I like a guy but he has many red flags, keep going or let it go? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2020-07-01T12:55:29Z

I like a guy and he had a weird behaviour, he kept throwing another girl in my face when i told him that i like him. i dig deeper and understood that he has not yet moved on from his first relationship since 2 years while his ex has already moved on. He still puts her on a pedestal. Also he lies with his parents and family that the girl and him are still together. When i pointed these things out he went on and erased everything on his account. I made him understand that he needs to move on and that i won't be his rebound and will wait for him to heal. I even sent him videos on letting go and all. When i said that he went back and added the girl in the description of his profile. I feel mentally drained since then and told him we will talk in 3 months. i met him 4 months ago at the temple and i don't know why we met but i really want him to move on from his first love so that he does not suffer. Also since i pointed out everything, he only reads my messages but don't reply. do you think i should keep doing what i am doing or let it go now?

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Tryach Follow
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Just move on, it's for the best.

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Barbaric Follow
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Nah, move on.

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Cherokeehp Follow
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Let it go.

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Let it go.

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Milli95 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 29

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Let go dont waate your time, he's a poison

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Why would you keep going?

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maadison Follow
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Yea move on

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reptocarl2 Follow
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Let go

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Jasoft Follow
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As long as both our happy that all that matters

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Keep going.

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- Asker
  
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  why you say this?
  
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- jestergent
  
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  Go on a few websites and check red flags. If say it lists 25 flags and he's hit 6. No worries. Hits 10.. yellow zone. Hits 20 of 25,
  
  GET IN THE CHOPPA NOOWWW.
  
  Predator is coming. Cloaked and all.
  
  It's okay to hit a few. Once there are too many it becomes an ACCEPT IT scenario. Accept that you might be seeing the tip of an ice Berg.
  
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- Asker
  
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  haha what a story :P
  
  I agree these are only few red flags but his stubbornness and unresponsiveness are enough driving my mind crazy! I Like him a lot but i don't want to pressure him and allow frustration to get into the way else i'll definitely end up hating him. Let him go, he needs time to realise many things. If we are meant to be together, the universe will conspire :D
  
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Let it go

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Anonymous
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Is it true that Jewish girls are freaks in bed?

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appelstroop Follow
Xper 2 Age: 51

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Loose him.. Bad news

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Cue frozen song...

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