life actually have the kind of body you're talking about in highschool. It literally doesn't happen. And even if it did happen, teenage boys will shove their dicks into anything that's warm wet and willing.

[EspressoTeen234]

I don't really care as much about looks just personality and if you like the persons personality traits enough to take them on a date to the local pizza parlor in this wide world of teenager dating. Of course, I'm not going to date when I'm 14.

[Curmudgeon]

"i’m slender and 5’3 just a little over 100 lbs"

Trust me, a lot of men think that's just great.

[Avicenna]

Probably just coincidence. Most guys happily date women of various body types even though they have a preference.

[Anonymous]

Well it is not just teen guys that have that preference.

[Anonymous]

Are you serious? ALL the guys you know have girlfriends with big boobs and hourglass figures? Who are these dudes?

[akay77]

No , every guy have different perspective , for me a girl good heart nd nature is beautiful

[Anonymous]

Those guys are brainwashed with the rap videos kind of girls?