I know I shouldn’t base my worth on my appearance and wondering how guys view me, but it’s so difficult when you’re exposed to social media with all these perfect bodies and I see all these girls in my school that have what society calls a perfect body ☹️ i’m slender and 5’3 just a little over 100 lbs, but I don’t have a huge ass or huge boobs. I also have minor hip dips which I feel takes away from the subtle hourglass figure I have. If I had round hips, I would have a perfect hourglass figure. I think it would really increase my self confidence if I didn’t have hip dips but... being an adolescent I’d still probably find something to dislike about myself. But because of the hips dips, it feels like my hips and my ass from behind look square and it makes me feel really self conscious... I was once in the hallway at school and some guys behind me were snickering and saying “shes flat”. Certain clothes from the front make me look rectangular. The best way to describe how it feels... I feel like a little girl. Like I’m not womanly enough. Or if I try to dress up, like a little girl playing dress up with her moms clothes. I wouldn’t say I’m flat exactly but everything about me is very petite. I have a nice face and a good personality, though I’m kinda reserved... my body just feels detached from me in a way? I just feel self conscious all the time and I want to hide my body so I often do. A lot of girls say they’re envious of how thin I am, but I just wish I had their curves! It’s funny how we all want a component of someone else that we ourselves don’t have... and the only boys that have really shown interest in me are vulgar ones I’m a sophomore in highschool by the way
Do teen guys today only really like girls with big butt/big boobs/perfect hourglass figure? Why do all the guys I know have a girlfriend w/ this body?
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