Why a guy never pursued a girl (like me)?

[Anonymous]

So I’m just wondering why there are girls that guys don’t go after for.

In my case, I am already 27 and never once a guy actively pursued me. Some has shown interest but I steered them away and well they don’t put up. I believe I am attractive by standard and friends says too. I am fit. I am a bit of a snob and I’m also an accountant.

So what makes guys perceive that some girls aren’t worth of trying to be pursued?

[standingUP]

So you're snob that steers guys away. As an accountant i do not see how can not add this up for yourself.
Ok get your calculator out. Snob + PUSH = NEGATIVE RESULTS.
You're going to need new fractions to work with. Lighten up and be positive about all things you can muster to be grateful for and be inviting in conversation. This will attract people your way and keep in mind it is not a game to push people away and expect them to pursue you, That usually brings charges so thank your fellow female friends before you that ruined that for you. If you want a man you have to be engaging.

[Mikeilito]

You acting a snob! Can smell that Miles away and if all the things a girl should never do cause it’s one of the ugliest to do and that’s play the part of a SNOB it’s a turn off enidiatly never looking back or thinking of you again!! There’s your problem know one ever bothered you again once happened right

[potatoiswhoiam]

You might seem intimidating or unapproachable. And you said it, some guys were interested but you steered them away, so it's not like guys don't approach you. The type of guys pursuing girls thing like you see it in the movies doesn't exist in real life unless it's some creep who likes to bother girls and enjoys continuous rejection. Guys show subtle interest, they're not necessary direct, and if they see a good response from you, they make another step. It's a mutual thing.

[101dalmation]

Maybe they are intimated by your career and the snob aspect

[walt0462]

Wwl i believe you answered your own question... with the guys that had shown some interest in you.. you have steered them away. and you said that you're a snob. so word have gotten around and now guys simple dont even try any more so basically your Attitude and or Personality is totally a turn off to all men with any type of Self respect.. therefore if you're want to attract men you have to change your attitude and do something that will get yourself noticed... JS

[letssee89]

You said it yourself in the description of your question. You openly say that you actively steer interested guys away and that you are a snob. Most guys see that personality and run away. We don't want that in our lives.

[Dchrls78104]

You said "I'm a bit of a snob". You also said "I'm an accountant". How long, then, would you put up with snobby behaviour from a man you were interested in? How long would your interest last? Would you even enjoy working with a snobby, disrespectful boss?

[serious]

Tough to say, it can either be a physical or personality aspect of the woman which the man might find repulsive.

[BlackWidow93]

That's my question and guys have told me that my demeanor can sometimes be seen as cold or bitchy or unapproachable

[wolfunknown]

Maybe you don't notice it but there must be many who admire you and would want to be with you.

[nawtee_me]

Steering them away might give a guy the idea you don't want a him or maybe even a guy at all. I don't know because you don't have a pic of you for me to see for myself.

[Prime_Sol]

You sound boring.
What do you have that would even make you stand out?

[Smirnoff23]

Could be your attitude towards them when you steer them away

[Anonymous]

You're too old
You're not hot
Too flat-chested
Too short
Not slutty enough

[FrenchyRomain]

attitude
"i'm a bit of a snob" 100% a turn off

[In_Trance]

you answered your own question

[more_than_a_guy]

Snob is a turn off.