On Facebook dating, I found a decent man. What can I do? I texted other men and stopped texting them? This is different from other men?

[TheSimFans]

I match with a new man that started texting and started trying to get to know me and has text me more often than I expected. Was interested but after was started texting about Sims as a game. Both like the same game but he didn't get to play but did always watch while is sister did. One of my sisters play Sims 2. You can experiment in Sims without risking anything in real life, but there is always a balance there. make sure to go outside. did text about online safety and scamming. Learning from other people you don't have. i stopped going to youth club in northwich since is was good but i got bored to easy and is was also and sometime is can be loud , the new guy that i been texting has be going good so far and hasn't seen any red flags. some green flags. with having common interested in same game of sims series. I also like video games and video calling could be a good ideal if plan the time and dates to make but i making sure i going slower and see how goes with one guy. i stopped going on some dating apps and let rest fall in line if not. i don't care attitude then and i will blocked user if i have and i will. that what did with older guy. some guys with some metal heath issue. that i don't really want to date. i seem to be more attracted to guys that has traits with autism. also like shy men. I have stopped dating on these disabled dating sites since i kept getting reply by men that i already replied no i'm not interested. This hasn't gotten the hit that i'm not interested. I got very uncomfortable with disabled dating.

[Anonymous]

It's great to hear that you've found someone on Facebook dating that you're interested in and that you're taking a slower approach to dating to see how things go with him. It's also important to prioritize your own well-being and to set boundaries that feel comfortable for you.

It's understandable that you may have preferences for certain traits or characteristics in a partner, such as shyness or traits associated with autism. However, it's important to approach any relationship with an open mind and to communicate openly and honestly with your partner.

It's also important to trust your instincts and to prioritize your own safety and well-being. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure about someone you're talking to on a dating app or website, it's okay to set boundaries or to stop communicating with them.

Remember that dating is a process and it's okay to take your time and to be selective about who you choose to date. It's important to be true to yourself and to prioritize your own happiness and well-being in any relationship.

[TheSimFans]

is has be balanced of being selective but too picky that can't get anywhere. he said in his bio that he want a friends as first then a relationship after being friends. has we had a lots things common. one game on PC called sims and like pizza. did get a some red flags with other guys. the guy that i been texting and hasn't yet see any red flags. some green flags.

[Opinion Owner]

It's important to find the right balance when it comes to being selective in dating. It's good to have standards and know what you're looking for, but being too picky can limit your options and prevent you from finding a good match. It sounds like you're taking a measured approach and being careful about who you invest your time and energy into.

It's great that you and this guy have a lot in common and that he's interested in getting to know you as a friend first. That can be a good foundation for a healthy and lasting relationship. It's also promising that you haven't seen any red flags so far.

As you continue to get to know him, make sure to communicate openly and honestly about your feelings, expectations, and boundaries. Take things at a pace that feels comfortable for you, and don't be afraid to speak up if something doesn't feel right. Ultimately, trust your instincts and prioritize your own well-being.

[SteveSmith1985]

Hey... I'm really glad you met a decent guy on Facebook dating! That's great that things seem to be going well. I think a video-call at some point soon makes sense. If you're already chatting, I don't think that asking to video-call is taking things "too fast." It's good to help make sure you're talking to the person you THINK you're talking to.

But I'm not sure if I understand what it is you're asking here? What can you do? for what? Aren't things going well doing what you're already doing? Please let me know if I missed the question part here. Otherwise, congratulations! I hope things work out with this guy. 🙂

[TheSimFans]

didn't met yet but maybe one day will but i want to take slow and not to fast. the thing that is bit a question does being friends help more with getting closer and forming connect from start and maybe is could learn on something more. if both has mural consent is also very important. the guy also has autism. he was is honest on his bio on his profile Facebook dating. both like the sims. i still kinda new to online dating. Facebook dating has be successful then other dating app.

[SteveSmith1985]

Ohh... I didn't realize you were new to online dating. Just because I knew you had totally put yourself out there and were meeting guys and whatnot. I didn't realize it was all in-person. Good for you! Seriously... I don't know if most girls could get that kind of attention from guys if it was only in-person.

Anyways, personally, I have always found that being friends does indeed help with getting closer and forming that connection. To be honest, usually that's easier to do in person (you just don't overtly hit on her... and just be a friend... so you end up "friends" eventhough you like her).

It's a little different if you met someone on a dating-specific site. Just because it's implied that the expectation is that you are looking for someone to be MORE than just friends with.

However... like most relationship problems, this can be solved by a simple: "open and honest conversation."

So if you want to just be friends for now, that's fine. As long as you explain your thinking and intentions to him. Because unless you do, he will be rightly confused... because right now it's implied that you're talking to each other "on a romantic footing." But as long as you're clear about your intentions, what you want, and what your thinking is (like let him know you want to be friends in hopes of becoming romantic later assuming you end up likeing each other as you get closer as friends).

Just be up-front about what you're doing, and there's no problem at all.

And I noticed that about the Sims! It made me laugh... because your username already makes me chuckle. So I totally didn't miss it when you mentioned that he was also a SimFan. 🙂

[TheSimFans]

We are not yet friends. Just started texting each other from online dating sites that are Facebook dating. My friends have always rejected me. I feel sincere since they are only interested in making friends and doing it. Facebook dating, he did make clear to start off as a friend then find a partner a bit later on.

[SteveSmith1985]

Well if he has already made it clear that he wants to be friends first, and that's what you'd like as well... then it sounds like you're on your way to becoming friends. You just started talking, but friendship happens at some undefined point after two people start talking. SO you're on your way to becoming friends.

Just because your friends always reject you, doesn't mean that friendship isn't still a great way to get to know someone and to build a connection. It doesn't mean that you two will end up right for each other once you get to know each other better. But that's ok... if that's the case, at least you've got a friend (unless of course he turns out to be a jerk or something)

[TheSimFans]

I am already not looking for friendship. I was just looking for a partner. Couldn't get anywhere near real life for most guys that were taken orn not interest. My experience with guys has been more of a bad experience. Also bad experiences with friendship.

[LickwidSkie]

Just do what you feel is right for you. If you like the guy and things are going good, just keep talking and see where it goes.